Gillette ad on toxic masculinity... have you seen it?

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PP you keep talking about the commercial and that is fair but do you not see the core problem that this commercial is tackling? I think, for example, that radical muslims absolutely are facing negativity because they have been violent and have hurt people. In the same vein, men are responsible for mass shootings, responsible for assault and harassment of women. Not all men of course, but this is a problem in how we are raising boys. A problem we need to tackle as a society. Maybe Gillette isn't getting 100% right but I think they're getting closer to it then we have gotten so far.


No, no, no.

Muslims have not been violent and hurt people. Some particular Muslims have, and only they are responsible for their misdeeds, not the group as a whole.

"Men" are not responsible for mass shootings and assault and harassment of men. Only a tiny minority of particular men. This is not a problem in "how we are raising boys" because nobody is raising their son to be a violent criminal.



Um, a tiny minority of men? Statistics on rape, murder, sexual assault, and pedophilia suggest that many, many, MANY men are doing this crap. Obviously a lot of people are (unintentionally) raising their sons to be criminals.
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Anonymous wrote:DH here: I thought it was lame, insulting, and will backfire. Whatever market research says about who does the shopping, I find it very hard to believe men don’t have or express preferences about shaving items, which are reasonably personal, and I suspect this is going to hurt Gillette more than it helps. Woke Capital is tiresome and is due a comeuppance. We shall see, the reaction will be interesting.


Bye, Felicia!


Different poster here, but check out the ratio of upvotes to downvotes on youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=koPmuEyP3a0

I am a guy who thought it was a nice short film, but also kind of insulting the more I think about it.


Same here. I'm not a big BBQ or sports guy, but if I were, I'd be like why does Gillete hate us.


They used stereotypical situations men find themselves in - BBQing, watching sports, etc. Would you suggest they have the men in the commercial in an empty, windowless room?

The message is simple - the whole "boys will be boys" that we all thought was fine turned out not to be fine. Gillette is trying to demonstrate that your children are watching you, and we can show them every day how to be better. This doesn't mean that YOU are bad. It takes time for a society to learn social lessons. Think about our great grandparents and grandparents, and their views on race. It doesn't change overnight. But if they had just sat back and said "well you're just insulting and criticizing us, so I'm not listening", where would we be? This is insane. They are not insulting you, they are trying to point out that things we believed to be harmless were not. You are specifically looking for things to criticize because hey, who wants to admit that they've been wrong? And I don't believe that this behavior is something that only men did, and just as many women are guilty of that mindset. But this is a company whose slogan is "the best a man can get" so guess what, their commercial is about you, man who has the ability to grow facial hair. You don't often see men in tampon commercials, do you?
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Anonymous wrote:It's very good. And imo it's the way we should culturally start talking about boys in general.

The problem with the phrase 'toxic masculinity' is that it can so easily be construed as 'masculinity is toxic'. We need to preserve the good in masculinity. Show them how to be strong good men.

I personally am amazed at the kids programming on nick and Disney, how prolific the 'strong smart girl's protagonist is versus a boy. A boy is either an anthropomorphized animal or object (Mickey, blaze etc) or Ryder. We have done a fantastic job getting feminist messaging into children's ears. We need to do the same thing for boys.


I'm a mother of boys who has never had a problem finding films for them with strong and interesting male roles. What I do have a problem is finding films for them in which female characters play equally prominent roles.

Compare those tv shows you cite to roles in Hollywood films. How many female roles vs. male roles and who gets the most lines? How many superhero movies are primarily about female superheroes? I was so happy to bring them to Wonder Woman. I have spent a lifetime watching movies about men, or movies about women pining for men. I'd like my boys to grow up watching movies in which both boys and girls, men and women play strong roles and get generous amounts of time to talk on screen and not just about the other sex.





I agree generally but not in the toddler years which is where I am. I honestly didnt notice until I had DS, DD is 3 and DS is almost 2 and there just seems to be crap targeted at him. PJ Masks where kids leave their homes in the middle of the night, animals, objects and Ryder. And some of that is great. Daniel Tiger is great for both. But compare that to...

Girls:
Elena of Avalor
Frozen
Sofia
Fancy Nancy
Nella
Peppa Pig
Vampirina
Shimmer and shine

Neutral/equal:
Bubble guppies
Mickey and co
Daniel tiger

Boys:
Paw Patrol
Puppy dog pals
Blaze
Muppet Babies
Pj masks

For the girls there are so many strong smart great girls. I agree historically it has been the other way. But the pendulum is swinging and I want role models for my son too. In terms of quality and quantity girls preschool programming knocks boys programming out of the park. Where is the African american ryder show? We have Nella and elena and vampirina...looking at diversity. Nothing for boys.

I'm a feminist too...I believe part of feminism is teaching my son to be a good man. Teaching all of our sons to be good men. And having media that exemplifies what we want a "good man" to be is important and lacking in preschool.


Did you forget Bob the Builder, Thomas the Tank Engine? I know it's over now but surely you can still find DJ Jazzy Jeff online? And I am a mother of girls, I can easily think of many more shows with strong male leads. The Loud House? Henry Danger?


I'm listing what happens to be on in the mornings and the evenings. I did forget thomas but once again, anthropormorphized. Isn't DJ Jazzy Jeff a character on the Fresh Prince of Bell Air? Are you posting from 1998?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I buy Gillette razors, but not the women’s kind. The women’s razors are more expensive, and are not as sharp or lasting as the men’s blades. It’s been a while since I bought women’s blades, so my info may be out of date.


If Gillette wanted to do something meaningful they could stop with the pink tax instead of just signalling with an ad like this. But not charging women more money for personal supplies would actually hit their bottom line. Virtue signaling is so much cheaper.
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Anonymous wrote:I buy Gillette razors, but not the women’s kind. The women’s razors are more expensive, and are not as sharp or lasting as the men’s blades. It’s been a while since I bought women’s blades, so my info may be out of date.


If Gillette wanted to do something meaningful they could stop with the pink tax instead of just signalling with an ad like this. But not charging women more money for personal supplies would actually hit their bottom line. Virtue signaling is so much cheaper.


This ad has nothing to do with feminism. Why do people keep bringing feminism into this? It is a totally unrelated topic. I mean I see how it is adjacent but this ad is not trying to say something feminist. So how they treat women generally is fairly irrelevant.
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Anonymous wrote:DH here: I thought it was lame, insulting, and will backfire. Whatever market research says about who does the shopping, I find it very hard to believe men don’t have or express preferences about shaving items, which are reasonably personal, and I suspect this is going to hurt Gillette more than it helps. Woke Capital is tiresome and is due a comeuppance. We shall see, the reaction will be interesting.


Bye, Felicia!


Different poster here, but check out the ratio of upvotes to downvotes on youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=koPmuEyP3a0

I am a guy who thought it was a nice short film, but also kind of insulting the more I think about it.


Are you really counting downvotes on youtube as a tell? Those type of things are masterfully manipulated by precisely the kind of guy this ad is calling out.

See this article about how men downvote female programming on IMDB. Or these about how manipulating views and likes is a business and how youtube specializes in bringing people to content that will make them hatefully furious:

https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2018/08/11/technology/youtube-fake-view-sellers.html
https://www.techspot.com/community/topics/over-40-percent-of-activity-on-the-internet-is-fake.251141/
https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2018/feb/02/how-youtubes-algorithm-distorts-truth


DP . And you don't think Gillette's agency is going to actively support upvotes and positive comments with a massive, well-funded campaign?


Ask Sony if they were successful in beating misogynistic online male trolls when they wanted to sink the new Ghostbusters movie.


You're really giving online trolls a lot of power if you think they were the reason a mediocre re-boot tanked at the box office. Surely you can think of other reasons?
Anonymous
I've got the cheaper and easier way - Dollar Shave Club - don't have to worry about overpriced razors, and now don't have to put up with their virtue signaling.

https://www.dollarshaveclub.com/get-started/plan/shave?minimal;utm_source
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It’s just not a very welll done ad, from an artistic standpoint. Very derivative in some places. The only interesting, self referential part was the breaking if the screen where the 1990s - era (1980s - era) woman in the old Gillette ad was kissing the freshly shaven dude on the cheek. She looked hot.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DH here: I thought it was lame, insulting, and will backfire. Whatever market research says about who does the shopping, I find it very hard to believe men don’t have or express preferences about shaving items, which are reasonably personal, and I suspect this is going to hurt Gillette more than it helps. Woke Capital is tiresome and is due a comeuppance. We shall see, the reaction will be interesting.


Bye, Felicia!


Different poster here, but check out the ratio of upvotes to downvotes on youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=koPmuEyP3a0

I am a guy who thought it was a nice short film, but also kind of insulting the more I think about it.


Are you really counting downvotes on youtube as a tell? Those type of things are masterfully manipulated by precisely the kind of guy this ad is calling out.

See this article about how men downvote female programming on IMDB. Or these about how manipulating views and likes is a business and how youtube specializes in bringing people to content that will make them hatefully furious:

https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2018/08/11/technology/youtube-fake-view-sellers.html
https://www.techspot.com/community/topics/over-40-percent-of-activity-on-the-internet-is-fake.251141/
https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2018/feb/02/how-youtubes-algorithm-distorts-truth


DP . And you don't think Gillette's agency is going to actively support upvotes and positive comments with a massive, well-funded campaign?


Ask Sony if they were successful in beating misogynistic online male trolls when they wanted to sink the new Ghostbusters movie.


You're really giving online trolls a lot of power if you think they were the reason a mediocre re-boot tanked at the box office. Surely you can think of other reasons?


I mean this is a demonstrated effect. See the 538 article. The movie got a 75% on Rotten Tomatoes but no one talked about the movie, they talked about the fanboy response. Was that movie the best movie of all time? Of course not. But yes I do think that online male downvoting of female products makes them less successful when there is a campaign behind it. And I think that because it has happened. I'm not butthurt about it, I'm just saying it is a thing that happens and so people should not take things like downvotes on youtube as gospel.
Anonymous
Can't fight Mother Nature. She wins in the end. Sorry.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I've got the cheaper and easier way - Dollar Shave Club - don't have to worry about overpriced razors, and now don't have to put up with their virtue signaling.

https://www.dollarshaveclub.com/get-started/plan/shave?minimal;utm_source


+1.

Their $9/ month "executive" plan has great reviews. Once my old gillete blades are done, will give it a try.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DH here: I thought it was lame, insulting, and will backfire. Whatever market research says about who does the shopping, I find it very hard to believe men don’t have or express preferences about shaving items, which are reasonably personal, and I suspect this is going to hurt Gillette more than it helps. Woke Capital is tiresome and is due a comeuppance. We shall see, the reaction will be interesting.


Bye, Felicia!


Different poster here, but check out the ratio of upvotes to downvotes on youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=koPmuEyP3a0

I am a guy who thought it was a nice short film, but also kind of insulting the more I think about it.


Same here. I'm not a big BBQ or sports guy, but if I were, I'd be like why does Gillete hate us.


They used stereotypical situations men find themselves in - BBQing, watching sports, etc. Would you suggest they have the men in the commercial in an empty, windowless room?

The message is simple - the whole "boys will be boys" that we all thought was fine turned out not to be fine. Gillette is trying to demonstrate that your children are watching you, and we can show them every day how to be better. This doesn't mean that YOU are bad. It takes time for a society to learn social lessons. Think about our great grandparents and grandparents, and their views on race. It doesn't change overnight. But if they had just sat back and said "well you're just insulting and criticizing us, so I'm not listening", where would we be? This is insane. They are not insulting you, they are trying to point out that things we believed to be harmless were not. You are specifically looking for things to criticize because hey, who wants to admit that they've been wrong? And I don't believe that this behavior is something that only men did, and just as many women are guilty of that mindset. But this is a company whose slogan is "the best a man can get" so guess what, their commercial is about you, man who has the ability to grow facial hair. You don't often see men in tampon commercials, do you?


This is funny.

We men who don't care about BBQs or sports ... don't exist?

There's a million ways to transmit "don't be a jerk" without stereotyping and patronizing half of the population.

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Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:DH here: I thought it was lame, insulting, and will backfire. Whatever market research says about who does the shopping, I find it very hard to believe men don’t have or express preferences about shaving items, which are reasonably personal, and I suspect this is going to hurt Gillette more than it helps. Woke Capital is tiresome and is due a comeuppance. We shall see, the reaction will be interesting.


Bye, Felicia!


Different poster here, but check out the ratio of upvotes to downvotes on youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=koPmuEyP3a0

I am a guy who thought it was a nice short film, but also kind of insulting the more I think about it.


Are you really counting downvotes on youtube as a tell? Those type of things are masterfully manipulated by precisely the kind of guy this ad is calling out.

See this article about how men downvote female programming on IMDB. Or these about how manipulating views and likes is a business and how youtube specializes in bringing people to content that will make them hatefully furious:

https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2018/08/11/technology/youtube-fake-view-sellers.html
https://www.techspot.com/community/topics/over-40-percent-of-activity-on-the-internet-is-fake.251141/
https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2018/feb/02/how-youtubes-algorithm-distorts-truth


DP . And you don't think Gillette's agency is going to actively support upvotes and positive comments with a massive, well-funded campaign?


Ask Sony if they were successful in beating misogynistic online male trolls when they wanted to sink the new Ghostbusters movie.


You're really giving online trolls a lot of power if you think they were the reason a mediocre re-boot tanked at the box office. Surely you can think of other reasons?


I mean this is a demonstrated effect. See the 538 article. The movie got a 75% on Rotten Tomatoes but no one talked about the movie, they talked about the fanboy response. Was that movie the best movie of all time? Of course not. But yes I do think that online male downvoting of female products makes them less successful when there is a campaign behind it. And I think that because it has happened. I'm not butthurt about it, I'm just saying it is a thing that happens and so people should not take things like downvotes on youtube as gospel.


Perhaps it had an impact but then you'd have to blame the media as willing enablers who gave coverage to the trolls and amplified their voice all because it generated clicks. I wouldn't take the ratio of downvotes to upvotes as gospel but I wouldn't be dismissive of it either. Forbes estimated there is a 10:1 ration of negative to positive comments which should at the very least tell us about the strength of the negative emotions amongst viewers.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I buy Gillette razors, but not the women’s kind. The women’s razors are more expensive, and are not as sharp or lasting as the men’s blades. It’s been a while since I bought women’s blades, so my info may be out of date.


If Gillette wanted to do something meaningful they could stop with the pink tax instead of just signalling with an ad like this. But not charging women more money for personal supplies would actually hit their bottom line. Virtue signaling is so much cheaper.


This ad has nothing to do with feminism. Why do people keep bringing feminism into this? It is a totally unrelated topic. I mean I see how it is adjacent but this ad is not trying to say something feminist. So how they treat women generally is fairly irrelevant.


I didn't bring feminism into it. I brought "meaningful" into it. Gillette could take a stand for equality and moving towards the world we'd all like to have by doing away with the pink tax.

They could even do both - have the ad, suggesting that men can do better, and then do better themselves as well. But no.

Instead they're choosing to virtue signal. Just signal, no action.
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Anonymous wrote:DH here: I thought it was lame, insulting, and will backfire. Whatever market research says about who does the shopping, I find it very hard to believe men don’t have or express preferences about shaving items, which are reasonably personal, and I suspect this is going to hurt Gillette more than it helps. Woke Capital is tiresome and is due a comeuppance. We shall see, the reaction will be interesting.


Bye, Felicia!


Different poster here, but check out the ratio of upvotes to downvotes on youtube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=koPmuEyP3a0

I am a guy who thought it was a nice short film, but also kind of insulting the more I think about it.


Are you really counting downvotes on youtube as a tell? Those type of things are masterfully manipulated by precisely the kind of guy this ad is calling out.

See this article about how men downvote female programming on IMDB. Or these about how manipulating views and likes is a business and how youtube specializes in bringing people to content that will make them hatefully furious:

https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2018/08/11/technology/youtube-fake-view-sellers.html
https://www.techspot.com/community/topics/over-40-percent-of-activity-on-the-internet-is-fake.251141/
https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2018/feb/02/how-youtubes-algorithm-distorts-truth


DP . And you don't think Gillette's agency is going to actively support upvotes and positive comments with a massive, well-funded campaign?


Ask Sony if they were successful in beating misogynistic online male trolls when they wanted to sink the new Ghostbusters movie.


You're really giving online trolls a lot of power if you think they were the reason a mediocre re-boot tanked at the box office. Surely you can think of other reasons?


I mean this is a demonstrated effect. See the 538 article. The movie got a 75% on Rotten Tomatoes but no one talked about the movie, they talked about the fanboy response. Was that movie the best movie of all time? Of course not. But yes I do think that online male downvoting of female products makes them less successful when there is a campaign behind it. And I think that because it has happened. I'm not butthurt about it, I'm just saying it is a thing that happens and so people should not take things like downvotes on youtube as gospel.


Perhaps it had an impact but then you'd have to blame the media as willing enablers who gave coverage to the trolls and amplified their voice all because it generated clicks. I wouldn't take the ratio of downvotes to upvotes as gospel but I wouldn't be dismissive of it either. Forbes estimated there is a 10:1 ration of negative to positive comments which should at the very least tell us about the strength of the negative emotions amongst viewers.


What did Forbes say about Nike and Colin Kaepernick?

I just don't understand. It says something about you not about Gillette if the message of, 'don't be an ahole and you know what, maybe try to take a step further and try to stop other people from being aholes too, and try to set an example of being the kind of person who doesn't sit on the sidelines when you see someone doing something mean' strikes such a visceral nerve.
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