They're all G rated, no one would give them a second look, I will say the suggested follows are the most entertaining. They're aware of the account so I blocked the affair partner so they won't be able to see updates or who follows the account. One picture in particular has 21 shares so it's making the rounds way behind their back, just like they went way behind mine. FB and IG have this great new feature where the blocks go across IP addresses, networks, email confirmations and device IMEI so no matter how many accounts they make they can't see it. Sorry.....I'm so not sorry! |
You sound just as selfish and self centered as the cheaters OP. |
What other people missed is that an affair can expose the other spouse to STDs. For this reason alone it's important to divulge. Whatever happens, happens. But I feel strongly that the more you know, the better you can decide your future. |
Absolutely! I wish I had the AP spouse’s email. I am sure they would be shocked to know the spouse is bringing someone into their home for sex every time they are out of town, oh, and they have been exposed to a STD. They deserve to know! |
I fail to see the selfishness |
Good- you did the right thing.
All experienced marriage counselors will tell you the same. EXPOSE THE TRUTH. DON'T LIVE IN LIES. |
Who cares if you cheated? You still have zero integrity. She was absolutely right to tell so that the other betrayed spouse has agency in their life. They can protect their health and have all the information when they are making big decisions that have family or financial implications. The only people that may have destroyed the children's lives are the cheaters. What kind of f/'ed up logic do you follow that blames the cheated on spouse for the family destruction? That's some serious mental gymnastics. |
The shares are because you’re airing dirty laundry and people love to spectate and bear witness to other people’s messes. |
PREACH!!!! ⭐️ |
Uh yeah that’s the idea |
Re-read the OP. Not even fake concern of “the other spouse deserved know the truth”, everything is “I” and “me”. |
The folks that cheated caused the trauma, not OP. |
Good for you OP. Update us a s let us know if the spouse responds. |
Good for you! Ignore the cheaters (or cheat apologists) who'd rather keep their dirty secrets hidden.
Have you gotten a response? How did you find out? Does your spouse know that you know/shared this? |
I’m few similarly. Also never cheated. OP that was selfish AF. |