Revealing affair

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m contemplating telling the AP’s adult children. They should know their parent is a POS.

Then you would be a POS too. Just like your spouse and their AP. Nice company you keep.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m contemplating telling the AP’s adult children. They should know their parent is a POS.

Then you would be a POS too. Just like your spouse and their AP. Nice company you keep.

birds of feather...

I know a family where the wife called the teen daughter of the couple. The teen freaked out, asked her to never call again. Told her parents, and I think the parents freaked out too and decided to unify against the crazy wife to protect their kid. This common goal brought them together, and imporved the marriage that was shaky before.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m contemplating telling the AP’s adult children. They should know their parent is a POS.

if I were them and you contacted me, an adult, to tell me this, I’d get a restraining order against you. Psycho AF

A restraining order over one email? LOL good luck. You're the one that sounds psycho.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m contemplating telling the AP’s adult children. They should know their parent is a POS.

Then you would be a POS too. Just like your spouse and their AP. Nice company you keep.

But why? I thought cheating on your wife was hurting the kids too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m contemplating telling the AP’s adult children. They should know their parent is a POS.

Then you would be a POS too. Just like your spouse and their AP. Nice company you keep.

birds of feather...

I know a family where the wife called the teen daughter of the couple. The teen freaked out, asked her to never call again. Told her parents, and I think the parents freaked out too and decided to unify against the crazy wife to protect their kid. This common goal brought them together, and imporved the marriage that was shaky before.

Good - it means they left her partner alone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m contemplating telling the AP’s adult children. They should know their parent is a POS.

Telling the other spouse is fine by me. Involving the kids – of any age – is well over the line into crazytown. The cheated on parent can share that information as they see fit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m contemplating telling the AP’s adult children. They should know their parent is a POS.

if I were them and you contacted me, an adult, to tell me this, I’d get a restraining order against you. Psycho AF

A restraining order over one email? LOL good luck. You're the one that sounds psycho.

Right. One email, put everything on the table. Sent only to adults, with no pornographic photography or anything. And then you’ll never hear from me again. You can do with that information what you want.

[Anonymous]

This is all just another version of blame and revenge on the other woman, instead of placing blame and work where it should be placed - on *your* cheating spouse, and focusing on *your* relationship.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Congratulations on possibly destroying children’s lives with a bitter divorce that might not have otherwise happened if you didn’t feel the need to insert yourself into other’s lives.

This is worse than cheating. You are directly possibly causing trauma for kids that may not have happened otherwise. Marriage is about much more than sex.

People should mind their own business.

-never cheated

Not op.

Wow. Are you are so f'd up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Congratulations on possibly destroying children’s lives with a bitter divorce that might not have otherwise happened if you didn’t feel the need to insert yourself into other’s lives.

This is worse than cheating. You are directly possibly causing trauma for kids that may not have happened otherwise. Marriage is about much more than sex.

People should mind their own business.

-never cheated

If your doctor told you that you have cancer, would you kick him?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m contemplating telling the AP’s adult children. They should know their parent is a POS.

Then you would be a POS too. Just like your spouse and their AP. Nice company you keep.

birds of feather...

I know a family where the wife called the teen daughter of the couple. The teen freaked out, asked her to never call again. Told her parents, and I think the parents freaked out too and decided to unify against the crazy wife to protect their kid. This common goal brought them together, and imporved the marriage that was shaky before.

Good - it means they left her partner alone.

The affair was over at that point. Everyone involved felt bad for the kid, and what's funny, for the cheating husband, too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m contemplating telling the AP’s adult children. They should know their parent is a POS.

Then you would be a POS too. Just like your spouse and their AP. Nice company you keep.

But why? I thought cheating on your wife was hurting the kids too.

It is. And the PP telling the kids hurts them. PP would be just like the cheaters.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is all just another version of blame and revenge on the other woman, instead of placing blame and work where it should be placed - on *your* cheating spouse, and focusing on *your* relationship.

I blamed my cheating spouse. I felt morally obligated to inform the other betrayed spouse so they were no longer victim to the lies and potential health risks.

Being cheated on felt like someone was holding me underwater. When I finally figured out the truth, I couldn't bear to sit by and watch another person being treated the same way.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hope the posters calling AP a whore aren’t staying with their disgusting husbands.

OP doesn’t sound concerned, she just wanted revenge on the AP. Great, now both AP and her DH are free to be in a legit relationship.

Two cheating whores deserve one another. Scumbags.

The better way to see this: two suffering people, dying emotionally in their marriages to disappointing partners. They see each other across a crowded room and fall in love, liberating each other from unhappiness.

Sometimes the moral choice is to explore the feelings, to have the affair. When the spouse underachieves so much and weighs you down, they have silently given you permission to look around for a better option.

When you find that better option, the moral thing to do is to jump so that your kids can finally see what a loving marriage between two sane, not crazy, successful people looks like.

OMFG! This post should go viral. Do you do stand up somewhere?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hope the posters calling AP a whore aren’t staying with their disgusting husbands.

OP doesn’t sound concerned, she just wanted revenge on the AP. Great, now both AP and her DH are free to be in a legit relationship.

Two cheating whores deserve one another. Scumbags.

The better way to see this: two suffering people, dying emotionally in their marriages to disappointing partners. They see each other across a crowded room and fall in love, liberating each other from unhappiness.

Sometimes the moral choice is to explore the feelings, to have the affair. When the spouse underachieves so much and weighs you down, they have silently given you permission to look around for a better option.

When you find that better option, the moral thing to do is to jump so that your kids can finally see what a loving marriage between two sane, not crazy, successful people looks like.

OMFG! This post should go viral. Do you do stand up somewhere?

Sounds like my ex-ap.