How to marry a financially compatible man?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m female in my late 40s and make $500k. My kids are taken care of and their father makes just under $1M.

I get what you’re looking for—someone who can keep up with you financially and culturally. It’s expensive to travel to Europe for 2 weeks in summer, spend 2 weeks skiing in the winter, and have a few long weekends. You’re future partner needs to be able to pay their own way. People on DCUM are so quick to tell women who want a more extravagant lifestyle to get their own money. Well, you have your own money. I don’t see why what you’re looking for is unreasonable. However, in the DC area it’s probably not realistic. You need to look in NY or Silicon Valley.

Vomit. And yes, you are right. Those men are not in DC. Which is why I told a family member to leave 20 years ago...and he did and now very wealthy.

Did your family member find a high net worth gentlemen in his new home area?

The family member is a man and a multimillionaire. He married an immigrant (Eastern European) who is not at all like OP. She is not materialistic at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m female in my late 40s and make $500k. My kids are taken care of and their father makes just under $1M.

I get what you’re looking for—someone who can keep up with you financially and culturally. It’s expensive to travel to Europe for 2 weeks in summer, spend 2 weeks skiing in the winter, and have a few long weekends. You’re future partner needs to be able to pay their own way. People on DCUM are so quick to tell women who want a more extravagant lifestyle to get their own money. Well, you have your own money. I don’t see why what you’re looking for is unreasonable. However, in the DC area it’s probably not realistic. You need to look in NY or Silicon Valley.

Vomit. And yes, you are right. Those men are not in DC. Which is why I told a family member to leave 20 years ago...and he did and now very wealthy.

What is there to vomit about?

You live in an unrealistic bubble about what matters. It is especially disgusting since you have money and waste it on “lifestyle” and BS appearances.

[Anonymous]

Just go to any high end ski resort. Lots of wealthy men. And single men outnumber single women by a huge margin.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m female in my late 40s and make $500k. My kids are taken care of and their father makes just under $1M.

I get what you’re looking for—someone who can keep up with you financially and culturally. It’s expensive to travel to Europe for 2 weeks in summer, spend 2 weeks skiing in the winter, and have a few long weekends. You’re future partner needs to be able to pay their own way. People on DCUM are so quick to tell women who want a more extravagant lifestyle to get their own money. Well, you have your own money. I don’t see why what you’re looking for is unreasonable. However, in the DC area it’s probably not realistic. You need to look in NY or Silicon Valley.

Vomit. And yes, you are right. Those men are not in DC. Which is why I told a family member to leave 20 years ago...and he did and now very wealthy.

Did your family member find a high net worth gentlemen in his new home area?

The family member is a man and a multimillionaire. He married an immigrant (Eastern European) who is not at all like OP. She is not materialistic at all.

It’s a totally different situation - if she’s a young imjgrant without much to her name she won’t be thinking about a man contributing equally. She will ge happy with whatever her husband offers as she married him when he had it all already

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Just go to any high end ski resort. Lots of wealthy men. And single men outnumber single women by a huge margin.

And where do you get to know the men? They all wear goggles on the slopes

[Anonymous]

Just pay for a matchmaker. You are going to attract so many scammer type men or 50 something lounge lizards looking for a sugar mama if you lay out all your stats and requirements on a normal app.

[Anonymous]

OP's ex was killed by police, in Minnesota, and she received $800,000 as a settlement, which is a lot, but doesn't make you super-rich. OP may be overestimating her wealth.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m female in my late 40s and make $500k. My kids are taken care of and their father makes just under $1M.

I get what you’re looking for—someone who can keep up with you financially and culturally. It’s expensive to travel to Europe for 2 weeks in summer, spend 2 weeks skiing in the winter, and have a few long weekends. You’re future partner needs to be able to pay their own way. People on DCUM are so quick to tell women who want a more extravagant lifestyle to get their own money. Well, you have your own money. I don’t see why what you’re looking for is unreasonable. However, in the DC area it’s probably not realistic. You need to look in NY or Silicon Valley.

Vomit. And yes, you are right. Those men are not in DC. Which is why I told a family member to leave 20 years ago...and he did and now very wealthy.

Did your family member find a high net worth gentlemen in his new home area?

The family member is a man and a multimillionaire. He married an immigrant (Eastern European) who is not at all like OP. She is not materialistic at all.

It’s a totally different situation - if she’s a young imjgrant without much to her name she won’t be thinking about a man contributing equally. She will ge happy with whatever her husband offers as she married him when he had it all already

She is not young now and Harvard graduate degree. Stop with your assumptions. They married when he was just getting started. They married before age 30.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP seems like a very detail oriented troll. See the hilarious post above about how loving and patient she is.

I agree! Masterful troll fish.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP's ex was killed by police, in Minnesota, and she received $800,000 as a settlement, which is a lot, but doesn't make you super-rich. OP may be overestimating her wealth.

I feel sorry for you if 800K or even $3mm net worth sounds like whole lot to you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m female in my late 40s and make $500k. My kids are taken care of and their father makes just under $1M.

I get what you’re looking for—someone who can keep up with you financially and culturally. It’s expensive to travel to Europe for 2 weeks in summer, spend 2 weeks skiing in the winter, and have a few long weekends. You’re future partner needs to be able to pay their own way. People on DCUM are so quick to tell women who want a more extravagant lifestyle to get their own money. Well, you have your own money. I don’t see why what you’re looking for is unreasonable. However, in the DC area it’s probably not realistic. You need to look in NY or Silicon Valley.

Vomit. And yes, you are right. Those men are not in DC. Which is why I told a family member to leave 20 years ago...and he did and now very wealthy.

Did your family member find a high net worth gentlemen in his new home area?

The family member is a man and a multimillionaire. He married an immigrant (Eastern European) who is not at all like OP. She is not materialistic at all.

It’s a totally different situation - if she’s a young imjgrant without much to her name she won’t be thinking about a man contributing equally. She will ge happy with whatever her husband offers as she married him when he had it all already

She is not young now and Harvard graduate degree. Stop with your assumptions. They married when he was just getting started. They married before age 30.

Stop with this fake thinking she went to Harvard for non-materialist goals. Everyone knows why people complete for these scholarships or pay tuition fees: access to certain circles, higher salaries, higher success. She didn't marry "Joe the Plumber". Neither did I (didn't go to Harvard but to another pretty well ranked program)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP's ex was killed by police, in Minnesota, and she received $800,000 as a settlement, which is a lot, but doesn't make you super-rich. OP may be overestimating her wealth.

I feel sorry for you if 800K or even $3mm net worth sounds like whole lot to you.

Well OP did lose her husband (in an unlawful police shooting) so she may be dealing with PTSD.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Just pay for a matchmaker. You are going to attract so many scammer type men or 50 something lounge lizards looking for a sugar mama if you lay out all your stats and requirements on a normal app.

Can you recommend a good one?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP's ex was killed by police, in Minnesota, and she received $800,000 as a settlement, which is a lot, but doesn't make you super-rich. OP may be overestimating her wealth.

I feel sorry for you if 800K or even $3mm net worth sounds like whole lot to you.

Well OP did lose her husband (in an unlawful police shooting) so she may be dealing with PTSD.

You are insane. Seriously, just f..ed up crazy. Are you fixed on black lives matter or something?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m female in my late 40s and make $500k. My kids are taken care of and their father makes just under $1M.

I get what you’re looking for—someone who can keep up with you financially and culturally. It’s expensive to travel to Europe for 2 weeks in summer, spend 2 weeks skiing in the winter, and have a few long weekends. You’re future partner needs to be able to pay their own way. People on DCUM are so quick to tell women who want a more extravagant lifestyle to get their own money. Well, you have your own money. I don’t see why what you’re looking for is unreasonable. However, in the DC area it’s probably not realistic. You need to look in NY or Silicon Valley.

Vomit. And yes, you are right. Those men are not in DC. Which is why I told a family member to leave 20 years ago...and he did and now very wealthy.

What is there to vomit about?

You live in an unrealistic bubble about what matters. It is especially disgusting since you have money and waste it on “lifestyle” and BS appearances.

Sorry. Money does matter. It's all well and good to be idealistic that love conquers all. And then reality creeps in and life is expensive. How many people on DCUM outsource everything that they can? That's not trivial money. If OP wants to travel then that's what's important to her. You many consider it a waste on "lifestyle" but at 40 with a grown child, what do you think she should be doing? Her kid is off to college, she has her retirement money already. I have no idea what sort of non wasteful lifestyle expenses you think she should be spending her money on.