Anonymous wrote:I had been on 2 dates with a guy who told he didn’t think it will work out. He gave the reason as me not being in the “ league” he usually goes for. I worked as a medical tech and just took the jump to further my career. I just started school ( 4 years - 3 years bachelor + 1 year fellowship) to become a radiation therapist. He said I’m cute and fun with a good personality, but he is looking for someone who has their life together at our 29. I get it, and I figured it would be an issue, but it sucks. I want to find something serious, maybe that can lead to marriage, but now do put off from dating. I want to be seen as a great catch, but I know in my current state, most wont view me in that way. Part of me wants to just wait until at least done with school ( 32) to start dating. Maybe then I will have a better chance as coming across as a better catch. I’m bummed and feeling hopeless.
I personally would think highly of you if I knew this was your career.
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