Is it okay to be worried why our son still doesn't have a girlfriend at college?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:late bloomer like my DH. it's OK. He was picky and disinterested. And into sports obsessions

I'm glad it worked out for your presumably 40 or 50-something husband. However, in 2021 becoming a barstool sports manchild incel who gambles his paycheck on iPhone sports betting apps and ignores women so he can obsessively watch sports all weekend is really not "OK". Young adult men refusing to grow up and act their age is an epidemic, which dovetails on why so many women are out-earning men and why so many women in their 20s and 30s are unmarried and childless.

Yes there are a lot of women like you out there- joyless, judgement and childless. You blame every man out there for problems of your own making.

Actually, it’s the opposite. There are a lot of happy single, childless women out there, and incel men can’t handle that they won’t settle for them.

[Anonymous]

Simmer down, Mrs. Bennet. A single man isn't required to be in want of a wife. It isn't 1810.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Simmer down, Mrs. Bennet. A single man isn't required to be in want of a wife. It isn't 1810.

And a single woman isn’t required to be in want of a husband.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Our son was like this in HS as he was an academic grind by his choice and then he went to Harvard and we didn’t hear about any GF or any dating for maybe two years. Then in junior year we hear from one of his friends that he is dating “Jessica Simpson with brains” and it turned out to be true. Even my husband couldn’t take his eyes off her. Eventually he meets another gorgeous, smart woman in grad school and married her. All is well! Some boys are just slow starters.

Gross!

There is nothing gross about this story. It's all perfectly normal.

If misogyny is perfectly normal to you. I and others find it gross

[Anonymous]

Not everyone wants to play catch and release, experimental relationship's isn't holy grail. Some people commit once they find their person.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he has a boyfriend. 🌈