What’s the dating scene like for a 39 year old, divorced dad of 2 kids

[Anonymous]

My wife and I can’t see eye to eye on anything. It looks like we’re headed for divorce. I am in good shape and have a good career. I’m ready to jump into dating when it’s over. How are people rebounding? What are the best sites? We’ve been cold to each other for so long, that id rather just learn tips than be scolded for moving on so quickly. Thank you.

[Anonymous]

You were not specific enough about what you are looking for.

[Anonymous]

I’m single with no kids, looking for a nice divorced Dad. Unfortunately all the divorced Dad’s want to date 25 year olds, so if you’re willing to date someone your own age then you’re in luck!

[Anonymous]

If you're in shape and make good money and have some semblance of a personality it is not that hard to date and establish long term relationships with girls in their late 20s.

[Anonymous]

How old are your children? Do you want more? Because the 20 something will want more kids that are HERS.

The late 30 something or 40 something woman may actually be an involved step-mother.

If you just want booty, I don't think it matters.

[Anonymous]

Date for fun for awhile (and upfront that thats your goal) and keep it away from your kids. Be incredibly thoughtful before exposing your kids to anyone and be certain you've given them tons of time to process the divorce before thrusting someone else on them

[Anonymous]

If you make more than 250k+ you can try to date this gem....https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/977977.page

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m single with no kids, looking for a nice divorced Dad. Unfortunately all the divorced Dad’s want to date 25 year olds, so if you’re willing to date someone your own age then you’re in luck!

Troll

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife and I can’t see eye to eye on anything. It looks like we’re headed for divorce. I am in good shape and have a good career. I’m ready to jump into dating when it’s over. How are people rebounding? What are the best sites? We’ve been cold to each other for so long, that id rather just learn tips than be scolded for moving on so quickly. Thank you.

Troll.

If you’re that checked out that you’re divorcing to go get the next one, pls divorce ASAP.

[Anonymous]

Get snipped. No accidents.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Get snipped. No accidents.

I agree.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How old are your children? Do you want more? Because the 20 something will want more kids that are HERS.

The late 30 something or 40 something woman may actually be an involved step-mother.

If you just want booty, I don't think it matters.

This, but any woman of childbearing age will either want her own kids or won't want kids at all, including yours. You sound like you're just looking for sex though. Just be clear about that before you sleep with someone.

[Anonymous]

Take some time and focus on yourself and the kids and the kids adjustment before you run off and date/marry again.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My wife and I can’t see eye to eye on anything. It looks like we’re headed for divorce. I am in good shape and have a good career. I’m ready to jump into dating when it’s over. How are people rebounding? What are the best sites? We’ve been cold to each other for so long, that id rather just learn tips than be scolded for moving on so quickly. Thank you.

Yes, only divorce with your wife you no longer talk to if DCUM guarantees you are hot to trot in the local dating market as a 39yo with two kids, in “good shape,” with a “good career,” and just dumped his wife. Sounds like a plan. But only if the dates are there because.... that’s all you intrinsically need apparently.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I’m single with no kids, looking for a nice divorced Dad. Unfortunately all the divorced Dad’s want to date 25 year olds, so if you’re willing to date someone your own age then you’re in luck!

Why would you want the baggage of someone with kids? Why not just find another childfree person to date?