What happens to the "dud" husbands after divorce?

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Anonymous wrote:She only _thought_ I was a dud. I was a winner all along, and she was and continues to be a loser.

My income is up 40 percent, and I've slept with a couple of dozen women who are 10-30 years younger than me since the divorce.

I've made two major mistakes in life: getting married, and having children.

She was right and you just admitted it. Anyone who regrets their children IS a dud as a father and parenting partner. I doubt your ex is impressed by your sex life now, but I hope she’s keeping an eye on your bank account and taking what her kids are owed.

you left your kids to go sleep with girls 30yrs younger than you? That's winning? sick

DP but lol, that's absolutely winning from a male perspective. Making a lot of money, which you parlay into having sex with dozens of young women - that is the dream.

When you decide to get divorced the dream is to get away from the woman who treats you with contempt and indifference. Everything after that is absolute bliss!

Probably not for your children and future children.

Women initiate 75% of divorces. Evidently they don't care about the happiness of their children, or can easily convince themselves that the kids will be fine or even better off after divorce (though it's really all about what she wants). As the man in this situation, it doesn't matter what you want or what might be best for the kids, it's happening anyway.

My ex left me and I was stuck "married". So I initiated a divorce. There are entire pages for people whose husbands just abandoned the family. Even more for people who are married to addicts or physically abusive partners. You want them to just stay married?

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They have a lot more sex than in their sexless / joyless marriages. The fact is, there are a lot of divorced / widowed / single women looking for exactly the same thing as men.

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Anonymous wrote:She only _thought_ I was a dud. I was a winner all along, and she was and continues to be a loser.

My income is up 40 percent, and I've slept with a couple of dozen women who are 10-30 years younger than me since the divorce.

I've made two major mistakes in life: getting married, and having children.

She was right and you just admitted it. Anyone who regrets their children IS a dud as a father and parenting partner. I doubt your ex is impressed by your sex life now, but I hope she’s keeping an eye on your bank account and taking what her kids are owed.

you left your kids to go sleep with girls 30yrs younger than you? That's winning? sick

DP but lol, that's absolutely winning from a male perspective. Making a lot of money, which you parlay into having sex with dozens of young women - that is the dream.

When you decide to get divorced the dream is to get away from the woman who treats you with contempt and indifference. Everything after that is absolute bliss!

Probably not for your children and future children.

Women initiate 75% of divorces. Evidently they don't care about the happiness of their children, or can easily convince themselves that the kids will be fine or even better off after divorce (though it's really all about what she wants). As the man in this situation, it doesn't matter what you want or what might be best for the kids, it's happening anyway.

My ex left me and I was stuck "married". So I initiated a divorce. There are entire pages for people whose husbands just abandoned the family. Even more for people who are married to addicts or physically abusive partners. You want them to just stay married?

Also often someone is just using the other person for whatever they are providing without actually loving them and being a good spouse. Women can pretty much handle parenting, so it's not like they often need a man to do this job. So I can see how they would initiate their divorce yes for their own happiness and to be a better parent themselves. Which does matter.

[Anonymous]

I’m 47 and dating. I’ve found there are two types- one wants the one night stand/conquest/is reliving their youth: the other wants to move in and be taken care of.

I’m not interested in either, so remain single and happy.

What a sad, little person you are to try to group millions of the men who are over 40 and dating) into two groups.

You should remain single. Anyone who married you would become sad.

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I’m 47 and dating. I’ve found there are two types- one wants the one night stand/conquest/is reliving their youth: the other wants to move in and be taken care of.

I’m not interested in either, so remain single and happy.

What a sad, little person you are to try to group millions of the men who are over 40 and dating) into two groups.

You should remain single. Anyone who married you would become sad.

Okay, I will. Thanks.

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Okay, I will. Thanks.

Happy to help.

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I’m 47 and dating. I’ve found there are two types- one wants the one night stand/conquest/is reliving their youth: the other wants to move in and be taken care of.

I’m not interested in either, so remain single and happy.

What a sad, little person you are to try to group millions of the men who are over 40 and dating) into two groups.

You should remain single. Anyone who married you would become sad.

Women: I'm much happier being single

Men: OMG YOU SHOULD STAY SINGLE YOU HORRIBLE WOMAN.

Like...okay? Great insight, dude. Reminds me of my younger days at the office, when men would say literally the same thing I just did and think they were brilliant.

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Anonymous wrote:She only _thought_ I was a dud. I was a winner all along, and she was and continues to be a loser.

My income is up 40 percent, and I've slept with a couple of dozen women who are 10-30 years younger than me since the divorce.

I've made two major mistakes in life: getting married, and having children.

She was right and you just admitted it. Anyone who regrets their children IS a dud as a father and parenting partner. I doubt your ex is impressed by your sex life now, but I hope she’s keeping an eye on your bank account and taking what her kids are owed.

you left your kids to go sleep with girls 30yrs younger than you? That's winning? sick

DP but lol, that's absolutely winning from a male perspective. Making a lot of money, which you parlay into having sex with dozens of young women - that is the dream.

When you decide to get divorced the dream is to get away from the woman who treats you with contempt and indifference. Everything after that is absolute bliss!

Probably not for your children and future children.

Women initiate 75% of divorces. Evidently they don't care about the happiness of their children, or can easily convince themselves that the kids will be fine or even better off after divorce (though it's really all about what she wants). As the man in this situation, it doesn't matter what you want or what might be best for the kids, it's happening anyway.

My ex left me and I was stuck "married". So I initiated a divorce. There are entire pages for people whose husbands just abandoned the family. Even more for people who are married to addicts or physically abusive partners. You want them to just stay married?

Mine moved into a basement for a year, continued sleeping with his AP and yet attended family dinners. Should I have continued this farce and family dinners just for our son?

[Anonymous]

Women: I'm much happier being single

Men: OMG YOU SHOULD STAY SINGLE YOU HORRIBLE WOMAN.

Like...okay? Great insight, dude. Reminds me of my younger days at the office, when men would say literally the same thing I just did and think they were brilliant.

It is more likely that people in your office commented on your inability to focus on the most important points of a subject.

Re-read my PP.

You missed the point by focusing on your persecution complex (see your post above for an excellent example of this complex becoming manifest) instead of focusing on the fact that you complained about men hijacking the post while ignoring when women did.

Focus, please. Tell us why you worried about men hijacking the post and not women doing the same.

[Anonymous]

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I’m 47 and dating. I’ve found there are two types- one wants the one night stand/conquest/is reliving their youth: the other wants to move in and be taken care of.

I’m not interested in either, so remain single and happy.

What a sad, little person you are to try to group millions of the men who are over 40 and dating) into two groups.

You should remain single. Anyone who married you would become sad.

Women: Men are horrible. There are only two types and they both suck. I'm much happier being single

Men: OMG YOU SHOULD STAY SINGLE YOU HORRIBLE WOMAN.

Like...okay? Great insight, dude. Reminds me of my younger days at the office, when men would say literally the same thing I just did and think they were brilliant.

You left an important part of it out.

[Anonymous]

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Women: I'm much happier being single

Men: OMG YOU SHOULD STAY SINGLE YOU HORRIBLE WOMAN.

Like...okay? Great insight, dude. Reminds me of my younger days at the office, when men would say literally the same thing I just did and think they were brilliant.

It is more likely that people in your office commented on your inability to focus on the most important points of a subject.

Re-read my PP.

You missed the point by focusing on your persecution complex (see your post above for an excellent example of this complex becoming manifest) instead of focusing on the fact that you complained about men hijacking the post while ignoring when women did.

Focus, please. Tell us why you worried about men hijacking the post and not women doing the same.

Ah, yes, the whole “use big words and talk like you’re a child” tactic. A classic. Never change, my dude.

[Anonymous]

Ah, yes, the whole “use big words and talk like you’re a child” tactic. A classic. Never change, my dude.

I am not your dude.

Classics are never supposed to change. It is why they are classic.

[Anonymous]

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Women: Men are horrible. There are only two types and they both suck.

Equally, there are two types of women. Those who suck and those who do not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Women: I'm much happier being single

Men: OMG YOU SHOULD STAY SINGLE YOU HORRIBLE WOMAN.

Like...okay? Great insight, dude. Reminds me of my younger days at the office, when men would say literally the same thing I just did and think they were brilliant.

It is more likely that people in your office commented on your inability to focus on the most important points of a subject.

Re-read my PP.

You missed the point by focusing on your persecution complex (see your post above for an excellent example of this complex becoming manifest) instead of focusing on the fact that you complained about men hijacking the post while ignoring when women did.

Focus, please. Tell us why you worried about men hijacking the post and not women doing the same.

I’m not PP, but I think this person did a fine job of illustrating how myopically hateful you are.

I do like how “happy to help”you were to help me draw the conclusion I’d previously come to, that was cute.

[Anonymous]

I’m not PP, but I think this person did a fine job of illustrating how myopically hateful you are.

I do like how “happy to help”you were to help me draw the conclusion I’d previously come to, that was cute.

Odd you did not think it was not "myopically hateful" for you (and you are the PP) to write "Men are horrible. There are only two types and they both suck" in an earlier post.

You should not use words you do not understand. And your bitterness has made you a hypocrite.

Which of the two types of men does your father fall into? How about your brother? How about your son?

Saying everyone in a certain group "sucks" should be a clue for you to take a hard look at your values.