Judgmental parents — why can’t people just mind their own business?

[Anonymous]

You are too sensitive.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP is the most judgmental of them all if you are posting it here and bitterly complaining about them. You cannot always guess their salary.

I know their salary because my friend has told me how much they make. Plus we all work for the gov't except for my husband, so I know their GS levels.

You must have a pretty uncomplicated financial situation and simple way of thinking about these things if you think you know everything you need to know about what someone can afford based on knowing their salary. Bless your heart.

House, cars, knowing the neighbor’s vacation and public school teases it out. But go ahead and pretend you’re sitting on $10M in your shitshack driving used Hondas.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP is the most judgmental of them all if you are posting it here and bitterly complaining about them. You cannot always guess their salary.

I know their salary because my friend has told me how much they make. Plus we all work for the gov't except for my husband, so I know their GS levels.

You must have a pretty uncomplicated financial situation and simple way of thinking about these things if you think you know everything you need to know about what someone can afford based on knowing their salary. Bless your heart.

House, cars, knowing the neighbor’s vacation and public school teases it out. But go ahead and pretend you’re sitting on $10M in your shitshack driving used Hondas.

Ever heard of a millionaire next door? Try it sometime.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP is the most judgmental of them all if you are posting it here and bitterly complaining about them. You cannot always guess their salary.

I know their salary because my friend has told me how much they make. Plus we all work for the gov't except for my husband, so I know their GS levels.

You must have a pretty uncomplicated financial situation and simple way of thinking about these things if you think you know everything you need to know about what someone can afford based on knowing their salary. Bless your heart.

House, cars, knowing the neighbor’s vacation and public school teases it out. But go ahead and pretend you’re sitting on $10M in your shitshack driving used Hondas.

Ah yes, those poor kids slumming it at Langley and Whitman

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP is the most judgmental of them all if you are posting it here and bitterly complaining about them. You cannot always guess their salary.

I know their salary because my friend has told me how much they make. Plus we all work for the gov't except for my husband, so I know their GS levels.

You must have a pretty uncomplicated financial situation and simple way of thinking about these things if you think you know everything you need to know about what someone can afford based on knowing their salary. Bless your heart.

House, cars, knowing the neighbor’s vacation and public school teases it out. But go ahead and pretend you’re sitting on $10M in your shitshack driving used Hondas.

LOL. You can be salty, but no, even knowing all of those things doesn’t tell you about someone’s financial situation. At least we know you don’t work in finance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP is the most judgmental of them all if you are posting it here and bitterly complaining about them. You cannot always guess their salary.

I know their salary because my friend has told me how much they make. Plus we all work for the gov't except for my husband, so I know their GS levels.

You must have a pretty uncomplicated financial situation and simple way of thinking about these things if you think you know everything you need to know about what someone can afford based on knowing their salary. Bless your heart.

House, cars, knowing the neighbor’s vacation and public school teases it out. But go ahead and pretend you’re sitting on $10M in your shitshack driving used Hondas.

You are taking a simplistic view of someone’s financial portfolio. You could know all of those things about me and I bet you’d be very far off on our HHI (and you have no idea if I am suggesting that you’d be low or high based on that.)

Maybe just acknowledge that you are making a guess based on some surface factors. You know what they say about assuming ...

[Anonymous]

We need to know a lot more. Would Op's children and Other Mom's children be attending the same public school? Or similar?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP is the most judgmental of them all if you are posting it here and bitterly complaining about them. You cannot always guess their salary.

I know their salary because my friend has told me how much they make. Plus we all work for the gov't except for my husband, so I know their GS levels.

You must have a pretty uncomplicated financial situation and simple way of thinking about these things if you think you know everything you need to know about what someone can afford based on knowing their salary. Bless your heart.

House, cars, knowing the neighbor’s vacation and public school teases it out. But go ahead and pretend you’re sitting on $10M in your shitshack driving used Hondas.

Ever heard of a millionaire next door? Try it sometime.

I am one of those and other parents always assume my child is on financial aid. He is white, but if he was a student of color, I would pull him out.

I would never change my lifestyle choices to appease others.