Feeling sad about losing a mom friendship over bullying

[Anonymous]

You totally overreacted

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why didn't you just take a break and keep the kids separate for awhile before blowing it all up? They are 6 and by nature and poor social skills. Kids don't get along one month and are best friends the next at this age.

This is not sound advice. Six is plenty old enough to know. Do not put your child with this other child to get re-victimized.

"Re-vitimized"? Good Lord, do you know any 6 year olds?

You must be a mom of a bully.

You must not even have kids to be so clueless.

You are clueless. I have children and am a teacher.

So what is your point? Kids don't engage is this behavior?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why didn't you just take a break and keep the kids separate for awhile before blowing it all up? They are 6 and by nature and poor social skills. Kids don't get along one month and are best friends the next at this age.

This is not sound advice. Six is plenty old enough to know. Do not put your child with this other child to get re-victimized.

"Re-vitimized"? Good Lord, do you know any 6 year olds?

You must be a mom of a bully.

You must not even have kids to be so clueless.

NP. Having kids or not does not warrant the behavior. You are ridiculous and don’t want to be bothered.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why didn't you just take a break and keep the kids separate for awhile before blowing it all up? They are 6 and by nature and poor social skills. Kids don't get along one month and are best friends the next at this age.

This is not sound advice. Six is plenty old enough to know. Do not put your child with this other child to get re-victimized.

"Re-vitimized"? Good Lord, do you know any 6 year olds?

You must be a mom of a bully.

You must not even have kids to be so clueless.

You are clueless. I have children and am a teacher.

So what is your point? Kids don't engage is this behavior?

Yes they do. That’s not a free pass to beat up a kid. What is your point?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why didn't you just take a break and keep the kids separate for awhile before blowing it all up? They are 6 and by nature and poor social skills. Kids don't get along one month and are best friends the next at this age.

This is not sound advice. Six is plenty old enough to know. Do not put your child with this other child to get re-victimized.

"Re-vitimized"? Good Lord, do you know any 6 year olds?

You must be a mom of a bully.

You must not even have kids to be so clueless.

NP. Having kids or not does not warrant the behavior. You are ridiculous and don’t want to be bothered.

Bothered with what? I see you all think kindergarten is a very calm, peaceful place, where kids are angels. Got it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why didn't you just take a break and keep the kids separate for awhile before blowing it all up? They are 6 and by nature and poor social skills. Kids don't get along one month and are best friends the next at this age.

This is not sound advice. Six is plenty old enough to know. Do not put your child with this other child to get re-victimized.

"Re-vitimized"? Good Lord, do you know any 6 year olds?

You must be a mom of a bully.

You must not even have kids to be so clueless.

You are clueless. I have children and am a teacher.

So what is your point? Kids don't engage is this behavior?

Yes they do. That’s not a free pass to beat up a kid. What is your point?

Yet OP is sad the friendship is over. I don't think it happened as she said since she left that out of her OP. She's either trolling or embellishing because the initial comments didn't got the way she intended. If someone actually did that to your kid would you feel bad you couldn't be friends? I wouldn't. Why does OP care about this friendship if things were so bad? Something is off.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Why didn't you just take a break and keep the kids separate for awhile before blowing it all up? They are 6 and by nature and poor social skills. Kids don't get along one month and are best friends the next at this age.

This is not sound advice. Six is plenty old enough to know. Do not put your child with this other child to get re-victimized.

"Re-vitimized"? Good Lord, do you know any 6 year olds?

You must be a mom of a bully.

You must not even have kids to be so clueless.

You are clueless. I have children and am a teacher.

So what is your point? Kids don't engage is this behavior?

NP. Apparently, we blame the victim.

[Anonymous]

Kindergarten? Did you at least try to give her time to address it with her child before you went all after school special? Bullying? In kindergarten? Good grief, they’re five!

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Anonymous wrote:Why didn't you just take a break and keep the kids separate for awhile before blowing it all up? They are 6 and by nature and poor social skills. Kids don't get along one month and are best friends the next at this age.

This is not sound advice. Six is plenty old enough to know. Do not put your child with this other child to get re-victimized.

"Re-vitimized"? Good Lord, do you know any 6 year olds?

You must be a mom of a bully.

You must not even have kids to be so clueless.

You are clueless. I have children and am a teacher.

So what is your point? Kids don't engage is this behavior?

Yes they do. That’s not a free pass to beat up a kid. What is your point?

Yet OP is sad the friendship is over. I don't think it happened as she said since she left that out of her OP. She's either trolling or embellishing because the initial comments didn't got the way she intended. If someone actually did that to your kid would you feel bad you couldn't be friends? I wouldn't. Why does OP care about this friendship if things were so bad? Something is off.

I am not trolling. This all happened. I am very sad the friendship was over. Up till now we were very close and the families did everything together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Kindergarten? Did you at least try to give her time to address it with her child before you went all after school special? Bullying? In kindergarten? Good grief, they’re five!

Oh yes I did. It was a girls will be girls we spoke to her there are both sides to the story attitude.

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Anonymous wrote:Why didn't you just take a break and keep the kids separate for awhile before blowing it all up? They are 6 and by nature and poor social skills. Kids don't get along one month and are best friends the next at this age.

This is not sound advice. Six is plenty old enough to know. Do not put your child with this other child to get re-victimized.

"Re-vitimized"? Good Lord, do you know any 6 year olds?

You must be a mom of a bully.

You must not even have kids to be so clueless.

You are clueless. I have children and am a teacher.

So what is your point? Kids don't engage is this behavior?

Yes they do. That’s not a free pass to beat up a kid. What is your point?

Yet OP is sad the friendship is over. I don't think it happened as she said since she left that out of her OP. She's either trolling or embellishing because the initial comments didn't got the way she intended. If someone actually did that to your kid would you feel bad you couldn't be friends? I wouldn't. Why does OP care about this friendship if things were so bad? Something is off.

I am not trolling. This all happened. I am very sad the friendship was over. Up till now we were very close and the families did everything together.

I don't believe you, sorry. I wouldn't feel the least bit bad about severing a friendship if what you said actually happened. Why do you?

[Anonymous]

And so what if they are five. Relational aggression starts younger and younger if you have read any research into girl bullying.

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Anonymous wrote:Why didn't you just take a break and keep the kids separate for awhile before blowing it all up? They are 6 and by nature and poor social skills. Kids don't get along one month and are best friends the next at this age.

This is not sound advice. Six is plenty old enough to know. Do not put your child with this other child to get re-victimized.

"Re-vitimized"? Good Lord, do you know any 6 year olds?

You must be a mom of a bully.

You must not even have kids to be so clueless.

You are clueless. I have children and am a teacher.

So what is your point? Kids don't engage is this behavior?

Yes they do. That’s not a free pass to beat up a kid. What is your point?

Yet OP is sad the friendship is over. I don't think it happened as she said since she left that out of her OP. She's either trolling or embellishing because the initial comments didn't got the way she intended. If someone actually did that to your kid would you feel bad you couldn't be friends? I wouldn't. Why does OP care about this friendship if things were so bad? Something is off.

I am not trolling. This all happened. I am very sad the friendship was over. Up till now we were very close and the families did everything together.

I don't believe you, sorry. I wouldn't feel the least bit bad about severing a friendship if what you said actually happened. Why do you?

I am allowed to feel sad over six years of doing things together and then realizing that this episode means the friendship has changed. You are allowed to believe what you believe. I mentioned physical stuff in my first post. I guess I should have provided more details to satisfy your curiosity.

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Anonymous wrote:Why didn't you just take a break and keep the kids separate for awhile before blowing it all up? They are 6 and by nature and poor social skills. Kids don't get along one month and are best friends the next at this age.

This is not sound advice. Six is plenty old enough to know. Do not put your child with this other child to get re-victimized.

"Re-vitimized"? Good Lord, do you know any 6 year olds?

You must be a mom of a bully.

You must not even have kids to be so clueless.

NP. Having kids or not does not warrant the behavior. You are ridiculous and don’t want to be bothered.

Bothered with what? I see you all think kindergarten is a very calm, peaceful place, where kids are angels. Got it.

The kids must get beat up since it’s not calm and peace. Got it.

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Anonymous wrote:Kindergarten? Did you at least try to give her time to address it with her child before you went all after school special? Bullying? In kindergarten? Good grief, they’re five!

And headed toward sociopath. It takes a very big issue for a school to separate kids. I know this from experience unfortunately.