Guy Said I’m Not in His League..

[Anonymous]

Most of the men in this area are seeking a woman with a fat wallet to increase social status and move into a minority free neighborbood then brag on dcum about not being able to clean their 6000sq ft house in mclean.

Are you high?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:He is empowered.

Yeah, like a woman.

In a competitive area women feel they need to be men and men feel they need to be women.

The 1950s want their gender roles back. The guy was a dick in how he conveyed his message but men, like women, have a right to their preferences.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Weird comment from him

Thought he was talking about being more attractive at first


Focus on being attractive, fun to be around and not crazy

Those attributes are way more important to a man than your career status if you are just talking about dating

By the time things get serious, your career will be on a better track

+1 Most guys couldn't care less about your academic credentials and earning potential. It's probably only an issue to guys who live beyond their means or are obsessed with status. And for guys with money, all of that stuff is even less relevant. If you are feminine, non-militant, and try to complement your man, you will be just fine.

Some of the above posts are harsh....but most men I know want women whom are their peers education and salary potential wise. They may not be as crazy about like women, but its def counted for. Didn't women fight for equality?

Being the sole breadwinner is stressful.

How old are you people posting stuff like this? Mid 40’s at least I’m guessing? Nowadays, a woman’s a catch if she has her life together, which means higher education in a marketable field, no student loans, and family wealth. The days of the cute, dumb secretary having her pick of guys are over unless her family is wealthy.

I posted that first one and I'm in my early 30s

I am more concerned that my wife fits in socially than having a high paying job. So having her be my peer in terms of education, professional culture etc is important so she doesn't seem like a hick when I introduce her to people. But if she used her education to make minimum wage as some quasi volunteer or something I wouldn't mind terribly.

It's nice that she makes a decent salary (almost 80% of mine) but if there is a day when I'm making a ton of money (like 250k or something) I wouldn't mind if she were a stay at home mom or worked half time and we could live on my salary.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Weird comment from him

Thought he was talking about being more attractive at first


Focus on being attractive, fun to be around and not crazy

Those attributes are way more important to a man than your career status if you are just talking about dating

By the time things get serious, your career will be on a better track

+1 Most guys couldn't care less about your academic credentials and earning potential. It's probably only an issue to guys who live beyond their means or are obsessed with status. And for guys with money, all of that stuff is even less relevant. If you are feminine, non-militant, and try to complement your man, you will be just fine.

Some of the above posts are harsh....but most men I know want women whom are their peers education and salary potential wise. They may not be as crazy about like women, but its def counted for. Didn't women fight for equality?

Being the sole breadwinner is stressful.

How old are you people posting stuff like this? Mid 40’s at least I’m guessing? Nowadays, a woman’s a catch if she has her life together, which means higher education in a marketable field, no student loans, and family wealth. The days of the cute, dumb secretary having her pick of guys are over unless her family is wealthy.

I posted that first one and I'm in my early 30s

I am more concerned that my wife fits in socially than having a high paying job. So having her be my peer in terms of education, professional culture etc is important so she doesn't seem like a hick when I introduce her to people. But if she used her education to make minimum wage as some quasi volunteer or something I wouldn't mind terribly.

It's nice that she makes a decent salary (almost 80% of mine) but if there is a day when I'm making a ton of money (like 250k or something) I wouldn't mind if she were a stay at home mom or worked half time and we could live on my salary.

250k is a ton of money to you? No wonder you’d be fine with a 29 year old just starting her degree. No offense but your standards are lower. I’m in my early 30’s married to someone making 7 figures. We have wealthy parents and my husband insisted that I stay at home with our children, and maybe work PT later, but he had also absolutely required that his wife have a graduate degree. He also required someone who looked like a model. Most of our peers are in the same situation, so I don’t blame the lawyer guy for wanting to date a more qualified woman. He needn’t have told OP she’s out of his league, but most educated men nowadays want a woman who’s the whole package.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Weird comment from him

Thought he was talking about being more attractive at first


Focus on being attractive, fun to be around and not crazy

Those attributes are way more important to a man than your career status if you are just talking about dating

By the time things get serious, your career will be on a better track

+1 Most guys couldn't care less about your academic credentials and earning potential. It's probably only an issue to guys who live beyond their means or are obsessed with status. And for guys with money, all of that stuff is even less relevant. If you are feminine, non-militant, and try to complement your man, you will be just fine.

Some of the above posts are harsh....but most men I know want women whom are their peers education and salary potential wise. They may not be as crazy about like women, but its def counted for. Didn't women fight for equality?

Being the sole breadwinner is stressful.

How old are you people posting stuff like this? Mid 40’s at least I’m guessing? Nowadays, a woman’s a catch if she has her life together, which means higher education in a marketable field, no student loans, and family wealth. The days of the cute, dumb secretary having her pick of guys are over unless her family is wealthy.

I posted that first one and I'm in my early 30s

I am more concerned that my wife fits in socially than having a high paying job. So having her be my peer in terms of education, professional culture etc is important so she doesn't seem like a hick when I introduce her to people. But if she used her education to make minimum wage as some quasi volunteer or something I wouldn't mind terribly.

It's nice that she makes a decent salary (almost 80% of mine) but if there is a day when I'm making a ton of money (like 250k or something) I wouldn't mind if she were a stay at home mom or worked half time and we could live on my salary.

250k is a ton of money to you? No wonder you’d be fine with a 29 year old just starting her degree. No offense but your standards are lower. I’m in my early 30’s married to someone making 7 figures. We have wealthy parents and my husband insisted that I stay at home with our children, and maybe work PT later, but he had also absolutely required that his wife have a graduate degree. He also required someone who looked like a model. Most of our peers are in the same situation, so I don’t blame the lawyer guy for wanting to date a more qualified woman. He needn’t have told OP she’s out of his league, but most educated men nowadays want a woman who’s the whole package.

Is your 7 figure DH also a model? Did he want a twig model, victorias secret model, or one like stormy daniels?

[Anonymous]

Is drug free for the hyper competitive women who have to look hot, increase boob size, and be a high powered success and have a hot body required by "educated" men nowadays?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Most of the men in this area are seeking a woman with a fat wallet to increase social status and move into a minority free neighborbood then brag on dcum about not being able to clean their 6000sq ft house in mclean.

Are you high?

You must be on drugs or your SO must have been at some point with all your requirements.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Weird comment from him

Thought he was talking about being more attractive at first


Focus on being attractive, fun to be around and not crazy

Those attributes are way more important to a man than your career status if you are just talking about dating

By the time things get serious, your career will be on a better track

+1 Most guys couldn't care less about your academic credentials and earning potential. It's probably only an issue to guys who live beyond their means or are obsessed with status. And for guys with money, all of that stuff is even less relevant. If you are feminine, non-militant, and try to complement your man, you will be just fine.

Some of the above posts are harsh....but most men I know want women whom are their peers education and salary potential wise. They may not be as crazy about like women, but its def counted for. Didn't women fight for equality?

Being the sole breadwinner is stressful.

How old are you people posting stuff like this? Mid 40’s at least I’m guessing? Nowadays, a woman’s a catch if she has her life together, which means higher education in a marketable field, no student loans, and family wealth. The days of the cute, dumb secretary having her pick of guys are over unless her family is wealthy.

I posted that first one and I'm in my early 30s

I am more concerned that my wife fits in socially than having a high paying job. So having her be my peer in terms of education, professional culture etc is important so she doesn't seem like a hick when I introduce her to people. But if she used her education to make minimum wage as some quasi volunteer or something I wouldn't mind terribly.

It's nice that she makes a decent salary (almost 80% of mine) but if there is a day when I'm making a ton of money (like 250k or something) I wouldn't mind if she were a stay at home mom or worked half time and we could live on my salary.

250k is a ton of money to you? No wonder you’d be fine with a 29 year old just starting her degree. No offense but your standards are lower. I’m in my early 30’s married to someone making 7 figures. We have wealthy parents and my husband insisted that I stay at home with our children, and maybe work PT later, but he had also absolutely required that his wife have a graduate degree. He also required someone who looked like a model. Most of our peers are in the same situation, so I don’t blame the lawyer guy for wanting to date a more qualified woman. He needn’t have told OP she’s out of his league, but most educated men nowadays want a woman who’s the whole package.

So your peers think they are hot shit and deserve a model who is rich and who can afford several degrees? What do they bring to the table? Do any of you have actual feelings of love for one another?

[Anonymous]

250k is a ton of money to you? No wonder you’d be fine with a 29 year old just starting her degree. No offense but your standards are lower. I’m in my early 30’s married to someone making 7 figures. We have wealthy parents and my husband insisted that I stay at home with our children, and maybe work PT later, but he had also absolutely required that his wife have a graduate degree. He also required someone who looked like a model. Most of our peers are in the same situation, so I don’t blame the lawyer guy for wanting to date a more qualified woman. He needn’t have told OP she’s out of his league, but most educated men nowadays want a woman who’s the whole package.

Hey look everyone! This, um, gem defined “educated” to mean someone who grosses (or nets?) over a million a year. She ain’t too smart I think.

[Anonymous]

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250k is a ton of money to you? No wonder you’d be fine with a 29 year old just starting her degree. No offense but your standards are lower. I’m in my early 30’s married to someone making 7 figures. We have wealthy parents and my husband insisted that I stay at home with our children, and maybe work PT later, but he had also absolutely required that his wife have a graduate degree. He also required someone who looked like a model. Most of our peers are in the same situation, so I don’t blame the lawyer guy for wanting to date a more qualified woman. He needn’t have told OP she’s out of his league, but most educated men nowadays want a woman who’s the whole package.

Hey look everyone! This, um, gem defined “educated” to mean someone who grosses (or nets?) over a million a year. She ain’t too smart I think.

I'm betting a guy posted this fake silliness. If it is a woman...a complete loser.

People that use the word "peers" comes across as someone with low self-esteem. Most normal people wouldn't talk that way. lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Time to watch Legally Blonde with your wine and ice cream, and know that this douche-kabob isn't close to being good enough for you. Please don't let him be the reason you self-esteem takes a dive. You truly deserve better.

And he truly deserves to find the other half of his power-couple fantasy and his subsequent divorce and loss of half of his income five years later.

+10000

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Anyone who speaks in those terms, OP, is really, truly not someone you want to date. Just keep doing you and dating.

You dodged a bullet with this douche. Keep being you. The right person for you is out there.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Anyone who speaks in those terms, OP, is really, truly not someone you want to date. Just keep doing you and dating.

You dodged a bullet with this douche. Keep being you. The right person for you is out there.

Pay attention men: women think a man who is looking for his equal is a douche.

[Anonymous]

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This is not most men. This is a dude without a libido. When a guy falls in love, he doesn't care what she does for a living or how much money she makes, or whether or not she has kids, or anything else. When he's in love, he wants to be with her. Then they figure it out together. All of this shit you're saying is not the real world.

The voice of reason.

Complete garbage

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Pay attention men: women think a man who is looking for his equal is a douche.

They're like Republicans being the "Party of Personal Responsibility (TM)" as in personal responsibility is for everyone else.