Need advice - I have zero attraction to DH and avoid sex

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
I actually don't agree with this. I have a great sex drive, just not for my DH. He thinks Im low drive. I'm just low drive for him. I'd be worried if I didn't masturbate, but I do. It's him. Not me. Sorry guys, but many of you just don't do it for us anymore.

I totally believe you are low drive for H. That's par for the course.
I don't believe you have a great sex drive. At best, maybe you've got the hots for some man in your office.
But you won't act on that. And even if you left your H, the next guy would lose his appeal after a few months.
You see, that's actually what it means to have a low drive.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
Oh that's interesting. I never thought of the repulsion having nothing to do with being tired. I think I'm resentful about his nasty game skills, like how he's socially awkward and I'm never safe from his unwanted advances at inappropriate times and involving forcefulness. If he was never grabbing and pulling and force kissing me I don't know maybe he wouldn't repulse me.

"Nasty game skills?" What the fuck does that mean? He's "socially awkward?" Why did you marry this guy?

You are why I'll never get married. I feel sorry for your husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Oh that's interesting. I never thought of the repulsion having nothing to do with being tired. I think I'm resentful about his nasty game skills, like how he's socially awkward and I'm never safe from his unwanted advances at inappropriate times and involving forcefulness. If he was never grabbing and pulling and force kissing me I don't know maybe he wouldn't repulse me.

"Nasty game skills?" What the fuck does that mean? He's "socially awkward?" Why did you marry this guy?

You are why I'll never get married. I feel sorry for your husband.

You don't know. Trust me. Think close talking. Other things I mentioned.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
You read it here single men of DCUM.

Do. Not. Get. Married.
Do. Not. Breed.

#InevitableLibidoDecline

Pretty much. This thread is exhibit A on why to never get married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Oh that's interesting. I never thought of the repulsion having nothing to do with being tired. I think I'm resentful about his nasty game skills, like how he's socially awkward and I'm never safe from his unwanted advances at inappropriate times and involving forcefulness. If he was never grabbing and pulling and force kissing me I don't know maybe he wouldn't repulse me.

"Nasty game skills?" What the fuck does that mean? He's "socially awkward?" Why did you marry this guy?

You are why I'll never get married. I feel sorry for your husband.

You don't know. Trust me. Think close talking. Other things I mentioned.

Its happening he's trying to schedule . . .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

THere are MILLIONS of women with no sex drive. Have you read about so many in sex-less marriages. It's TOTALLY normal. It is the male driven society that wants women to believe it needs to be fixed so they can get laid more often.

Of course it's totally normal! That's why men shouldn't get married. We say this all the time.

Sorry you're so undesirable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote: actually don't agree with this. I have a great sex drive, just not for my DH. He thinks Im low drive. I'm just low drive for him. I'd be worried if I didn't masturbate, but I do. It's him. Not me. Sorry guys, but many of you just don't do it for us anymore.

Again, just another reason for men to never get married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote: actually don't agree with this. I have a great sex drive, just not for my DH. He thinks Im low drive. I'm just low drive for him. I'd be worried if I didn't masturbate, but I do. It's him. Not me. Sorry guys, but many of you just don't do it for us anymore.

Again, just another reason for men to never get married.

Agreed. Men should not marry. Nor should women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
I actually don't agree with this. I have a great sex drive, just not for my DH. He thinks Im low drive. I'm just low drive for him. I'd be worried if I didn't masturbate, but I do. It's him. Not me. Sorry guys, but many of you just don't do it for us anymore.

I totally believe you are low drive for H. That's par for the course.
I don't believe you have a great sex drive. At best, maybe you've got the hots for some man in your office.
But you won't act on that. And even if you left your H, the next guy would lose his appeal after a few months.
You see, that's actually what it means to have a low drive.

It took about 10 years to lose it for him. I do have a high drive, much higher tban when i was 20. BTW, The men in my office are ugly.

Monogamy will kill a marriage bed. It's boring and stale. I don't care how many ways, fantasies, techniques we act out. We've done it all, anal, FFM 3somes, sex clubs, porn...it all ends up boring after awhile.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Oh that's interesting. I never thought of the repulsion having nothing to do with being tired. I think I'm resentful about his nasty game skills, like how he's socially awkward and I'm never safe from his unwanted advances at inappropriate times and involving forcefulness. If he was never grabbing and pulling and force kissing me I don't know maybe he wouldn't repulse me.

"Nasty game skills?" What the fuck does that mean? He's "socially awkward?" Why did you marry this guy?

You are why I'll never get married. I feel sorry for your husband.

There's many reasons you won't get married. Firstly a heterosexual man trolling a moms message board is not hot. You are probably a bitter fat slob with bad skin and a loser cubicle drone job.

[Anonymous]

^^^obsessive MRA poster.

Go rub one out with your blow up doll.

[Anonymous]

These frigid women sound ruthless once they are done with their husbands. Witches

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:These frigid women sound ruthless once they are done with their husbands. Witches

Ah, it sounds like Cotton Mather has joined us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

THere are MILLIONS of women with no sex drive. Have you read about so many in sex-less marriages. It's TOTALLY normal. It is the male driven society that wants women to believe it needs to be fixed so they can get laid more often.

Of course it's totally normal! That's why men shouldn't get married. We say this all the time.

Sorry you're so undesirable.

If you see marriage as a path to unlimited sex on demand, then yes, do not get married.

Women are at a distinct advantage when it comes to reluctant marriage because women do not have to marry to have children and have close to 100% control in raising them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
You read it here single men of DCUM.

Do. Not. Get. Married.
Do. Not. Breed.

#InevitableLibidoDecline

Pretty much. This thread is exhibit A on why to never get married.

I think this thread is a joke. None of it makes any sense. Troll...