Is this rude?

[Anonymous]

Well don't give her a justification of her irrational dislike for you by defriending her or doing something oddly passive aggressive. That won't help anything.

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Anonymous wrote:Well don't give her a justification of her irrational dislike for you by defriending her or doing something oddly passive aggressive. That won't help anything.

Why is unfriending someone on Facebook who is intentionally trying to get at you passive aggressive?

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Anonymous wrote:Well don't give her a justification of her irrational dislike for you by defriending her or doing something oddly passive aggressive. That won't help anything.

Why is unfriending someone on Facebook who is intentionally trying to get at you passive aggressive?

What do you mean? It's mirroring the SIL's passive aggressive behavior by avoiding direct confrontation and using indirect hostility. Especially when it's a family member...it's not some random person from middle school.

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Anonymous wrote:Well don't give her a justification of her irrational dislike for you by defriending her or doing something oddly passive aggressive. That won't help anything.

Why is unfriending someone on Facebook who is intentionally trying to get at you passive aggressive?

What do you mean? It's mirroring the SIL's passive aggressive behavior by avoiding direct confrontation and using indirect hostility. Especially when it's a family member...it's not some random person from middle school.

It's Facebook. No one deleted her out of our lives.

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Anonymous wrote:Well don't give her a justification of her irrational dislike for you by defriending her or doing something oddly passive aggressive. That won't help anything.

Why is unfriending someone on Facebook who is intentionally trying to get at you passive aggressive?

What do you mean? It's mirroring the SIL's passive aggressive behavior by avoiding direct confrontation and using indirect hostility. Especially when it's a family member...it's not some random person from middle school.

This. Wtf, op? Her comment was totally normal. Maybe there's a bunch of background and other stuff going on, but deal with that. This is nothing.

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Anonymous wrote:Well don't give her a justification of her irrational dislike for you by defriending her or doing something oddly passive aggressive. That won't help anything.

Why is unfriending someone on Facebook who is intentionally trying to get at you passive aggressive?

What do you mean? It's mirroring the SIL's passive aggressive behavior by avoiding direct confrontation and using indirect hostility. Especially when it's a family member...it's not some random person from middle school.

It's Facebook. No one deleted her out of our lives.

Unfriending a family member from Facebook is a passive aggressive act and you know it. Maybe sil is a crappy person, but you're not exactly taking the high road here. You can do better than this.

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Anonymous wrote:Well don't give her a justification of her irrational dislike for you by defriending her or doing something oddly passive aggressive. That won't help anything.

Why is unfriending someone on Facebook who is intentionally trying to get at you passive aggressive?

What do you mean? It's mirroring the SIL's passive aggressive behavior by avoiding direct confrontation and using indirect hostility. Especially when it's a family member...it's not some random person from middle school.

It's Facebook. No one deleted her out of our lives.

Unfriending a family member from Facebook is a passive aggressive act and you know it. Maybe sil is a crappy person, but you're not exactly taking the high road here. You can do better than this.

My cousin deleted me from Facebook? I'm not mad about it. It's her Facebook. She doesn't like my dad and some other stuff. Facebook is no big deal and it was the mature way of handling it. Facebook friends or not, we're still family. It didn't change that. In fact, I don't have a single cousin on Facebook. Do I still love them? Of course.

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Anonymous wrote:Well don't give her a justification of her irrational dislike for you by defriending her or doing something oddly passive aggressive. That won't help anything.

Why is unfriending someone on Facebook who is intentionally trying to get at you passive aggressive?

What do you mean? It's mirroring the SIL's passive aggressive behavior by avoiding direct confrontation and using indirect hostility. Especially when it's a family member...it's not some random person from middle school.

It's Facebook. No one deleted her out of our lives.

Unfriending a family member from Facebook is a passive aggressive act and you know it. Maybe sil is a crappy person, but you're not exactly taking the high road here. You can do better than this.

Agree. That sounds like a very juvenile thing to do, OP.

If I was certain that there were a long-standing pattern of poor behavior on SIL's part, I would probably just not "like" her comment. But unfriending her over the comment - which in isolation is not rude at all - is extremely immature.

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Anonymous wrote:Well don't give her a justification of her irrational dislike for you by defriending her or doing something oddly passive aggressive. That won't help anything.

Why is unfriending someone on Facebook who is intentionally trying to get at you passive aggressive?

What do you mean? It's mirroring the SIL's passive aggressive behavior by avoiding direct confrontation and using indirect hostility. Especially when it's a family member...it's not some random person from middle school.

It's Facebook. No one deleted her out of our lives.

Unfriending a family member from Facebook is a passive aggressive act and you know it. Maybe sil is a crappy person, but you're not exactly taking the high road here. You can do better than this.

Agree. That sounds like a very juvenile thing to do, OP.

If I was certain that there were a long-standing pattern of poor behavior on SIL's part, I would probably just not "like" her comment. But unfriending her over the comment - which in isolation is not rude at all - is extremely immature.

I already commented that it was a long standing history of saying I'm not family and her brother should leave me

[Anonymous]

Honestly, why be Facebook friends with someone who doesn't even like me? So she can snoop? I dont even know. I'm ready to just throw the problem on DH's lap. If she needs something, she knows his number.

[Anonymous]

I'll never understand why people post these kinds of questions when they have already made a decision on it.

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+1

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Anonymous wrote:I think OP thinks it's rude because SIL didn't say, "he sure loves his Uncle John AND Aunt Sensitivia."

Yes. SIL intentionally leaves me out. I'm NEVER included. I just deleted her.

Sorry, but you sound like a nightmare.

Who sees offense in such a kind and mundane comment?

Your poor husband and inlaws.

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Anonymous wrote:I think OP thinks it's rude because SIL didn't say, "he sure loves his Uncle John AND Aunt Sensitivia."

Yes. SIL intentionally leaves me out. I'm NEVER included. I just deleted her.

Sorry, but you sound like a nightmare.

Who sees offense in such a kind and mundane comment?

Your poor husband and inlaws.

This is also me. Idk why my phone changed DD to DS on here
http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/615209.page