I went to visit a swingers club for the first time. AMA

[Anonymous]

Ha ha. I guessed OP was in her 40s as soon as I saw the post.

Why? Because this is the time when the hormones go berserk for women and they become randy like a teenage boy. It lasts for a decade.

Apart from that...the dark path you may walk now for sex will bite you in a big way when the haze gets over.

So look, but don't touch. Be monogamous with your spouse and use toys if you need to.

[Anonymous]

I'm glad you posted OP. BF and I have been discussing attending an event. So far we haven't gotten beyond talking.

[Anonymous]

I went to one and it was actually very pleasant experience. Entry was only through women and she took me with her and we watched first for a couple of visits and then engaged in activities. Very fun place if you are open to it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ha ha. I guessed OP was in her 40s as soon as I saw the post.

Why? Because this is the time when the hormones go berserk for women and they become randy like a teenage boy. It lasts for a decade.

Apart from that...the dark path you may walk now for sex will bite you in a big way when the haze gets over.

So look, but don't touch. Be monogamous with your spouse and use toys if you need to.

I am in 40s and don't get my hormones like this and also none of my friends either, lol. I would like to know what is causing women in 40s to be like this.

[Anonymous]

I appreciate you sharing, OP. And I'm glad you enjoyed yourself. From my perspective, it just sounds sad and empty (which I realize is a me issue). Did you worry about being recognized? And what was the cost financially?

[Anonymous]

Yikes.
To each their own, I guess

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ha ha. I guessed OP was in her 40s as soon as I saw the post.

Why? Because this is the time when the hormones go berserk for women and they become randy like a teenage boy. It lasts for a decade.

Apart from that...the dark path you may walk now for sex will bite you in a big way when the haze gets over.

So look, but don't touch. Be monogamous with your spouse and use toys if you need to.

I am in 40s and don't get my hormones like this and also none of my friends either, lol. I would like to know what is causing women in 40s to be like this.

I'm "randy like a teenage boy" but 1. I always have been and 2. I have unusually high testosterone for a woman and always have. Perimenopause began at 35 and was a ride but seems to have calmed down at 41.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ha ha. I guessed OP was in her 40s as soon as I saw the post.

Why? Because this is the time when the hormones go berserk for women and they become randy like a teenage boy. It lasts for a decade.

Apart from that...the dark path you may walk now for sex will bite you in a big way when the haze gets over.

So look, but don't touch. Be monogamous with your spouse and use toys if you need to.

I am in 40s and don't get my hormones like this and also none of my friends either, lol. I would like to know what is causing women in 40s to be like this.

I'm "randy like a teenage boy" but 1. I always have been and 2. I have unusually high testosterone for a woman and always have. Perimenopause began at 35 and was a ride but seems to have calmed down at 41.

Ok, then I think you are the only one that is blessed with it. With weight gain, body aches, mood swings and all hormonal mess-up, it is rare to see women having high sex drive in their 40s but you enjoy as much as you could.,

[Anonymous]

OP didn't answer the valet question, which was by far my favorite.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Where is it located generally and did you run into people you know or was it costumed like eyes wide shut

This is making me giggle. No masks but there were plenty of "costumes" on the ladies. Lingerie, strappy bondage type sets, minidresses with tall boots, sheer tops, etc. The guys were all dressed like they were going to dinner or a club- slacks, collared shirt, nice shoes.

So no men in a$$less chaps?

Ha! Not this time but I’m sure there’re will be for theme parties!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you bi OP?

No, but I can appreciate a beautiful woman and a nice pair of boobs. Boobs are fun too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do they have a no cell phone, monitors, no recording policy? I can imagine a lot of careers could be jeopardized.

Recording and pics can only happen with consent of everyone involved. You get to hang on to your phone and they trust you to follow the rules. We didn’t see people with their phones out unless they were grabbing contact info or taking a pic for their own use. But no one was on the dance floor just taking pics.

Anyone who shares pics of you would also implicate themselves as having been there so I am not super worried about that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Ha ha. I guessed OP was in her 40s as soon as I saw the post.

Why? Because this is the time when the hormones go berserk for women and they become randy like a teenage boy. It lasts for a decade.

Apart from that...the dark path you may walk now for sex will bite you in a big way when the haze gets over.

So look, but don't touch. Be monogamous with your spouse and use toys if you need to.

Yep- you have me pegged! Raging hormones like a teenage boy. It’s fun

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm glad you posted OP. BF and I have been discussing attending an event. So far we haven't gotten beyond talking.

Glad I can help. This felt like going to a safe and secure dance club. No one was propositioning me or trying to grab me. No lines at the bar. The vibe is sexy and the music was great.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm glad you posted OP. BF and I have been discussing attending an event. So far we haven't gotten beyond talking.

Glad I can help. This felt like going to a safe and secure dance club. No one was propositioning me or trying to grab me. No lines at the bar. The vibe is sexy and the music was great.

What kind of music?