What’s the dating scene like for a 39 year old, divorced dad of 2 kids

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How old are your children? Do you want more? Because the 20 something will want more kids that are HERS.

The late 30 something or 40 something woman may actually be an involved step-mother.

If you just want booty, I don't think it matters.

Please. This is DC. The late 30 something or early 40 something will definitely want kids that are HERS. You’d have to date late 40’s to 50’s to find women resigned to not having children of their own.

[Anonymous]

There is a divorced woman looking for a man on DCUM.

[Anonymous]

Divorced 43 yo dad here with two daughters aged 13 and 10. Make 90k working at a wll known non profit, 5 ft 8, good shape, all my hair.

I've had my pick of the litter with any woman 35-40. Not interested in women older than I am, but I could have any of them if I wanted.

The playing field is 100% to your advantage right now.

Take care of yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Get snipped. No accidents.

I agree.

I second this. And put it in your profile to weed out women who want babies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How old are your children? Do you want more? Because the 20 something will want more kids that are HERS.

The late 30 something or 40 something woman may actually be an involved step-mother.

If you just want booty, I don't think it matters.

Please. This is DC. The late 30 something or early 40 something will definitely want kids that are HERS. You’d have to date late 40’s to 50’s to find women resigned to not having children of their own.

This was so not true of me. I had my second kid at 34, divorced at 35, and dating at 37-39, I did not want any more kids and found it hard to find men who didn’t want more kids of their own. It was easier to find men who wanted nothing to do with kids ever than to find divorced dads who didn’t want to have a baby with a new wife. My DH got snipped when we got married and then gradually talked me into adoption. I love the kid, but it is not what I pictured for myself when I said my vows.

[Anonymous]

I hope that someone dates these men. The last thing anyone needs is a bunch of 40 year old male incels walking around.

Thank you, ladies, for doing the rest of us a service so we can move on with our lives!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you make more than 250k+ you can try to date this gem....https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/977977.page

Came here to say the same thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hope that someone dates these men. The last thing anyone needs is a bunch of 40 year old male incels walking around.

Thank you, ladies, for doing the rest of us a service so we can move on with our lives!

In 2021 nothing is easier than getting laid in DC. You'd have to be a total dud to be an Incel right now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m single with no kids, looking for a nice divorced Dad. Unfortunately all the divorced Dad’s want to date 25 year olds, so if you’re willing to date someone your own age then you’re in luck!

Why would you want the baggage of someone with kids? Why not just find another childfree person to date?

So children are "baggage"? What a sweet sentiment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you make more than 250k+ you can try to date this gem....
https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/977977.page

[Anonymous]

Get the hpv vaccine and use condoms

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Get snipped. No accidents.

I agree.

Do this ASAP. Do not have more kids with someone else. Not fair to your current kids

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Get the hpv vaccine and use condoms

you're an idiot

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If you're in shape and make good money and have some semblance of a personality it is not that hard to date and establish long term relationships with girls in their late 20s.

Yuck. Don’t think so. 20’s don’t want baggage and neither do 30’s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I’m single with no kids, looking for a nice divorced Dad. Unfortunately all the divorced Dad’s want to date 25 year olds, so if you’re willing to date someone your own age then you’re in luck!

Why would you want the baggage of someone with kids? Why not just find another childfree person to date?

So children are "baggage"? What a sweet sentiment.

Yep, they are in the dating world. Clutch your pearls.