How to marry a financially compatible man?

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Anonymous wrote:OP, are you from St. Paul MN. When did you move here?

I am not, and you can't even screen IP addresses correctly.

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Invest in a matchmaker. I see listings for them in my Ivy alumni magazine, and see it in my exDH's alumni magazine too.

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Ideally I need my future husband in a 300K+ income bracket, to "restore" the lifestyle I had prior to my divorce.

Ah, nothing impresses a man more than a woman’s need to spend his money.

There is an exception for young and really hot women.

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Anonymous wrote:OP, are you from St. Paul MN. When did you move here?

I am not, and you can't even screen IP addresses correctly.

OK, but was Philando your ex?

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Anonymous wrote:Invest in a matchmaker. I see listings for them in my Ivy alumni magazine, and see it in my exDH's alumni magazine too.

Cool idea, thanks!

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Anonymous wrote:The longer your list, the slimmer the prospects.

I am not interested in a long term relationship or wasting time on incompatible men so if I get contacted once a month it’s ok. I am almost at peace staying single for the rest of my life but if someone similar to me comes forward I will hear him

You will “hear him?” Who are you, the empress? I imagine this attitude of yours turns men off, big time.

I mean, if I meet someone who is compatible I will invest in this relationship. Women waste so much time in marriages with incompatible men! I don’t want to fall into this trap

Didn’t you already fall into that trap once?

Not really. My exH cheated for years but didn’t file for divorce as financially he didn’t want to break the marriage. I realized marriage couldn’t work with 3 people in it. But I don’t regret my financial trajectory in former marriage, or all that travels, good times we had, having my child. I got a lot from my marriage

You don't say. I can't imagine what prompted him to do that.

You can't. His GF is his new business partner. He was very similar to me in fact which is why it worked for so long. He was not the initiator of the divorce I just couldn't tolerate his philandering anymore.

OP, is this, above, some sort of a code for Philando Castile? Was he your ex?

gerund or present participle: philandering
(of a man) readily or frequently enter into casual sexual relationships with women.
"married men who philander"

What are we talking about here, did you smoke too much pot today?

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Anonymous wrote:The longer your list, the slimmer the prospects.

I am not interested in a long term relationship or wasting time on incompatible men so if I get contacted once a month it’s ok. I am almost at peace staying single for the rest of my life but if someone similar to me comes forward I will hear him

You will “hear him?” Who are you, the empress? I imagine this attitude of yours turns men off, big time.

I mean, if I meet someone who is compatible I will invest in this relationship. Women waste so much time in marriages with incompatible men! I don’t want to fall into this trap

Didn’t you already fall into that trap once?

Not really. My exH cheated for years but didn’t file for divorce as financially he didn’t want to break the marriage. I realized marriage couldn’t work with 3 people in it. But I don’t regret my financial trajectory in former marriage, or all that travels, good times we had, having my child. I got a lot from my marriage

You don't say. I can't imagine what prompted him to do that.

You can't. His GF is his new business partner. He was very similar to me in fact which is why it worked for so long. He was not the initiator of the divorce I just couldn't tolerate his philandering anymore.

OP, is this, above, some sort of a code for Philando Castile? Was he your ex?

gerund or present participle: philandering
(of a man) readily or frequently enter into casual sexual relationships with women.
"married men who philander"

What are we talking about here, did you smoke too much pot today?

It appears that OP may be Philando Castile's ex. The use of the term "philandering" was a tell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m female in my late 40s and make $500k. My kids are taken care of and their father makes just under $1M.

I get what you’re looking for—someone who can keep up with you financially and culturally. It’s expensive to travel to Europe for 2 weeks in summer, spend 2 weeks skiing in the winter, and have a few long weekends. You’re future partner needs to be able to pay their own way. People on DCUM are so quick to tell women who want a more extravagant lifestyle to get their own money. Well, you have your own money. I don’t see why what you’re looking for is unreasonable. However, in the DC area it’s probably not realistic. You need to look in NY or Silicon Valley.

Vomit. And yes, you are right. Those men are not in DC. Which is why I told a family member to leave 20 years ago...and he did and now very wealthy.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m female in my late 40s and make $500k. My kids are taken care of and their father makes just under $1M.

I get what you’re looking for—someone who can keep up with you financially and culturally. It’s expensive to travel to Europe for 2 weeks in summer, spend 2 weeks skiing in the winter, and have a few long weekends. You’re future partner needs to be able to pay their own way. People on DCUM are so quick to tell women who want a more extravagant lifestyle to get their own money. Well, you have your own money. I don’t see why what you’re looking for is unreasonable. However, in the DC area it’s probably not realistic. You need to look in NY or Silicon Valley.

Vomit. And yes, you are right. Those men are not in DC. Which is why I told a family member to leave 20 years ago...and he did and now very wealthy.

Did your family member find a high net worth gentlemen in his new home area?

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Anonymous wrote:I’m female in my late 40s and make $500k. My kids are taken care of and their father makes just under $1M.

I get what you’re looking for—someone who can keep up with you financially and culturally. It’s expensive to travel to Europe for 2 weeks in summer, spend 2 weeks skiing in the winter, and have a few long weekends. You’re future partner needs to be able to pay their own way. People on DCUM are so quick to tell women who want a more extravagant lifestyle to get their own money. Well, you have your own money. I don’t see why what you’re looking for is unreasonable. However, in the DC area it’s probably not realistic. You need to look in NY or Silicon Valley.

Vomit. And yes, you are right. Those men are not in DC. Which is why I told a family member to leave 20 years ago...and he did and now very wealthy.

What is there to vomit about?

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Anonymous wrote:The longer your list, the slimmer the prospects.

I am not interested in a long term relationship or wasting time on incompatible men so if I get contacted once a month it’s ok. I am almost at peace staying single for the rest of my life but if someone similar to me comes forward I will hear him

You will “hear him?” Who are you, the empress? I imagine this attitude of yours turns men off, big time.

I mean, if I meet someone who is compatible I will invest in this relationship. Women waste so much time in marriages with incompatible men! I don’t want to fall into this trap

Didn’t you already fall into that trap once?

Not really. My exH cheated for years but didn’t file for divorce as financially he didn’t want to break the marriage. I realized marriage couldn’t work with 3 people in it. But I don’t regret my financial trajectory in former marriage, or all that travels, good times we had, having my child. I got a lot from my marriage

You don't say. I can't imagine what prompted him to do that.

You can't. His GF is his new business partner. He was very similar to me in fact which is why it worked for so long. He was not the initiator of the divorce I just couldn't tolerate his philandering anymore.

OP, is this, above, some sort of a code for Philando Castile? Was he your ex?

gerund or present participle: philandering
(of a man) readily or frequently enter into casual sexual relationships with women.
"married men who philander"

What are we talking about here, did you smoke too much pot today?

It appears that OP may be Philando Castile's ex. The use of the term "philandering" was a tell.

OP here. Philandering is a common term used for cheating men by europeans. No, my exH is not him, and not from the US even

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I’m female in my late 40s and make $500k. My kids are taken care of and their father makes just under $1M.

I get what you’re looking for—someone who can keep up with you financially and culturally. It’s expensive to travel to Europe for 2 weeks in summer, spend 2 weeks skiing in the winter, and have a few long weekends. You’re future partner needs to be able to pay their own way. People on DCUM are so quick to tell women who want a more extravagant lifestyle to get their own money. Well, you have your own money. I don’t see why what you’re looking for is unreasonable. However, in the DC area it’s probably not realistic. You need to look in NY or Silicon Valley.

Vomit. And yes, you are right. Those men are not in DC. Which is why I told a family member to leave 20 years ago...and he did and now very wealthy.

What is there to vomit about?

They just want to vomit about any woman who's well off. Regardless. Its the mens' world, you know. Unless you marry well at age 20 if you are a woman you should be doomed and your life should end right when your husband cheats on you and you divorce him

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Anonymous wrote:The longer your list, the slimmer the prospects.

I am not interested in a long term relationship or wasting time on incompatible men so if I get contacted once a month it’s ok. I am almost at peace staying single for the rest of my life but if someone similar to me comes forward I will hear him

You will “hear him?” Who are you, the empress? I imagine this attitude of yours turns men off, big time.

I mean, if I meet someone who is compatible I will invest in this relationship. Women waste so much time in marriages with incompatible men! I don’t want to fall into this trap

Didn’t you already fall into that trap once?

Not really. My exH cheated for years but didn’t file for divorce as financially he didn’t want to break the marriage. I realized marriage couldn’t work with 3 people in it. But I don’t regret my financial trajectory in former marriage, or all that travels, good times we had, having my child. I got a lot from my marriage

You don't say. I can't imagine what prompted him to do that.

You can't. His GF is his new business partner. He was very similar to me in fact which is why it worked for so long. He was not the initiator of the divorce I just couldn't tolerate his philandering anymore.

OP, is this, above, some sort of a code for Philando Castile? Was he your ex?

gerund or present participle: philandering
(of a man) readily or frequently enter into casual sexual relationships with women.
"married men who philander"

What are we talking about here, did you smoke too much pot today?

It appears that OP may be Philando Castile's ex. The use of the term "philandering" was a tell.

OP here. Philandering is a common term used for cheating men by europeans. No, my exH is not him, and not from the US even

I would like to believe you.

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Anonymous wrote:The longer your list, the slimmer the prospects.

I am not interested in a long term relationship or wasting time on incompatible men so if I get contacted once a month it’s ok. I am almost at peace staying single for the rest of my life but if someone similar to me comes forward I will hear him

You will “hear him?” Who are you, the empress? I imagine this attitude of yours turns men off, big time.

I mean, if I meet someone who is compatible I will invest in this relationship. Women waste so much time in marriages with incompatible men! I don’t want to fall into this trap

Didn’t you already fall into that trap once?

Not really. My exH cheated for years but didn’t file for divorce as financially he didn’t want to break the marriage. I realized marriage couldn’t work with 3 people in it. But I don’t regret my financial trajectory in former marriage, or all that travels, good times we had, having my child. I got a lot from my marriage

You don't say. I can't imagine what prompted him to do that.

You can't. His GF is his new business partner. He was very similar to me in fact which is why it worked for so long. He was not the initiator of the divorce I just couldn't tolerate his philandering anymore.

OP, is this, above, some sort of a code for Philando Castile? Was he your ex?

gerund or present participle: philandering
(of a man) readily or frequently enter into casual sexual relationships with women.
"married men who philander"

What are we talking about here, did you smoke too much pot today?

It appears that OP may be Philando Castile's ex. The use of the term "philandering" was a tell.

OP here. Philandering is a common term used for cheating men by europeans. No, my exH is not him, and not from the US even

I would like to believe you.

I googled him, he was 32 and his girlfriend pretty young too. She got $800k in settlement . Sorry, not me. What else can I say?

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Anonymous wrote:The longer your list, the slimmer the prospects.

I am not interested in a long term relationship or wasting time on incompatible men so if I get contacted once a month it’s ok. I am almost at peace staying single for the rest of my life but if someone similar to me comes forward I will hear him

You will “hear him?” Who are you, the empress? I imagine this attitude of yours turns men off, big time.

I mean, if I meet someone who is compatible I will invest in this relationship. Women waste so much time in marriages with incompatible men! I don’t want to fall into this trap

Didn’t you already fall into that trap once?

Not really. My exH cheated for years but didn’t file for divorce as financially he didn’t want to break the marriage. I realized marriage couldn’t work with 3 people in it. But I don’t regret my financial trajectory in former marriage, or all that travels, good times we had, having my child. I got a lot from my marriage

You don't say. I can't imagine what prompted him to do that.

You can't. His GF is his new business partner. He was very similar to me in fact which is why it worked for so long. He was not the initiator of the divorce I just couldn't tolerate his philandering anymore.

OP, is this, above, some sort of a code for Philando Castile? Was he your ex?

gerund or present participle: philandering
(of a man) readily or frequently enter into casual sexual relationships with women.
"married men who philander"

What are we talking about here, did you smoke too much pot today?

It appears that OP may be Philando Castile's ex. The use of the term "philandering" was a tell.

OP here. Philandering is a common term used for cheating men by europeans. No, my exH is not him, and not from the US even

I would like to believe you.

I googled him, he was 32 and his girlfriend pretty young too. She got $800k in settlement . Sorry, not me. What else can I say?

OP,

Honesty is such a lonely word
Everyone is so untrue
Honesty is hardly ever heard
And mostly what we need from you