Why do women date or marry guys with cheating pasts?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why is this only about male cheaters? Women cheat too with nearly the same frequency. It’s just not talked about as much.

can you back this up with stats? because no offense, but I don't think its an equal playing field at all

[Anonymous]

I met him when he was 24. His girlfriend had cheated on him and his dad was a serial cheater.

He was so vehemently anti-cheating. He was scarred by it.

He cheated on me and had a full-blown affair at 45-48 years old.

Never saw it coming. So out of character.

[Anonymous]

Women like bad boys

[Anonymous]

Because didn't everybody cheat in HS?

[Anonymous]

No one is perfect.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I met him when he was 24. His girlfriend had cheated on him and his dad was a serial cheater.

He was so vehemently anti-cheating. He was scarred by it.

He cheated on me and had a full-blown affair at 45-48 years old.

Never saw it coming. So out of character.

People change over a 20 year period.

[Anonymous]

Men cheat for sex. Keep your man happy in the bedroom especially when they hit 40-50 and they won’t have the energy to cheat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Why is this only about male cheaters? Women cheat too with nearly the same frequency. It’s just not talked about as much.

I’m a woman and I think men have more opportunities, but if women did they would cheat just as much.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men cheat for sex. Keep your man happy in the bedroom especially when they hit 40-50 and they won’t have the energy to cheat.

This is BS. The cheaters I know have multiple partners at the same time. It has nothing to do with getting sex at home. Cheater’s gonna cheat. Period.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men cheat for sex. Keep your man happy in the bedroom especially when they hit 40-50 and they won’t have the energy to cheat.

STOP! Just stop! I had sex with my husband 3-4 times per week.

There are sex addicts and narcissists and all kinds of f@cked up people with last trauma.

Let’s stop blaming victims. Let’s realize there are a number of completely different reasons people cheat.

And women are cheating in the same numbers these days.

So quit spouting stupid sh@t.

[Anonymous]

99% of relationship queries can be traced back to the following simple fact: People are stupid.

[Anonymous]

Men like variety. If they can't have sex with other women, they look at hella porn. Each man cheats on his spouse either in reality or by lusting after other women "in his heart." I am not sure there is any way to bypass this situation unless you marry a eunuch or some dude with real low "T".

[Anonymous]

Some times the crazy ex is the one that delivers the news of the cheating, so the new girlfriend doesn’t believe her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Some times the crazy ex is the one that delivers the news of the cheating, so the new girlfriend doesn’t believe her.

And turns out she wasn’t “crazy” after all. It’s the picture he paints of her to the current girlfriend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Some times the crazy ex is the one that delivers the news of the cheating, so the new girlfriend doesn’t believe her.

And turns out she wasn’t “crazy” after all. It’s the picture he paints of her to the current girlfriend.

Agree. The problem is that when an ex communicates this, it just makes her look bad. Why does she care?