Upstairs is off-limits to guests

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So many extremes here!

Guests shouldn't go snooping into private places in a guests home.

Hosts shouldn't blow their top if someone walks into the wrong bathroom if the bathroom isn't inside of a closed door bedroom. When you gotta go you gotta go.

Guests have no business walking down hallways and opening doors to find a bathroom that they have not been invited to use. Wait for the powder room.

Again, I’m using the upstairs master to poop during a party. Not sure why it’s so hard to accept

I honestly think it’s just one poster who does this and keeps talking about it. A low class one who was raised in a barn. It cannot possibly be a common thing.

I honestly think it’s just one poster who is so worried her guests might find her valtrex prescription lol

+1. It’s the OP. I think her MIL probably tried to discretely go somewhere private upstairs, not knowing she was “forbidden” and accidentally saw the prescription


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Better to find a prescription like that than sh*t all over the walls, toilet, floor and sink...as I'm sure the explosive pooper is all too aware....

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:So many extremes here!

Guests shouldn't go snooping into private places in a guests home.

Hosts shouldn't blow their top if someone walks into the wrong bathroom if the bathroom isn't inside of a closed door bedroom. When you gotta go you gotta go.

Guests have no business walking down hallways and opening doors to find a bathroom that they have not been invited to use. Wait for the powder room.

Again, I’m using the upstairs master to poop during a party. Not sure why it’s so hard to accept

I can’t imagine you’re invited to many parties....you sound dreadful.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:So many extremes here!

Guests shouldn't go snooping into private places in a guests home.

Hosts shouldn't blow their top if someone walks into the wrong bathroom if the bathroom isn't inside of a closed door bedroom. When you gotta go you gotta go.

Guests have no business walking down hallways and opening doors to find a bathroom that they have not been invited to use. Wait for the powder room.

Again, I’m using the upstairs master to poop during a party. Not sure why it’s so hard to accept

I can’t imagine you’re invited to many parties....you sound dreadful.

I totally agree. I can almost 100% guarantee this person does not move in the same types of circles I do. No one I know would ever dream of doing this. It is just unimaginable, really.

I don't know WHAT circles these types of people move in; but they are not in mine.

[Anonymous]

The Pooper Snooper is off the list. Buh-bye!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The Pooper Snooper is off the list. Buh-bye!

Seriously. If someone EVER did this in my house, I'd never invite them back. I would consider them a really unmannered person who crosses boundaries.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The Pooper Snooper is off the list. Buh-bye!

Seriously. If someone EVER did this in my house, I'd never invite them back. I would consider them a really unmannered person who crosses boundaries.

I’m actually starting to waver on this. If it WAS my mom or sister, I wouldn’t care.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The Pooper Snooper is off the list. Buh-bye!

Seriously. If someone EVER did this in my house, I'd never invite them back. I would consider them a really unmannered person who crosses boundaries.

I’m actually starting to waver on this. If it WAS my mom or sister, I wouldn’t care.

Yes, but they are your mom or your sister. So, that does not count as crossing boundaries, b/c there is less of a boundary b/c our close relatives and ourselves.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:The Pooper Snooper is off the list. Buh-bye!

Seriously. If someone EVER did this in my house, I'd never invite them back. I would consider them a really unmannered person who crosses boundaries.

I’m actually starting to waver on this. If it WAS my mom or sister, I wouldn’t care.

Yes, but they are your mom or your sister. So, that does not count as crossing boundaries, b/c there is less of a boundary b/c our close relatives and ourselves.

Agree on this, except if you have a very strained relationship or something. Otherwise of course there are exceptions for mom, sister, dad, etc. But that’s not what the diarrhea lady is talking about.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The Pooper Snooper is off the list. Buh-bye!

Seriously. If someone EVER did this in my house, I'd never invite them back. I would consider them a really unmannered person who crosses boundaries.

I’m actually starting to waver on this. If it WAS my mom or sister, I wouldn’t care.

Yes, but they are your mom or your sister. So, that does not count as crossing boundaries, b/c there is less of a boundary b/c our close relatives and ourselves.

Agree on this, except if you have a very strained relationship or something. Otherwise of course there are exceptions for mom, sister, dad, etc. But that’s not what the diarrhea lady is talking about.

But the OP and her gang are adamant that family also cannot use the upstairs bathrooms.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The Pooper Snooper is off the list. Buh-bye!

Seriously. If someone EVER did this in my house, I'd never invite them back. I would consider them a really unmannered person who crosses boundaries.

I’m actually starting to waver on this. If it WAS my mom or sister, I wouldn’t care.

Yes, but they are your mom or your sister. So, that does not count as crossing boundaries, b/c there is less of a boundary b/c our close relatives and ourselves.

Agree on this, except if you have a very strained relationship or something. Otherwise of course there are exceptions for mom, sister, dad, etc. But that’s not what the diarrhea lady is talking about.

But the OP and her gang are adamant that family also cannot use the upstairs bathrooms.

They’re not close family, and that’s okay. Their house, their rules.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The Pooper Snooper is off the list. Buh-bye!

Seriously. If someone EVER did this in my house, I'd never invite them back. I would consider them a really unmannered person who crosses boundaries.

I’m actually starting to waver on this. If it WAS my mom or sister, I wouldn’t care.

Yes, but they are your mom or your sister. So, that does not count as crossing boundaries, b/c there is less of a boundary b/c our close relatives and ourselves.

I think that's kind of the source of disagreement on this endlessly long thread. For me, close family is welcome to use any part of my home at any time. Others feel differently and that their master bathroom is their castle not to be invaded by anyone.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The Pooper Snooper is off the list. Buh-bye!

Seriously. If someone EVER did this in my house, I'd never invite them back. I would consider them a really unmannered person who crosses boundaries.

I’m actually starting to waver on this. If it WAS my mom or sister, I wouldn’t care.

Yes, but they are your mom or your sister. So, that does not count as crossing boundaries, b/c there is less of a boundary b/c our close relatives and ourselves.

Agree on this, except if you have a very strained relationship or something. Otherwise of course there are exceptions for mom, sister, dad, etc. But that’s not what the diarrhea lady is talking about.

But the OP and her gang are adamant that family also cannot use the upstairs bathrooms.

Even family shouldn't be going into private rooms w/o asking or being invited in. Grown adult children/siblings should have the right to a certain amount of personal privacy in their own homes.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Bottom line is - the need to poop is not an excuse to go into a host's private living quarters.

If you truly can not use the facilities provided to the guests, then you should stay home.

I hope your colon explodes one day, right in the middle of a crowded room.

You sound unhinged. No wonder you have such trouble allowing people into your home.

Pretty sure the unhinged poster is one who thinks it's appropriate to enter other people's bedrooms uninvited and poop there.

Yeah because that's so much worse than saying you wish someone's colon explodes. Miss Manners would not approve.

Miss Manners wouldn’t approve of 95% of the things my friends and I do. But I can guarantee we have a helluva lot more fun than all the “that’s my PRIVATE SPACE” stick up their ass posters do.

Ps - I am IBS and exploding colon poster. There is someone else who will continue to poop in your upstairs bathroom. There are at least two of us who don’t get hung up on stupid shit. (See what I did there?)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The Pooper Snooper is off the list. Buh-bye!

Seriously. If someone EVER did this in my house, I'd never invite them back. I would consider them a really unmannered person who crosses boundaries.

I’m actually starting to waver on this. If it WAS my mom or sister, I wouldn’t care.

Yes, but they are your mom or your sister. So, that does not count as crossing boundaries, b/c there is less of a boundary b/c our close relatives and ourselves.

I think that's kind of the source of disagreement on this endlessly long thread. For me, close family is welcome to use any part of my home at any time. Others feel differently and that their master bathroom is their castle not to be invaded by anyone.

Huh? I've never had any reason to go into my adult siblings' master bedrooms/baths. I hang out with them in the family room or other common area. It's called a "Family Room" for a reason.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The Pooper Snooper is off the list. Buh-bye!

Seriously. If someone EVER did this in my house, I'd never invite them back. I would consider them a really unmannered person who crosses boundaries.

I’m actually starting to waver on this. If it WAS my mom or sister, I wouldn’t care.

Yes, but they are your mom or your sister. So, that does not count as crossing boundaries, b/c there is less of a boundary b/c our close relatives and ourselves.

Agree on this, except if you have a very strained relationship or something. Otherwise of course there are exceptions for mom, sister, dad, etc. But that’s not what the diarrhea lady is talking about.

But the OP and her gang are adamant that family also cannot use the upstairs bathrooms.

Even family shouldn't be going into private rooms w/o asking or being invited in. Grown adult children/siblings should have the right to a certain amount of personal privacy in their own homes.

That's your opinion. I would think it's the height of rudeness to tell my mother that she can't enter my upstairs without being invited in. But your family operates differently.