40-year-old man in a 1BR condo – problem?

[Anonymous]

Is a single mother with a school-aged child okay,
OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He wants sex but not the commitment. This is what you get with a guy who lives alone in his 40s and eats at his parents’ house 3x a week. Anything else is not in his bandwidth.

Which would be fine with some women. (Me included)

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
My guess is that OP has some generalized anxiety issues and is easily overwhelmed. He has set up his life to be as stress-free as possible and probably takes pleasure in the comforting routine of visits with his parents. There is nothing wrong with any of this, but he will need to choose someone similar as a girlfriend. I would be completely candid about your life preferences in a dating profile- definitely lead with your feelings about marriage. It is silly to waste everyone’s time; there is someone similarly inflexible out there that honesty will help you find.

Sounds more spectrum to me. His uncertainty about how humans react to things is one reason among several.

I’d guess both. Spectrum and anxiety. And mamas boy.