Signs of infidelity?

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Anonymous wrote:HPV is often completely asymptomatic even when transmissible. The real kicker is men cannot be tested for it on a regular STD/STI panel so even if your spouse presents a clean STD/STI panel he could still have given you cancer-causing HPV. Women have to request to be tested for it.

Likelihood a woman having repeat Ashley Madison affairs and unprotected sex with the random men has HPV is likely in the 90% range. I know it’s Covid, but go get tested. I only needed a Pap smear every 5 years in my late 40s because I had a negative HPV test on file, but since I found out my husband f@cked a woman unprotected off of Ashley Madison and she had done this with other men too- I get tested yearly even if I plan on never letting that potentaiklr diseased dirty d@cl anywhere near me. It Hs worth noting HPV can be transmitted even with a condom-skin/oral contact.

Just nasty.

You are just making shot up again. I'm much safer with a cheating wife I find on AM than I am with your average single woman who is jumping from D to D.

I think it’s safe to say anyone that does not require a condom the first time the f@ck someone off the Internet isn’t exactly a chaste or clean person. It also speaks to the fact they likely screw other strangers without condoms too.

OMG. Exactly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He began closing and locking the home office door when he worked late at night. Our laundry room was in an alcove in the same space so I was at first inconvenienced and then puzzled.

The next clue was the phone company contacting me that our cell phones would be shut off. He had run up the long distance bill [u]to many hundreds of dollars and there wasn’t enough left in our joint account to cover it. He tried to claim the calls were to a relative having a tough time, but the numbers didn’t match.

Did he also leave strange phonographs lying around? Sheesh how old is this story.

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Anonymous wrote:To the Cheater who offered to answer questions..... how much does it cost to have an affair and how/when did you meet with AP? Suspect my spouse had one because of money he spent but couldn't/wouldn't tell me on what. I really want to get some idea of how much an affair would cost

Jumping on to add an additional question.

How did it start? Was it someone you knew in real life or did you use the Internet to intentionally look for an affair partner?

Someone I had met, but did not know well. I decided to cheat, just to be clear. I don't want to make any excuses for it so I won't, but made reasons why I could/should in my head. And I did go on Ashley Madison and almost slept with someone there, but did not. There were reasons, let's say. In talking with a friend, I explained how I felt and was connected with this person. It went from there.

What was wrong with the Ashley Madison chick? Looks? Psycho?

We met for a while. After we met and talked for a couple weeks she said she was ready to have sex, but then said, I need to tell you I have herpes. While my wife and I had not had sex for a long time, I was still hoping we would and could not bring that to her. And I would not have had the guts to tell her and likely would have given it to her. Not fatal, but I just could't do that. It kind of messed up my mind, because I wanted to, but I just couldn't.

You think?!! Wtf?? There was even a moment you thought about it. Dear lord. How did you know the other one was clean before banging her?

The majority that have a disease won't tell because 99% wouldn't sleep with them. Herpes, Hep..

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And then the whore spouses pass it onto their spouses who have zero idea they are in a non-monogamous relationship. That and cancer causing HPV this is usually a symptomatic. F@cking criminal

"And that's when the whores come in" -- Boardroom lady in Tommy Boy

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Trying to strategize during Covid. Any letter to the house she will get first and destroy. I confronted her at her house and she pushed husband inside house so I’m sure she gave a spin story.

I’m guessing a private detective to find his direct contact info-work phone, email, etc. and/or schedule so I can be sure he gets the true story.

Web has all of her narcissistic food blogs and family blogs and cell—but little out there on him.

OMG, this is getting so tiresome and you know damn well, you aren't going to do sh!t. Or you would have by now. You are enjoying your martyrdom a bit too much. No wonder he cheated on you. You sound like a horrible shrew.

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Anonymous wrote:Trying to strategize during Covid. Any letter to the house she will get first and destroy. I confronted her at her house and she pushed husband inside house so I’m sure she gave a spin story.

I’m guessing a private detective to find his direct contact info-work phone, email, etc. and/or schedule so I can be sure he gets the true story.

Web has all of her narcissistic food blogs and family blogs and cell—but little out there on him.

OMG, this is getting so tiresome and you know damn well, you aren't going to do sh!t. Or you would have by now. You are enjoying your martyrdom a bit too much. No wonder he cheated on you. You sound like a horrible shrew.

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Renting space in her head.

I paid back my cheater and the co-cheater big time. Then washed my hands and quickly moved forward. Either way no one deserves to be cheated on. Divorce then date.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Trying to strategize during Covid. Any letter to the house she will get first and destroy. I confronted her at her house and she pushed husband inside house so I’m sure she gave a spin story.

I’m guessing a private detective to find his direct contact info-work phone, email, etc. and/or schedule so I can be sure he gets the true story.

Web has all of her narcissistic food blogs and family blogs and cell—but little out there on him.

OMG, this is getting so tiresome and you know damn well, you aren't going to do sh!t. Or you would have by now. You are enjoying your martyrdom a bit too much. No wonder he cheated on you. You sound like a horrible shrew.

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ITA. Just live your best life.

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NP. How did you pay them back?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:NP. How did you pay them back?

Many many years before I got married. Young and naive, but I moved out of his house because he kept talking to a ex gf behind my back...and who knows what. It probably wasn't 4 weeks and he moved her into his home. Basically he was lying the entire time, and yes I was pretty steamed at the time. I suddenly remembered I had left something at his house, and knowing they were both at work I decided to retrieve it. (wink wink). On the way out I somehow accidentally left some underwear half way under their bed. Put the toilet seat up, and threw a earring into the washer. I heard they had a big blow out, and she moved shortly after.

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Anonymous wrote:None. I’m not kidding.

Never was late from work. No overnight trips.

We had each other’s iPhone passwords and both left our phones lying around.

No behavior changes. We still had sex 3-4 times per week.

He went to her house on Fridays during work hours (hacked his iPhone locator to make it appear he was at work—it can be done).

No phone calls. They communicated via Skype which left no trace.

He always planned nice dinners, did stuff for anniversaries and bdays, coached kids teams and we had a great relationship—lots of friends and social stuff.

He’s sick. A severe compartmentalizing narcissist.

How did you eventually find out?

Most likely she hired Tom Selleck “Magnum”

[Anonymous]

Over the past three months, DW only goes in to the office once/week and wears her sexy underwear on those days only and changes when she comes home. Claims its the only time for her to get "dressed up".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Over the past three months, DW only goes in to the office once/week and wears her sexy underwear on those days only and changes when she comes home. Claims its the only time for her to get "dressed up".

So follow her.