Why do women date or marry guys with cheating pasts?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some of you are so heavily biased the poison of your own biased projection just drips from every word. There are a lot of cheaters. No comment here is more valid than another on how or why they cheat. It is all speculation based on everyone’s anecdotal evidence.

This exactly. Some people cheat because they are deprived at home, some because monogamy is just hard and there was opportunity, some because they are emotionally lonely. All the reasons someone might have sex is a potential reason to cheat

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Some of you are so heavily biased the poison of your own biased projection just drips from every word. There are a lot of cheaters. No comment here is more valid than another on how or why they cheat. It is all speculation based on everyone’s anecdotal evidence.

This exactly. Some people cheat because they are deprived at home, some because monogamy is just hard and there was opportunity, some because they are emotionally lonely. All the reasons someone might have sex is a potential reason to cheat

Some had cheaters as parents that ditched the family. Some are adult children of alcoholics. So much does not have to do with anything but what is inside them that they are trying to escape. They learned poor coping mechanisms young.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:^ my point is they aren’t “appearing” . Many of these married women are the ones hitting on their neighbors and kid’s friend’s father or soccer coach. They have online dating profiles and screw men while their spouse is at work and kids are at school. It’s naive to think they just fell under somebody’s spell when they are actively throwing their p@ssy at men.

100%. This

3 divorces I know the wife did one of the above

Same here. It was the mom that cheated in almost every divorce I’ve heard about in the past couple of years.

It’s often women that settled and were never in love. They cheat on the man they took for granted and supplied the income. They harp on him that they want “more”. They are envious of others lifestyles...so they go out and try to find a new married guy to upgrade or to just land softly and have a different man now support them. The sad part is that these guys would never date them if they were single. The vetting process for a side piece off of a dating app is “discretion and availability”. It doesn’t go into much else.

+1 a woman that uses men to get what she needs will do it time and time again

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Women like bad boys

Yep, and it's an evolutionary preference. Females of all species look for mates that exhibit high fertility (technically fecundity), because it means their kids will have high fertility. Women who used that strategy got more decendents, and passed the same preference to their daughters.

OMG....that was my EXACT thought process when I met and married my husband.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Women like bad boys

Yep, and it's an evolutionary preference. Females of all species look for mates that exhibit high fertility (technically fecundity), because it means their kids will have high fertility. Women who used that strategy got more decendents, and passed the same preference to their daughters.

OMG....that was my EXACT thought process when I met and married my husband.

So a cheating or polyamorous man is even more attractive than one who is monogamous and never cheated? So if women are attracted to the bad boys then the ones that have 5 baby mamas are the hottest of them all?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:^ my point is they aren’t “appearing” . Many of these married women are the ones hitting on their neighbors and kid’s friend’s father or soccer coach. They have online dating profiles and screw men while their spouse is at work and kids are at school. It’s naive to think they just fell under somebody’s spell when they are actively throwing their p@ssy at men.

100%. This

3 divorces I know the wife did one of the above

Same here. It was the mom that cheated in almost every divorce I’ve heard about in the past couple of years.

It’s often women that settled and were never in love. They cheat on the man they took for granted and supplied the income. They harp on him that they want “more”. They are envious of others lifestyles...so they go out and try to find a new married guy to upgrade or to just land softly and have a different man now support them. The sad part is that these guys would never date them if they were single. The vetting process for a side piece off of a dating app is “discretion and availability”. It doesn’t go into much else.

That’s a pretty low opinion you have of men... lol those poor suckers. If what you say is true, that’s the real sad part - they were fools suckered into marrying and spending their life with a woman who never even loved them.

[Anonymous]

All these claims that women cheat just as much, several inquiries asking for stats, and yet no one has cited a thing. And no, the three divorces you personally witnessed aren’t proof. Sorry, men cheat more. A lot more. And women get screwed over in the divorce more. Take your red pill incel crap back to Reddit and 4chan, where they might actually believe you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:All these claims that women cheat just as much, several inquiries asking for stats, and yet no one has cited a thing. And no, the three divorces you personally witnessed aren’t proof. Sorry, men cheat more. A lot more. And women get screwed over in the divorce more. Take your red pill incel crap back to Reddit and 4chan, where they might actually believe you.

please provide proof of your claims

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:^ my point is they aren’t “appearing” . Many of these married women are the ones hitting on their neighbors and kid’s friend’s father or soccer coach. They have online dating profiles and screw men while their spouse is at work and kids are at school. It’s naive to think they just fell under somebody’s spell when they are actively throwing their p@ssy at men.

100%. This

3 divorces I know the wife did one of the above

Same here. It was the mom that cheated in almost every divorce I’ve heard about in the past couple of years.

It’s often women that settled and were never in love. They cheat on the man they took for granted and supplied the income. They harp on him that they want “more”. They are envious of others lifestyles...so they go out and try to find a new married guy to upgrade or to just land softly and have a different man now support them. The sad part is that these guys would never date them if they were single. The vetting process for a side piece off of a dating app is “discretion and availability”. It doesn’t go into much else.

That’s a pretty low opinion you have of men... lol those poor suckers. If what you say is true, that’s the real sad part - they were fools suckered into marrying and spending their life with a woman who never even loved them.

You are kidding, right? Entire websites are designed for gold diggers to find a sugar daddy. Women all over these forums talk about settling for a provider and not marrying for love. Every other post started is for some wife saying they never had passion but wanted kids and to be able to SAH.

Yes. Women are cheating in numbers as high as men, only their motives aren’t always sex. Many of these women are looking for a lifestyle upgrade.

[Anonymous]

I mean these men aren’t all cheating with the same woman. Yes, women cheat. A lot.

Infidelity amongst women has increased by 40% over the past 20 years. Men still cheat at slightly higher rates but that gap is closing.

[Anonymous]

The Health Testing Centers conducted a survey of 441 people. According to their results, the cheating rate among the respondents was 46.1%. From these, 47.9% admitted to having cheated but never admitted it to their partner, while the other 52.1% admitted it to their partner.

Think about that almost 50% will not admit to their partners they cheated. They cover it up. Some of these self-righteous people have in fact been cheated on, including those swearing their spouse is faithful and would never do that.

[Anonymous]

OP: why do WOMEN date and marry MEN with cheating pasts?

DCUM Gay Couples: *crickets*
DCUM Hetero Couples: It varies, here are some I know of.

Nom-DCUM Incels: women cheat more, they’re whores, prove me wrong with a link.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The Health Testing Centers conducted a survey of 441 people. According to their results, the cheating rate among the respondents was 46.1%. From these, 47.9% admitted to having cheated but never admitted it to their partner, while the other 52.1% admitted it to their partner.

Think about that almost 50% will not admit to their partners they cheated. They cover it up. Some of these self-righteous people have in fact been cheated on, including those swearing their spouse is faithful and would never do that.

Yeah, there is no way to know. It comes down to trust. Which is why distrust is a completely acceptable reason to end the relationship. Nothing good builds from that or insecurity, whether warranted or not.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The Health Testing Centers conducted a survey of 441 people. According to their results, the cheating rate among the respondents was 46.1%. From these, 47.9% admitted to having cheated but never admitted it to their partner, while the other 52.1% admitted it to their partner.

Think about that almost 50% will not admit to their partners they cheated. They cover it up. Some of these self-righteous people have in fact been cheated on, including those swearing their spouse is faithful and would never do that.

Yeah, there is no way to know. It comes down to trust. Which is why distrust is a completely acceptable reason to end the relationship. Nothing good builds from that or insecurity, whether warranted or not.

[Anonymous]

Jerry Springer is still on?