How to talk to 14yo about waiting to have sex

Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I see a shocking amount of people on this thread advocating abstinence-only.


Yes, at 14 and 15, absolutely.


Absolutely right.


Ok let us know how that works out for all of you. I plan to have a more realistic approach with my teen.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I see a shocking amount of people on this thread advocating abstinence-only.


Yes, at 14 and 15, absolutely.


Absolutely right.


Ok let us know how that works out for all of you. I plan to have a more realistic approach with my teen.


Good for you. Now keep your amoral “parenting” to yourself. You’re too cool.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I see a shocking amount of people on this thread advocating abstinence-only.


Yes, at 14 and 15, absolutely.


Absolutely right.


Ok let us know how that works out for all of you. I plan to have a more realistic approach with my teen.


“More realistic approach” = sex at a young age. 😞

I would do anything to help my daughter avoid this.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I see a shocking amount of people on this thread advocating abstinence-only.


Yes, at 14 and 15, absolutely.


Absolutely right.


Ok let us know how that works out for all of you. I plan to have a more realistic approach with my teen.


Don’t be surprised if they end up pregnant
Anonymous
Girls who have sex at 14/15 get called slut. The slurs are awful. Everyone finds out. Avoid avoid avoid.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I see a shocking amount of people on this thread advocating abstinence-only.


Yes, at 14 and 15, absolutely.


Absolutely right.


Ok let us know how that works out for all of you. I plan to have a more realistic approach with my teen.


What a terrible excuse of a parent you are.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I see a shocking amount of people on this thread advocating abstinence-only.


Yes, at 14 and 15, absolutely.


Absolutely right.


Ok let us know how that works out for all of you. I plan to have a more realistic approach with my teen.


What a terrible excuse of a parent you are.


No darling. Sticking your head in the sand and pretending that teenagers don’t have sex is irresponsible and reckless. Do better.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I see a shocking amount of people on this thread advocating abstinence-only.


Yes, at 14 and 15, absolutely.


Absolutely right.


Ok let us know how that works out for all of you. I plan to have a more realistic approach with my teen.


“More realistic approach” = sex at a young age. 😞

I would do anything to help my daughter avoid this.


No it doesn’t. It means proper sex education and telling them what to actually expect instead of some pie in the sky “just don’t have sex” BS.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I see a shocking amount of people on this thread advocating abstinence-only.


Yes, at 14 and 15, absolutely.


Absolutely right.


Ok let us know how that works out for all of you. I plan to have a more realistic approach with my teen.


What a terrible excuse of a parent you are.


No darling. Sticking your head in the sand and pretending that teenagers don’t have sex is irresponsible and reckless. Do better.


No honey. Giving sound advice and guidance to abstain is what a parent is supposed to do. Try being a parent rather than being a friend.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I see a shocking amount of people on this thread advocating abstinence-only.


Yes, at 14 and 15, absolutely.


Absolutely right.


Ok let us know how that works out for all of you. I plan to have a more realistic approach with my teen.


What a terrible excuse of a parent you are.


No darling. Sticking your head in the sand and pretending that teenagers don’t have sex is irresponsible and reckless. Do better.


We know teens have sex. With parents like you, of course they do.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I see a shocking amount of people on this thread advocating abstinence-only.


Yes, at 14 and 15, absolutely.


Absolutely right.


Ok let us know how that works out for all of you. I plan to have a more realistic approach with my teen.


Good for you. Now keep your amoral “parenting” to yourself. You’re too cool.


I would bet anything that my approach works better and also delayed my son having sex. I plan to take all of the tabu out of it and properly prepare him for what could happen.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I see a shocking amount of people on this thread advocating abstinence-only.


Yes, at 14 and 15, absolutely.


Absolutely right.


Ok let us know how that works out for all of you. I plan to have a more realistic approach with my teen.


What a terrible excuse of a parent you are.


No darling. Sticking your head in the sand and pretending that teenagers don’t have sex is irresponsible and reckless. Do better.


No honey. Giving sound advice and guidance to abstain is what a parent is supposed to do. Try being a parent rather than being a friend.


Oh brother. Take it to your Sunday school, Susan. You’re full of shit.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I see a shocking amount of people on this thread advocating abstinence-only.


Yes, at 14 and 15, absolutely.


Absolutely right.


Ok let us know how that works out for all of you. I plan to have a more realistic approach with my teen.


“More realistic approach” = sex at a young age. 😞

I would do anything to help my daughter avoid this.


No it doesn’t. It means proper sex education and telling them what to actually expect instead of some pie in the sky “just don’t have sex” BS.


My parents educated me and also told me not to. I respected them and listened. You are a lazy parent.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I see a shocking amount of people on this thread advocating abstinence-only.


Yes, at 14 and 15, absolutely.


Absolutely right.


Ok let us know how that works out for all of you. I plan to have a more realistic approach with my teen.


What a terrible excuse of a parent you are.


No darling. Sticking your head in the sand and pretending that teenagers don’t have sex is irresponsible and reckless. Do better.


We know teens have sex. With parents like you, of course they do.


Teens have been having sex for as long as humans have existed. Go ahead and fight biology. Proper protection and education is what they need. Not morons for parents.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I see a shocking amount of people on this thread advocating abstinence-only.


Yes, at 14 and 15, absolutely.


Absolutely right.


Ok let us know how that works out for all of you. I plan to have a more realistic approach with my teen.


“More realistic approach” = sex at a young age. 😞

I would do anything to help my daughter avoid this.


No it doesn’t. It means proper sex education and telling them what to actually expect instead of some pie in the sky “just don’t have sex” BS.


My parents educated me and also told me not to. I respected them and listened. You are a lazy parent.



I love how you all assumed that I would tell him to go ahead and have sex. Not preaching absitance does not mean telling them to have sex FFS. You all just aren’t very bright.

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