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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most guys don’t care about career stuff if they are into you.  This guy just wasn’t into you and told you on the second date.  Move on.[/quote]

Men (like women) do care if a potential partner is in a similar life stage. A big part of whether a relationship works out or not is timing- two people wanting the same things at the same time. OP will be busy with school and work for the next couple years- that doesn't leave a lot of time for dating. Or maybe he's ready to settle down and wants a family in the next couple of years. OP will have just begun her new career and maybe she wants to establish herself before have kids. Btw, there's nothing wrong with OP doing any of these things. It's just that OP and her date are in different places in their lives.

I agree that her date was rude but his concerns were reasonable.[/quote]

And to the OP, what about dating a guy a little younger than you?  I’m guessing there is a 26 year old guy that is at least 4 years from wanting to get married and at least 6 years from wanting kids.[/quote]

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