Why do women date or marry guys with cheating pasts?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You guessed wrong but also because they think it won't happen to them or that they're different than the other spouse and it was the other spouse's fault. Then they realize it's a pattern, and GL picking up the pieces.

It makes them think they are special and their “magic” veejay and prowess will keep him from straying. He will cheat on her too. She will see in time...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men like variety. If they can't have sex with other women, they look at hella porn. Each man cheats on his spouse either in reality or by lusting after other women "in his heart." I am not sure there is any way to bypass this situation unless you marry a eunuch or some dude with real low "T".

Women like variety just as much. What a misogynistic myth that women wouldn’t get tired of the same man but men would tire of the same woman. Women historically have been less able to cheat because 1) we were saddled with the kids at all hours and 2) we were totally economically dependent on men so we’d risk losing everything. Not so anymore.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:b/c alphas f***. women want the alpha man.

Incel alert. Hey bro, get into therapy and someday you may actually get a woman to like and respect you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I met him when he was 24. His girlfriend had cheated on him and his dad was a serial cheater.

He was so vehemently anti-cheating. He was scarred by it.

He cheated on me and had a full-blown affair at 45-48 years old.

Never saw it coming. So out of character.

But haven't you also said he had a one-night stand or something like that early in your marriage that you forgave, or am I thinking of another dcum'er?

You sound crazy.

"Crazy" PP here. Nah, I'm actually positive it's the same poster who's been talking about her DH's affair for months now; I was just being polite by room for doubt. We all know her story inside and out. And which details she includes changes to suit her narrative in the moment.

Now, if you mean crazy for recognizing her, well...maybe.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I met him when he was 24. His girlfriend had cheated on him and his dad was a serial cheater.

He was so vehemently anti-cheating. He was scarred by it.

He cheated on me and had a full-blown affair at 45-48 years old.

Never saw it coming. So out of character.

But haven't you also said he had a one-night stand or something like that early in your marriage that you forgave, or am I thinking of another dcum'er?

You sound crazy.

"Crazy" PP here. Nah, I'm actually positive it's the same poster who's been talking about her DH's affair for months now; I was just being polite by room for doubt. We all know her story inside and out. And which details she includes changes to suit her narrative in the moment.

Now, if you mean crazy for recognizing her, well...maybe.

Np. I gotta wonder if you have a life outside of dcum at all to recognize an anon poster on this site.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I met him when he was 24. His girlfriend had cheated on him and his dad was a serial cheater.

He was so vehemently anti-cheating. He was scarred by it.

He cheated on me and had a full-blown affair at 45-48 years old.

Never saw it coming. So out of character.

But haven't you also said he had a one-night stand or something like that early in your marriage that you forgave, or am I thinking of another dcum'er?

You sound crazy.

"Crazy" PP here. Nah, I'm actually positive it's the same poster who's been talking about her DH's affair for months now; I was just being polite by room for doubt. We all know her story inside and out. And which details she includes changes to suit her narrative in the moment.

Now, if you mean crazy for recognizing her, well...maybe.

Np. I gotta wonder if you have a life outside of dcum at all to recognize an anon poster on this site.

[Anonymous]

They date them because they're typically fat insecure toads who are looking for a sugar daddy so add lazy to that.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I met him when he was 24. His girlfriend had cheated on him and his dad was a serial cheater.

He was so vehemently anti-cheating. He was scarred by it.

He cheated on me and had a full-blown affair at 45-48 years old.

Never saw it coming. So out of character.

But haven't you also said he had a one-night stand or something like that early in your marriage that you forgave, or am I thinking of another dcum'er?

You sound crazy.

"Crazy" PP here. Nah, I'm actually positive it's the same poster who's been talking about her DH's affair for months now; I was just being polite by room for doubt. We all know her story inside and out. And which details she includes changes to suit her narrative in the moment.

Now, if you mean crazy for recognizing her, well...maybe.

Np. I gotta wonder if you have a life outside of dcum at all to recognize an anon poster on this site.

Does anyone have a life outside right now?! For the record, I've seen other posters call her out in previous threads, so there are a lot of us losers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:They date them because they're typically fat insecure toads who are looking for a sugar daddy so add lazy to that.

WTF? I haven't known a ton of high status men looking for arm candy trophy wives who date "fat insecure toads." If you're going to be a misogynist a-hole you should at least get your tropes right.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I met him when he was 24. His girlfriend had cheated on him and his dad was a serial cheater.

He was so vehemently anti-cheating. He was scarred by it.

He cheated on me and had a full-blown affair at 45-48 years old.

Never saw it coming. So out of character.

But haven't you also said he had a one-night stand or something like that early in your marriage that you forgave, or am I thinking of another dcum'er?

You sound crazy.

"Crazy" PP here. Nah, I'm actually positive it's the same poster who's been talking about her DH's affair for months now; I was just being polite by room for doubt. We all know her story inside and out. And which details she includes changes to suit her narrative in the moment.

Now, if you mean crazy for recognizing her, well...maybe.

Np. I gotta wonder if you have a life outside of dcum at all to recognize an anon poster on this site.

Does anyone have a life outside right now?! For the record, I've seen other posters call her out in previous threads, so there are a lot of us losers.

I think the pp calling out continually is the OW.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was watching the Jerry Springer show

End thread.
The source is some bullshit.
No credibility for OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was watching the Jerry Springer show today and it reminded me of the women of DCUM who say they dated or married a former cheater without caring if they cheated in the past. Most of the women on the show were redneck or trashy but I guess I expected women with higher standards in this area?

Hmmm. You have a warped sense of reality. THE CHEATERS are the trash, not the betrayed spouses.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I was watching the Jerry Springer show today and it reminded me of the women of DCUM who say they dated or married a former cheater without caring if they cheated in the past. Most of the women on the show were redneck or trashy but I guess I expected women with higher standards in this area?

Hmmm. You have a warped sense of reality. THE CHEATERS are the trash, not the betrayed spouses.

The UMC married women cheating on dating and affairs APPs are really classy according to OP. But, the trashy faithful, unsuspecting educated spouses are the 'guilty' ones in her eyes. I guess we can spot a cheater in that post.

[Anonymous]

Women are attracted to men that other women are attracted to. The fact that other women line up for them creates mystery and cancels out any creepy vibes. Suddenly, they’re competing for someone instead of being bored or turned off by them.

- just an observation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I was watching the Jerry Springer show today and it reminded me of the women of DCUM who say they dated or married a former cheater without caring if they cheated in the past. Most of the women on the show were redneck or trashy but I guess I expected women with higher standards in this area?

What channel does one find Jerry Springer on these days?