
My underwear is clean. I don’t care. You need to do your laundry more often and find some friends who are less creepy who don’t go through your stuff. |
Both. My dad had a ton of money and was from an "important" family (in my hometown/state), but my mom didn't get much after the divorce. In both my wealthy life and my middle-class life, I was taught that you never crossed personal boundaries unless invited. |
You're the one is inviting your friends to wander around in your master bedroom alone and you are the one who doesn't care if your friends go through your underwear drawer because your underwear is "clean"....and you think my friends are creepy? Lol. |
Since when to grown adults invite their friends to hang out in their bedrooms? I haven't done anything like that since I was living in a dorm room. Even my first crappy group rental had a common area that we all hung out in.
I am trying to imagine dh & I having guests wandering in/out of our bedroom to "get stuff" and I just can not see that ever being o.k. And I mean ever. |
PP here - never happened so far. |
Ok. Good for you. Other people have other experiences. |
If you don't mind Uncle Harold coming into your master bathroom to take a dump and maybe have a looksie into your medicine cabinet then that is truly all that matters. Do what you prefer. My guests, including Uncle Harold, have a perfectly good (and private) guest bathroom that they can use. That's what I prefer. |
Cool. I've been in a lot of homes....enough to say that people traipsing into the host's private living areas is not normal. I have friends that I got together with at least once a week and I don't think we ever went into each other's master bedrooms. We usually sat at a kitchen table drinking coffee, chatting and watching our kids play. I never once went through their medicine cabinets and I'm pretty positive that they never went through mine, either. True friends don't pry and snoop like that. They just don't. |
There’s a difference between entering someone’s bedroom and snooping through their drawers. Sorry you can’t see that and that you have such odd friends who go through your things. My friends wouldn’t do that. |
What are you doing in their bedroom? What are you doing in their bedroom that couldn't be achieved without a quick word to gain their permission? |
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You have no business "entering someone's bedroom" w/o their express permission. Sorry you do not seem to get that. And, no, part of hosting is not all about giving up every bit of privacy that you have. Good grief. |
Picking up their coats, nursing a baby, taking a phone call away from the noise of a party. These are all things my guests have done. You all must not host much. And if you do host and want to place restrictions on where people go, you do you. But it’s far from universal. |
Psst. There’s an invention called a lock. Use it if the idea of someone entering your chambers gives you such angst. |