Guy Said I’m Not in His League..

[Anonymous]

You went on 2 dates. Consider yourself lucky and move on.

[Anonymous]

I honestly am skeptical of OPs story. If this is real, the guy is a laughably conceited idiot. This is not how most men think.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Most guys don’t care about career stuff if they are into you. This guy just wasn’t into you and told you on the second date. Move on.

Men (like women) do care if a potential partner is in a similar life stage. A big part of whether a relationship works out or not is timing- two people wanting the same things at the same time. OP will be busy with school and work for the next couple years- that doesn't leave a lot of time for dating. Or maybe he's ready to settle down and wants a family in the next couple of years. OP will have just begun her new career and maybe she wants to establish herself before have kids. Btw, there's nothing wrong with OP doing any of these things. It's just that OP and her date are in different places in their lives.

I agree that her date was rude but his concerns were reasonable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most guys don’t care about career stuff if they are into you. This guy just wasn’t into you and told you on the second date. Move on.

Men (like women) do care if a potential partner is in a similar life stage. A big part of whether a relationship works out or not is timing- two people wanting the same things at the same time. OP will be busy with school and work for the next couple years- that doesn't leave a lot of time for dating. Or maybe he's ready to settle down and wants a family in the next couple of years. OP will have just begun her new career and maybe she wants to establish herself before have kids. Btw, there's nothing wrong with OP doing any of these things. It's just that OP and her date are in different places in their lives.

I agree that her date was rude but his concerns were reasonable.

+1

And to the OP, what about dating a guy a little younger than you? I’m guessing there is a 26 year old guy that is at least 4 years from wanting to get married and at least 6 years from wanting kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Most guys don’t care about career stuff if they are into you. This guy just wasn’t into you and told you on the second date. Move on.

Such bs. Many men care about whether a woman is educated or not. Society portrays all men care is if a woman will keep putting it, but that’s simply untrue. Many men want a woman who is on the same level as them. That includes looks, educated, and income.

Not income. The same socioeconomic status, but that doesn't mean income. Also, OP is educated and in his socioeconomic category. I don't know what she looks like, but he was attracted enough to go out twice. What he's looking for is status. And it's okay, OP, that you can't offer that. Why would you want that kind of transactional relationship anyway? What it all points to is that the guy feels that he's not in his peer's league unless he has a very specific type of woman. He'll be divorced within a few years after marrying.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I honestly am skeptical of OPs story. If this is real, the guy is a laughably conceited idiot. This is not how most men think.

Many men think like that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I honestly am skeptical of OPs story. If this is real, the guy is a laughably conceited idiot. This is not how most men think.

Many men think like that.

Many lawyers, many lobbyists, many congressional aides? Hang out with real people. We don’t care if you graduated or not from Harvard with three degrees and contacts in Singapore. (Women attend Harvard, right?)

[Anonymous]

That statement is just the worst derogatory thing any person can say to another.
The problem here is HIM, not YOU.

Thank your luck stars that this idiot is no longer a part of your life.

He sounds like an insecure snob.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow what a terrible person. I'm a nanny and single guys probably think that way about me but the divorced DILFs loooooove me. I'm cute and great with kids. There's a lid for every pot!

I like your attitude! What is a DILF , by the way?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I honestly am skeptical of OPs story. If this is real, the guy is a laughably conceited idiot. This is not how most men think.

Yes, wasn't there a post recently by a man complaining or at least wondering about the same thing? That the woman wouldn't be available to him enough because she was in school?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I honestly am skeptical of OPs story. If this is real, the guy is a laughably conceited idiot. This is not how most men think.

You would be surprised how common this is in DC.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow what a terrible person. I'm a nanny and single guys probably think that way about me but the divorced DILFs loooooove me. I'm cute and great with kids. There's a lid for every pot!

I like your attitude! What is a DILF , by the way?

Dad Id Like To..Friend.

[Anonymous]

"I know I'm not in your league, but I thought I was doing you a favor."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Wow what a terrible person. I'm a nanny and single guys probably think that way about me but the divorced DILFs loooooove me. I'm cute and great with kids. There's a lid for every pot!

I like your attitude! What is a DILF , by the way?

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DILF- kind of like a MILF, but a "Dad I'd like to F"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
No. This is a dude who likes to judge women to shore up his shriveled little ego.

If she was already through school and into a job, he'd find something else to chuck in her face.

And starting a family at 33 is hardly unusual these days. Many women do it later, especially educated ones. Mind blown?

Tough shit. Millions upon millions of handsome, hard working, well intentioned men have been shitcanned by women because they felt they were "out of his league." Now the tables have turned.