Women, cheating, and solidarity

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: Esther Perel looks like a tranny.

Trannys all around the world want to know what you think a "tranny" looks like?

Easy . A person that looks like a girl with humongous Adams apple and a voice like Howard Stern

Cait?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: Esther Perel looks like a tranny.

Trannys all around the world want to know what you think a "tranny" looks like?

Easy . A person that looks like a girl with humongous Adams apple and a voice like Howard Stern

She has a French accent. How does that sound like Howard Stern?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, I'm a DW with a young child under 5 who cheated with a DH with a young child under 5. Guess we are both going to rot in hell...

At the very least you are two very selfish people who are imposing the burden of your selfishness on other people (your spouses and children at a minimum) without letting them choose that burden. And even if you believe your spouses deserve the burden (they don't, but I assume you rationalize otherwise), your kids certainly don't. So your guess seems pretty spot on.

+1

My sil's husband left her after 25 years for another woman he was seeing. Devastated her and the kids, entire family isn't the same today. That woman died 5 years later after they were married. Coincidental but her husband thought he was going to spend a lifetime with her. My sil was doing the jig when she found out, so were the grown kids.

Wow I could see doing a jig on his grave, but the poor woman he wanted to spend his life with. I actually understand him. Nobody would want to spend their life with your SIL or her kids. It's sad in a pitiful and disgusting way.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, I'm a DW with a young child under 5 who cheated with a DH with a young child under 5. Guess we are both going to rot in hell...

At the very least you are two very selfish people who are imposing the burden of your selfishness on other people (your spouses and children at a minimum) without letting them choose that burden. And even if you believe your spouses deserve the burden (they don't, but I assume you rationalize otherwise), your kids certainly don't. So your guess seems pretty spot on.

+1

My sil's husband left her after 25 years for another woman he was seeing. Devastated her and the kids, entire family isn't the same today. That woman died 5 years later after they were married. Coincidental but her husband thought he was going to spend a lifetime with her. My sil was doing the jig when she found out, so were the grown kids.

Wow I could see doing a jig on his grave, but the poor woman he wanted to spend his life with. I actually understand him. Nobody would want to spend their life with your SIL or her kids. It's sad in a pitiful and disgusting way.

She will! We were all happy for that family, that woman sent her coupons in the mail after the divorce. Also wanted the husband, and the family home which thankfully sil got in the divorce. Happy ending story.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't know who cheats more, conservatives or liberals. However, I was surprised with ultra conservative views of family coming from the self-proclaimed liberal crowd here. Honestly, I expected DCUM to be way more accepting of poly-amorous and other unorthodox life choices.

So, it turns out that Liberals have less divorce, more stable marriages, lower rates of unwed and teenage pregnancy and higher educational achievement. Children of liberals (exposed to sex ed) tend to wait longer to lose their virginity.

Anonymous wrote:Liberals (all the way to communists) have traditionally been advocating rather promiscuous behavior. I just heard an interesting snippet on Alexandra Kollontai on NPR. You'd think progressive women of DCUM would follow suite and think some side piece for their man is NBD (as long as he brings his money home to his kids).

I'm sorry, but this is utter horsesh*t. Liberals don't "advocate" promiscuity - all Liberals do is tell people to MYOB instead of policing other people's sex lives.

Conservatives cannot seem to grasp that it's not actually persecution when you're not allowed to stick your nose in other people's business. They forget their Libertarian "freedom loving" forbear's rule of thumb: your fist's rights end where my nose begins.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know who cheats more, conservatives or liberals. However, I was surprised with ultra conservative views of family coming from the self-proclaimed liberal crowd here. Honestly, I expected DCUM to be way more accepting of poly-amorous and other unorthodox life choices.

So, it turns out that Liberals have less divorce, more stable marriages, lower rates of unwed and teenage pregnancy and higher educational achievement. Children of liberals (exposed to sex ed) tend to wait longer to lose their virginity.

Anonymous wrote:Liberals (all the way to communists) have traditionally been advocating rather promiscuous behavior. I just heard an interesting snippet on Alexandra Kollontai on NPR. You'd think progressive women of DCUM would follow suite and think some side piece for their man is NBD (as long as he brings his money home to his kids).

I'm sorry, but this is utter horsesh*t. Liberals don't "advocate" promiscuity - all Liberals do is tell people to MYOB instead of policing other people's sex lives.

Conservatives cannot seem to grasp that it's not actually persecution when you're not allowed to stick your nose in other people's business. They forget their Libertarian "freedom loving" forbear's rule of thumb: your fist's rights end where my nose begins.

Are you pissed off, because I'm spot-on? I don't recall mentioning divorce and teenage pregnancy rates at all, so rather than changing the subject, stay quiet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know who cheats more, conservatives or liberals. However, I was surprised with ultra conservative views of family coming from the self-proclaimed liberal crowd here. Honestly, I expected DCUM to be way more accepting of poly-amorous and other unorthodox life choices.

So, it turns out that Liberals have less divorce, more stable marriages, lower rates of unwed and teenage pregnancy and higher educational achievement. Children of liberals (exposed to sex ed) tend to wait longer to lose their virginity.

Anonymous wrote:Liberals (all the way to communists) have traditionally been advocating rather promiscuous behavior. I just heard an interesting snippet on Alexandra Kollontai on NPR. You'd think progressive women of DCUM would follow suite and think some side piece for their man is NBD (as long as he brings his money home to his kids).

I'm sorry, but this is utter horsesh*t. Liberals don't "advocate" promiscuity - all Liberals do is tell people to MYOB instead of policing other people's sex lives.

Conservatives cannot seem to grasp that it's not actually persecution when you're not allowed to stick your nose in other people's business. They forget their Libertarian "freedom loving" forbear's rule of thumb: your fist's rights end where my nose begins.

Are you pissed off, because I'm spot-on? I don't recall mentioning divorce and teenage pregnancy rates at all, so rather than changing the subject, stay quiet.

No, because you're an annoying troll...tell me, when did you quit beating your wife?

You alluded to "polyamory", "unorthodox lifestyles" and "promiscuous behavior": divorce and teenage pregnancy are prime examples of the results of "unorthodox lifestyles" and "promiscuity".

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't know who cheats more, conservatives or liberals. However, I was surprised with ultra conservative views of family coming from the self-proclaimed liberal crowd here. Honestly, I expected DCUM to be way more accepting of poly-amorous and other unorthodox life choices.

So, it turns out that Liberals have less divorce, more stable marriages, lower rates of unwed and teenage pregnancy and higher educational achievement. Children of liberals (exposed to sex ed) tend to wait longer to lose their virginity.

Anonymous wrote:Liberals (all the way to communists) have traditionally been advocating rather promiscuous behavior. I just heard an interesting snippet on Alexandra Kollontai on NPR. You'd think progressive women of DCUM would follow suite and think some side piece for their man is NBD (as long as he brings his money home to his kids).

I'm sorry, but this is utter horsesh*t. Liberals don't "advocate" promiscuity - all Liberals do is tell people to MYOB instead of policing other people's sex lives.

Conservatives cannot seem to grasp that it's not actually persecution when you're not allowed to stick your nose in other people's business. They forget their Libertarian "freedom loving" forbear's rule of thumb: your fist's rights end where my nose begins.

Are you pissed off, because I'm spot-on? I don't recall mentioning divorce and teenage pregnancy rates at all, so rather than changing the subject, stay quiet.

No, because you're an annoying troll...tell me, when did you quit beating your wife?

You alluded to "polyamory", "unorthodox lifestyles" and "promiscuous behavior": divorce and teenage pregnancy are prime examples of the results of "unorthodox lifestyles" and "promiscuity".

I think the first step with addiction problems is ADMITTING they have a problem to make it to step 2.

This person won't admit he has a problem.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, I'm a DW with a young child under 5 who cheated with a DH with a young child under 5. Guess we are both going to rot in hell...

At the very least you are two very selfish people who are imposing the burden of your selfishness on other people (your spouses and children at a minimum) without letting them choose that burden. And even if you believe your spouses deserve the burden (they don't, but I assume you rationalize otherwise), your kids certainly don't. So your guess seems pretty spot on.

+1

My sil's husband left her after 25 years for another woman he was seeing. Devastated her and the kids, entire family isn't the same today. That woman died 5 years later after they were married. Coincidental but her husband thought he was going to spend a lifetime with her. My sil was doing the jig when she found out, so were the grown kids.

Wow I could see doing a jig on his grave, but the poor woman he wanted to spend his life with. I actually understand him. Nobody would want to spend their life with your SIL or her kids. It's sad in a pitiful and disgusting way.

My work husband left his wife and kids for the OW, after 10 years together, the OW left him for another women. Talk about a shot to the ego.
I told him to take his ex-wife to dinner and tell her, it was the least he could do after what he did.


Of course, its nice to see karma work every blue moon.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, I'm a DW with a young child under 5 who cheated with a DH with a young child under 5. Guess we are both going to rot in hell...

At the very least you are two very selfish people who are imposing the burden of your selfishness on other people (your spouses and children at a minimum) without letting them choose that burden. And even if you believe your spouses deserve the burden (they don't, but I assume you rationalize otherwise), your kids certainly don't. So your guess seems pretty spot on.

+1

My sil's husband left her after 25 years for another woman he was seeing. Devastated her and the kids, entire family isn't the same today. That woman died 5 years later after they were married. Coincidental but her husband thought he was going to spend a lifetime with her. My sil was doing the jig when she found out, so were the grown kids.

Wow I could see doing a jig on his grave, but the poor woman he wanted to spend his life with. I actually understand him. Nobody would want to spend their life with your SIL or her kids. It's sad in a pitiful and disgusting way.

My work husband left his wife and kids for the OW, after 10 years together, the OW left him for another women. Talk about a shot to the ego.
I told him to take his ex-wife to dinner and tell her, it was the least he could do after what he did.


Of course, its nice to see karma work every blue moon.

You can bet she knows, the kids usually run to mom with the good news.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, I'm a DW with a young child under 5 who cheated with a DH with a young child under 5. Guess we are both going to rot in hell...

At the very least you are two very selfish people who are imposing the burden of your selfishness on other people (your spouses and children at a minimum) without letting them choose that burden. And even if you believe your spouses deserve the burden (they don't, but I assume you rationalize otherwise), your kids certainly don't. So your guess seems pretty spot on.

+1

My sil's husband left her after 25 years for another woman he was seeing. Devastated her and the kids, entire family isn't the same today. That woman died 5 years later after they were married. Coincidental but her husband thought he was going to spend a lifetime with her. My sil was doing the jig when she found out, so were the grown kids.

Wow I could see doing a jig on his grave, but the poor woman he wanted to spend his life with. I actually understand him. Nobody would want to spend their life with your SIL or her kids. It's sad in a pitiful and disgusting way.

My work husband left his wife and kids for the OW, after 10 years together, the OW left him for another women. Talk about a shot to the ego.
I told him to take his ex-wife to dinner and tell her, it was the least he could do after what he did.


Of course, its nice to see karma work every blue moon.

You can bet she knows, the kids usually run to mom with the good news.

The kids were teens/college never met the OW.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well, I'm a DW with a young child under 5 who cheated with a DH with a young child under 5. Guess we are both going to rot in hell...

At the very least you are two very selfish people who are imposing the burden of your selfishness on other people (your spouses and children at a minimum) without letting them choose that burden. And even if you believe your spouses deserve the burden (they don't, but I assume you rationalize otherwise), your kids certainly don't. So your guess seems pretty spot on.

+1

My sil's husband left her after 25 years for another woman he was seeing. Devastated her and the kids, entire family isn't the same today. That woman died 5 years later after they were married. Coincidental but her husband thought he was going to spend a lifetime with her. My sil was doing the jig when she found out, so were the grown kids.

Wow I could see doing a jig on his grave, but the poor woman he wanted to spend his life with. I actually understand him. Nobody would want to spend their life with your SIL or her kids. It's sad in a pitiful and disgusting way.

My work husband left his wife and kids for the OW, after 10 years together, the OW left him for another women. Talk about a shot to the ego.
I told him to take his ex-wife to dinner and tell her, it was the least he could do after what he did.


Of course, its nice to see karma work every blue moon.

What's a work husband?

[Anonymous]

Where is the "Men, cheating, and solidarity" thread? Shouldn't men play by the same rules?

[Anonymous]

I think most of the 20 year olds do it for money/ gifts. There are tons of sugar dating websites who cater to this sort of thing. They probably would never consider it without the money/ gifts . I did this and it worked out well for me. I never wanted my guy to leave his wife etc etc. It was a way to escape for both of us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think most of the 20 year olds do it for money/ gifts. There are tons of sugar dating websites who cater to this sort of thing. They probably would never consider it without the money/ gifts . I did this and it worked out well for me. I never wanted my guy to leave his wife etc etc. It was a way to escape for both of us.

How much money?