"Are You Working Yet?"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Or maybe the nannies have figured out how to mange the kids and how important it is to teach discipline and responsibility so they can actually get things done with the kids. Most of the working moms I know let their kids run wild and are stressed out all the time. You will see the same kid with the nanny and he's being so sweet and helpful. WMs need to figure out that throwing gifts at your kids and letting them get away with murder isn't an even exchange for spending real, quality time with your kid. Something many nannies and SAHMs have figured out a long time ago.

Oh puh-lease -- failing to set limits with children is unrelated to whether a woman works outside her home or not -- and while we're on the subject, it also has nothing to do with whether you're rich or poor.

[Anonymous]

This is 20:09. Nice try, but I work and have a nanny. I really don't know who has it easier, I just think you're a really nasty, condescending person who tried to make other women feel bad and that's not okay.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Translation: No one would marry me because I am so rude and self-important.

Translation: I didn't want to settle for Mr. he has a job and he's ok and the end up writting about what a loser my
husband is on Interent forums.

I can see my post touched a nerve for you. I read your other post also and no one gets that defensive for no reason. Sorry I am not about to jump on the SAHMs are the greatest ever! bandwagon. I just personally think they have it easier.

HA, I agree. I'm a working mom and you should hear how the guys I work with bitch about their sexless marriages (all the while trying to get into the receptionist pants).

To the original poster, just b/c you are married, does not mean that your husbands still wants to be. He might just not want to fork over the cash to get your out of his hair and finds satisfaction some place else. We see it all the time on the "off topic" forums and I have PLEANTY of friends in miserable relationaships that would be better off divorced, but instead they will be raising screwed up kids with unhappy parents.

Um, not sure why you are attacking my marriage. I asked him to fork over cash to me? Huh? Funny enough we have sex all the time and are very much in love. My post was not about my bad marriage, nor was I complaining about my DH. He calls himself a cheapo if that is what you are referring to, and he is a cheapo. Does not mean he wants a divorce. He actually got a chuckle out of your post.