What would you do if your DH or DW gained over 100 lbs during your marriage?

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Anonymous wrote:I know this sounds bad and inattentive but Im not sure I would know. I once heard my wife talk about how she has gained 27 pounds since 2001 (the year we got married) and I remember thinking I had no idea. Even when I look at our wedding picture and look at her today she looks the same to me??? I would probably obviously notice 100 but who knows at what point and who knows what I could really do?

This, men, is the right answer! You’re awesome.

Can you explain why the guy replies draw comments as to how this should be answered but the women can say whatever they please about the men that gain weight?

JFC you're irritating. Respond to whatever post you want and get your sex-wars groove on all you want. It's so tiresome.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife gained about a 100lbs during and after pregnancy. When she lost the weight she thanked me for never losing the passion/desire. Not hard to do because she is always a rockstar in bed. She could gain the weight again and I wouldn’t look at her any differently.

Your wife is a very lucky woman.

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*she lost the weight, which was gained during pregnancy. Completely different story than letting herself go or not working to lose the pregnancy weight. I gained 50+ lbs with each pregnancy and lost the weight. I know quite a few women who gained 30 lbs during pregnancy, got pregnant again without losing the weight first and ended up 50+ lbs heavier than prepregnancy. They say, "pregnancy changed my body". No, you simply gave up.

Exactly! I get when we gain weight during pregnancy and take it off (most of it). I just get sick and tired of women still talking about being fat when their kids are teenagers. Here's a hint: It's not baby weight.

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Anonymous wrote:My wife gained about a 100lbs during and after pregnancy. When she lost the weight she thanked me for never losing the passion/desire. Not hard to do because she is always a rockstar in bed. She could gain the weight again and I wouldn’t look at her any differently.

Your wife is a very lucky woman.

+100

*she lost the weight, which was gained during pregnancy. Completely different story than letting herself go or not working to lose the pregnancy weight. I gained 50+ lbs with each pregnancy and lost the weight. I know quite a few women who gained 30 lbs during pregnancy, got pregnant again without losing the weight first and ended up 50+ lbs heavier than prepregnancy. They say, "pregnancy changed my body". No, you simply gave up.

Exactly! I get when we gain weight during pregnancy and take it off (most of it). I just get sick and tired of women still talking about being fat when their kids are teenagers. Here's a hint: It's not baby weight.

This! I realize bodies change but this general attitude to just throwing your hands up and claiming you can’t change your weight combine with fat acceptance is literally killing people. There’s a difference between being 5-15lbd overweight and being morbidly obsess like OP’s partner.