Revealing affair

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Congratulations on possibly destroying children’s lives with a bitter divorce that might not have otherwise happened if you didn’t feel the need to insert yourself into other’s lives.

This is worse than cheating. You are directly possibly causing trauma for kids that may not have happened otherwise. Marriage is about much more than sex.

People should mind their own business.

-never cheated

I’m few similarly. Also never cheated. OP that was selfish AF.

*I feel

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Congratulations on possibly destroying children’s lives with a bitter divorce that might not have otherwise happened if you didn’t feel the need to insert yourself into other’s lives.

This is worse than cheating. You are directly possibly causing trauma for kids that may not have happened otherwise. Marriage is about much more than sex.

People should mind their own business.

-never cheated

The folks that cheated caused the trauma, not OP.

Tell that to the children.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Congratulations on possibly destroying children’s lives with a bitter divorce that might not have otherwise happened if you didn’t feel the need to insert yourself into other’s lives.

This is worse than cheating. You are directly possibly causing trauma for kids that may not have happened otherwise. Marriage is about much more than sex.

People should mind their own business.

-never cheated

The folks that cheated caused the trauma, not OP.

Tell that to the children.

Maybe the cheater should?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I made an instagram account with their pictures.

Let’s all dance in the sun!

I’d prob do private and friend request the AP and their spouse - and your stbx, but I would not make it public where anyone - including your own kids and coworkers - could see and gossip about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did the same.

I don’t GAF what happens to their family just like they don’t care what happened to my family.

They created this problem, not me.

A-holes don’t like to take responsibility for their actions. FAFO

Absolutely! Same!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
What other people missed is that an affair can expose the other spouse to STDs. For this reason alone it's important to divulge.

Whatever happens, happens. But I feel strongly that the more you know, the better you can decide your future.

Absolutely! I wish I had the AP spouse’s email. I am sure they would be shocked to know the spouse is bringing someone into their home for sex every time they are out of town, oh, and they have been exposed to a STD. They deserve to know!

Out of town??? How about just when he goes to work and kids go to school? lol

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Congratulations on possibly destroying children’s lives with a bitter divorce that might not have otherwise happened if you didn’t feel the need to insert yourself into other’s lives.

This is worse than cheating. You are directly possibly causing trauma for kids that may not have happened otherwise. Marriage is about much more than sex.

People should mind their own business.

-never cheated

The folks that cheated caused the trauma, not OP.

Tell that to the children.

Their whore mother can explain it to them.

[Anonymous]

For those people getting upset with OP, it sounds like you're all afraid of being exposed. What OP did is a natural response to being cheated on. It's sad to think the other spouse is in your position - but really worse - b/c they don't know. It's always best to know the truth and go from there.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For those people getting upset with OP, it sounds like you're all afraid of being exposed. What OP did is a natural response to being cheated on. It's sad to think the other spouse is in your position - but really worse - b/c they don't know. It's always best to know the truth and go from there.

OP mentions nothing about concern for the other spouse, their reaction etc. OP is just giddy to expose the cheaters.

[Anonymous]

Spouse has an ethical obligation to tell other cheaters spouse. They are aware of information that could impact the health and stability of that persons life. Whether or not that spouse chooses to divorce, how the children are treated, etc, does nothing to diminish the original ethical obligation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For those people getting upset with OP, it sounds like you're all afraid of being exposed. What OP did is a natural response to being cheated on. It's sad to think the other spouse is in your position - but really worse - b/c they don't know. It's always best to know the truth and go from there.

Actions have consequences.

If you don’t want your spouse or kids or family or friends to know you cheated, it’s very, very simple: don’t cheat!

I would not expect the kindness of a betrayed spouse to keep your whore secrets. She won’t give two fks about you or your family, just like you didn’t care about hers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For those people getting upset with OP, it sounds like you're all afraid of being exposed. What OP did is a natural response to being cheated on. It's sad to think the other spouse is in your position - but really worse - b/c they don't know. It's always best to know the truth and go from there.

OP mentions nothing about concern for the other spouse, their reaction etc. OP is just giddy to expose the cheaters.

So what? They literally fked her over. She should get off on exposing their treachery. I’m sure the cheaters were giddy every time they met up to fk and pulled one over on their spouses to get out of the house to do it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Congratulations on possibly destroying children’s lives with a bitter divorce that might not have otherwise happened if you didn’t feel the need to insert yourself into other’s lives.

This is worse than cheating. You are directly possibly causing trauma for kids that may not have happened otherwise. Marriage is about much more than sex.

People should mind their own business.

-never cheated

The folks that cheated caused the trauma, not OP.

Tell that to the children.

Their whore mother can explain it to them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Good for you OP. Update us a s let us know if the spouse responds.

The other betrayed spouse did respond. In my email to them I told them how I was sharing this information because I felt they deserved to know the truth. They told me they hadn’t known and thanked me for telling them.

[Anonymous]

How did you find out? Do they know you know?