Upstairs is off-limits to guests

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Good lord. Is this thread still going on? All the people who are neurotic about their personal space just need to lock their doors. Problem solved.

There really are a few very mentally ill posters on this thread. The paranoia about “snooping” is insane.

Name a good reason for being in a host's personal space that requires being there without an invitation or quick permission that doesn't involve some type of sudden illness or truly extraordinary.

Since you have so much time to post, why don’t you read through the prior 26 pages on this thread when tons of examples were provided.

I've read every page. There is not one legitimate reason (outside of health or truly emergent issues) where you can't first get quick permission from your host. Not one.

Legitimate to you. Again, your feelings aren't universal. Most people learn that by kindergarten.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Good lord. Is this thread still going on? All the people who are neurotic about their personal space just need to lock their doors. Problem solved.

There really are a few very mentally ill posters on this thread. The paranoia about “snooping” is insane.

Name a good reason for being in a host's personal space that requires being there without an invitation or quick permission that doesn't involve some type of sudden illness or truly extraordinary.

Since you have so much time to post, why don’t you read through the prior 26 pages on this thread when tons of examples were provided.

I've read every page. There is not one legitimate reason (outside of health or truly emergent issues) where you can't first get quick permission from your host. Not one.

Legitimate to you. Again, your feelings aren't universal. Most people learn that by kindergarten.

Name one. Name one scenario outside of health issues or a truly emergent scenario where you HAVE to be in your hosts' bedroom and you can't get their permission first. Name it. I will wait.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Good lord. Is this thread still going on? All the people who are neurotic about their personal space just need to lock their doors. Problem solved.

There really are a few very mentally ill posters on this thread. The paranoia about “snooping” is insane.

Name a good reason for being in a host's personal space that requires being there without an invitation or quick permission that doesn't involve some type of sudden illness or truly extraordinary.

Since you have so much time to post, why don’t you read through the prior 26 pages on this thread when tons of examples were provided.

I've read every page. There is not one legitimate reason (outside of health or truly emergent issues) where you can't first get quick permission from your host. Not one.

You might want to find something productive to do with your life rather than reading every page of a stupid thread. Maybe then you wouldn't be so worried about guarding your upstairs.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Good lord. Is this thread still going on? All the people who are neurotic about their personal space just need to lock their doors. Problem solved.

There really are a few very mentally ill posters on this thread. The paranoia about “snooping” is insane.

Name a good reason for being in a host's personal space that requires being there without an invitation or quick permission that doesn't involve some type of sudden illness or truly extraordinary.

Since you have so much time to post, why don’t you read through the prior 26 pages on this thread when tons of examples were provided.

I've read every page. There is not one legitimate reason (outside of health or truly emergent issues) where you can't first get quick permission from your host. Not one.

You might want to find something productive to do with your life rather than reading every page of a stupid thread. Maybe then you wouldn't be so worried about guarding your upstairs.

Still waiting...oh, wait. You'll never be able to provide a legitimate reason, because there isn't one.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Good lord. Is this thread still going on? All the people who are neurotic about their personal space just need to lock their doors. Problem solved.

There really are a few very mentally ill posters on this thread. The paranoia about “snooping” is insane.

Name a good reason for being in a host's personal space that requires being there without an invitation or quick permission that doesn't involve some type of sudden illness or truly extraordinary.

Since you have so much time to post, why don’t you read through the prior 26 pages on this thread when tons of examples were provided.

I've read every page. There is not one legitimate reason (outside of health or truly emergent issues) where you can't first get quick permission from your host. Not one.

You might want to find something productive to do with your life rather than reading every page of a stupid thread. Maybe then you wouldn't be so worried about guarding your upstairs.

Still waiting...oh, wait. You'll never be able to provide a legitimate reason, because there isn't one.

None that is legitimate to you. I don't waste my time arguing with people who are convinced they are right, even though there are 26 pages stating otherwise.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Good lord. Is this thread still going on? All the people who are neurotic about their personal space just need to lock their doors. Problem solved.

There really are a few very mentally ill posters on this thread. The paranoia about “snooping” is insane.

Name a good reason for being in a host's personal space that requires being there without an invitation or quick permission that doesn't involve some type of sudden illness or truly extraordinary.

Since you have so much time to post, why don’t you read through the prior 26 pages on this thread when tons of examples were provided.

I've read every page. There is not one legitimate reason (outside of health or truly emergent issues) where you can't first get quick permission from your host. Not one.

You might want to find something productive to do with your life rather than reading every page of a stupid thread. Maybe then you wouldn't be so worried about guarding your upstairs.

Still waiting...oh, wait. You'll never be able to provide a legitimate reason, because there isn't one.

None that is legitimate to you. I don't waste my time arguing with people who are convinced they are right, even though there are 26 pages stating otherwise.

Hahaha. Name one. Name ONE reason outside of health issues or a true emergency where someone HAS to be in their host's bedroom without getting permission first. Name ONE.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Good lord. Is this thread still going on? All the people who are neurotic about their personal space just need to lock their doors. Problem solved.

There really are a few very mentally ill posters on this thread. The paranoia about “snooping” is insane.

Name a good reason for being in a host's personal space that requires being there without an invitation or quick permission that doesn't involve some type of sudden illness or truly extraordinary.

Since you have so much time to post, why don’t you read through the prior 26 pages on this thread when tons of examples were provided.

I've read every page. There is not one legitimate reason (outside of health or truly emergent issues) where you can't first get quick permission from your host. Not one.

You might want to find something productive to do with your life rather than reading every page of a stupid thread. Maybe then you wouldn't be so worried about guarding your upstairs.

Still waiting...oh, wait. You'll never be able to provide a legitimate reason, because there isn't one.

None that is legitimate to you. I don't waste my time arguing with people who are convinced they are right, even though there are 26 pages stating otherwise.

Hahaha. Name one. Name ONE reason outside of health issues or a true emergency where someone HAS to be in their host's bedroom without getting permission first. Name ONE.

Now you're really sounding nutty. Go back and read all 26 pages if you want to have someone to interact with. Or leave your bedroom. It's a nice day outside.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Good lord. Is this thread still going on? All the people who are neurotic about their personal space just need to lock their doors. Problem solved.

There really are a few very mentally ill posters on this thread. The paranoia about “snooping” is insane.

Name a good reason for being in a host's personal space that requires being there without an invitation or quick permission that doesn't involve some type of sudden illness or truly extraordinary.

Since you have so much time to post, why don’t you read through the prior 26 pages on this thread when tons of examples were provided.

I've read every page. There is not one legitimate reason (outside of health or truly emergent issues) where you can't first get quick permission from your host. Not one.

You might want to find something productive to do with your life rather than reading every page of a stupid thread. Maybe then you wouldn't be so worried about guarding your upstairs.

Still waiting...oh, wait. You'll never be able to provide a legitimate reason, because there isn't one.

None that is legitimate to you. I don't waste my time arguing with people who are convinced they are right, even though there are 26 pages stating otherwise.

Hahaha. Name one. Name ONE reason outside of health issues or a true emergency where someone HAS to be in their host's bedroom without getting permission first. Name ONE.

Even the "health issues" excuse is flimsy. If you are that sickened you should LEAVE. Go home, go to a hotel or a hospital where you can be treated. There is no reason in the world for you to *need* to go into a private area of your host's home w/o your host's permission.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good lord. Is this thread still going on? All the people who are neurotic about their personal space just need to lock their doors. Problem solved.

There really are a few very mentally ill posters on this thread. The paranoia about “snooping” is insane.

Name a good reason for being in a host's personal space that requires being there without an invitation or quick permission that doesn't involve some type of sudden illness or truly extraordinary.

Since you have so much time to post, why don’t you read through the prior 26 pages on this thread when tons of examples were provided.

I've read every page. There is not one legitimate reason (outside of health or truly emergent issues) where you can't first get quick permission from your host. Not one.

You might want to find something productive to do with your life rather than reading every page of a stupid thread. Maybe then you wouldn't be so worried about guarding your upstairs.

Still waiting...oh, wait. You'll never be able to provide a legitimate reason, because there isn't one.

None that is legitimate to you. I don't waste my time arguing with people who are convinced they are right, even though there are 26 pages stating otherwise.

Hahaha. Name one. Name ONE reason outside of health issues or a true emergency where someone HAS to be in their host's bedroom without getting permission first. Name ONE.

Now you're really sounding nutty. Go back and read all 26 pages if you want to have someone to interact with. Or leave your bedroom. It's a nice day outside.

Yet, here you are posting away and insisting that you have the right to invade your host's privacy at your every whim.

The poster upthread with the 4/5 year olds who went into an off limit area of their host's home and is now gossiping about what they saw is a prime example of why some people get straight out banned from floors and rooms in other people's homes.

Regular people with a normal sense of boundaries do not get "banned" from areas in their host's home because they have manners and do not have to be told such things. It really boils down to a matter of common decency and respect.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good lord. Is this thread still going on? All the people who are neurotic about their personal space just need to lock their doors. Problem solved.

There really are a few very mentally ill posters on this thread. The paranoia about “snooping” is insane.

Name a good reason for being in a host's personal space that requires being there without an invitation or quick permission that doesn't involve some type of sudden illness or truly extraordinary.

Since you have so much time to post, why don’t you read through the prior 26 pages on this thread when tons of examples were provided.

I've read every page. There is not one legitimate reason (outside of health or truly emergent issues) where you can't first get quick permission from your host. Not one.

You might want to find something productive to do with your life rather than reading every page of a stupid thread. Maybe then you wouldn't be so worried about guarding your upstairs.

Still waiting...oh, wait. You'll never be able to provide a legitimate reason, because there isn't one.

None that is legitimate to you. I don't waste my time arguing with people who are convinced they are right, even though there are 26 pages stating otherwise.

Hahaha. Name one. Name ONE reason outside of health issues or a true emergency where someone HAS to be in their host's bedroom without getting permission first. Name ONE.

Now you're really sounding nutty. Go back and read all 26 pages if you want to have someone to interact with. Or leave your bedroom. It's a nice day outside.

People like you are the same kind of people who say "you took your shirt off, so how was he supposed to know he couldn't have sex with you?"

No. F*ck legitimate reasons. There is NO reason, NONE, period, that you have the *right* to enter your host's private space, whatever the host defines those private spaces to be, in their sole discretion. You're not a vampire - inviting you in the front door does NOT give you access to everything inside it. Learn some basic manners. Ask first.

[Anonymous]

^^^^ mentally ill

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NP. I think it's mentally ill (narcissistic for sure) to think you are entitled to private spaces within your host's home.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^^^^ mentally ill

^^^^ probably my MIL.

[Anonymous]

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^^^^ probably my MIL.

+1 Agoraphobic or paranoid.

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Anonymous wrote:^^^^ mentally ill

^^^^ probably my MIL.

+1 Agoraphobic or paranoid.

Better than nosy, ill-mannered, intrusive and out of line.