So, it's unfair to stereotype OP's URM kid but it's fair to stereotype Asian American students. OK, here it goes. Many URM parents don't really care about education that's why their kids perform so poorly in school. They spend money and time on things they value, like bling, and not education, like tutors and violin lessons. If their kids are failing in school they blame the teachers or racism or anyone/anything else other than themselves. See how that goes? |
Whatever you need to tell yourself to ignore your own racism. Anyone can make points to justify racism. That’s why the KKK has followers, justifying beliefs to sleep at night. Sorry you don’t like that some of us can see through your word salad. |
So Harvard thinks we don't want a bunch of grade-grubbing, test-prepping, exam-cheating, boring NPCs being our future leaders. Harvard is wrong about a lot of things but they might have something in this case. |
No I certainly don’t think Harvard should be in charge of being king makers. But until they are displaced by someone else, they will claim they are and people will flock to them. In some ways Stanford did that in this country in Tech. But they are now following the same model. |
Therefore it's time for the society's stewards (i.e. government, courts, etc) to step in and fix these freeloaders from screwing up our society. |
As opposed to choosing ball chucking, bling chasing, weekday drinking, daddy-funded fools? Good choice indeed! ![]() |
Not in a capitalist society. |
Harvard has been around for nearly 400 years, folks.
Pretty sure they understand their value proposition and have a plan to last 400 more. So long as they keep admitting and educating kids who go on to be influential adults it does not matter o them at all who they did not admit. Why should it? |
You should joke back “If only they were a legacy, then they could REALLY slack off!” |
"lots of asian americans"...how about lots of kids in general...this is typical racism. Personality may be lacking in any race, why single out asians? |
+1. Also doesn’t help that, quite frankly, there is a not-insignificant number of URMs from super elite schools that I’ve encountered who simply are not quite as brilliant as one would hope. But the same goes for legacies and donor admits and athletes. |
Do you realize we subsidize all institutions of higher ed through tax breaks? They.don't.pay.any.taxes! Who do you think is footing that bill? Did you say capitalism? ![]() ![]() |
Harvard is no king maker. The school is looking for leadership in their candidates and I suppose it can be apparant in a variety of ways. Just having Harvard on one's resume does not guarantee success in life. Same with Stanford. My sibling is a Stanford Phd and can't hold down a job because sibling's personality kind of sucks (haughty, condescending, slightly asperger-ish, lots of denial). When I was a teen I worked in a bookstore with a recent Harvard grad. That poor woman was so incapable and admitted to poor mathematical skills. She also spoke a bit too loud. She was white. I felt sorry for her mostly because after such a precious education she was working in a new age bookstore selling crystal crap. I hung out with many Ivy products and you'd be surprised at the outcome. One of my colleagues is a Harvard alumn. Really nice guy, but not exactly a groundbreaker and not looking to be. College does NOT make the person. Like one person said, character is baked in by 19. While it is nice to have the name on one's resume, life is still no cakewalk afterwards. If you go in without social capital, you might still leave with no social capital. The school gives you 4 years of education and a degree, not a mission in life, not a purpose, not drive, creativity, wonder, determination. That all has to be fostered from within by nature and nurture. Plenty of people have managed to be leaders without Harvard. |
Hey, Jared Kushner is a Harvard grad (thanks to dad's bounty). He really dazzled in the White House didn't he? |
How is it that you have encountered a not insignificant number of URMs from super elite schools???? I'm one AND I spend my workdays at an even more elite institution. There are very. Very few of us here. |