PSA: No one wants you

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Women get super horny in their 40s, that's a hormonal fact. Men know this. It's women's sexual prime. After that they get unhorny.

How is that a hormonal fact? Does that actually make sense? Stop watching porn.

My mom warned me in my early 30s to just get married because she said in my late 30s and early 40s. I would have a hormonal rush which was true. I had a sexless marriage though, and only divorce solved that problem.

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Anonymous wrote:I am in my late 40s and look about 32. Still pretty hot. Literally have not had the sense that men were after me in years. Def used to get hit on in public fairly frequently in my 20s. If OP is in her mid 40s and thinks men are all after her, she is insane.

No you don’t.

Yes, she can. Different poster here. I get mistaken for early 30s all the time...in professional settings, especially. It can happen with some people. I am not dating now but when I am on the apps--not kidding--I get 20s men liking me ALL of the time who insist age does not matter. It's looks.

Post your (unfiltered) picture and we’ll decide. Otherwise, nope. They’re lying to you because it clearly gets a good reaction.

Tell me how and I will. I don’t use filters. I don’t know how.

DP but upload to imgur which will make it Anonymous https://imgur.com/upload
And post link or embed the image here

Not doing that with these policies (below): if I could upload it here or provide it without my name being associated with it here I would.

“We also provide automatically collected anonymous data to third party advertisers and analytics companies to supplement the tracking information described below, but we contractually prohibit such third parties from combining such anonymous data with other data they may have in a way that could enable the identification of individuals.”

Upload it sideways with face visible partially or just the rear view of your whole body in bikini. We will tell how old you look

[Anonymous]

Lol what is this all about, I barely register people around me at the grocery store and I certainly don't imagine anyone is interested.

That said I am in guard from scams etc. and coming into my personal space will get me to evade quickly.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Lol what is this all about, I barely register people around me at the grocery store and I certainly don't imagine anyone is interested.

That said I am in guard from scams etc. and coming into my personal space will get me to evade quickly.

It’s an ego thing. Every man is after them. The delivery guy who ask for a signature on a package to the guy trying to get around you as you stand in the middle of the grocery store aisle.

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Anonymous wrote:I am in my late 40s and look about 32. Still pretty hot. Literally have not had the sense that men were after me in years. Def used to get hit on in public fairly frequently in my 20s. If OP is in her mid 40s and thinks men are all after her, she is insane.

No you don’t.

Yes, she can. Different poster here. I get mistaken for early 30s all the time...in professional settings, especially. It can happen with some people. I am not dating now but when I am on the apps--not kidding--I get 20s men liking me ALL of the time who insist age does not matter. It's looks.

Post your (unfiltered) picture and we’ll decide. Otherwise, nope. They’re lying to you because it clearly gets a good reaction.

Tell me how and I will. I don’t use filters. I don’t know how.

DP but upload to imgur which will make it Anonymous https://imgur.com/upload
And post link or embed the image here

Not doing that with these policies (below): if I could upload it here or provide it without my name being associated with it here I would.

“We also provide automatically collected anonymous data to third party advertisers and analytics companies to supplement the tracking information described below, but we contractually prohibit such third parties from combining such anonymous data with other data they may have in a way that could enable the identification of individuals.”

What a cop-out! That's just boiler plate, standard. Just black out your eyes if you're really paranoid -- but then we'd all accuse you of hiding your eye bags ha ha ha. Do you really think you're 100% guaranteed anonymous online? Stop saying you're going to post if you're not going to post.

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Anonymous wrote:I am in my late 40s and look about 32. Still pretty hot. Literally have not had the sense that men were after me in years. Def used to get hit on in public fairly frequently in my 20s. If OP is in her mid 40s and thinks men are all after her, she is insane.

No you don’t.

Yes, she can. Different poster here. I get mistaken for early 30s all the time...in professional settings, especially. It can happen with some people. I am not dating now but when I am on the apps--not kidding--I get 20s men liking me ALL of the time who insist age does not matter. It's looks.

Post your (unfiltered) picture and we’ll decide. Otherwise, nope. They’re lying to you because it clearly gets a good reaction.

Tell me how and I will. I don’t use filters. I don’t know how.

DP but upload to imgur which will make it Anonymous https://imgur.com/upload
And post link or embed the image here

Not doing that with these policies (below): if I could upload it here or provide it without my name being associated with it here I would.

“We also provide automatically collected anonymous data to third party advertisers and analytics companies to supplement the tracking information described below, but we contractually prohibit such third parties from combining such anonymous data with other data they may have in a way that could enable the identification of individuals.”

lol, sure, lady.

[Anonymous]

This doesn’t happen to me ever. I look like I’m not interested because I’m not.

I have a friend who got breast implants recently, always blows out her hair and wears very revealing clothing. She is super friendly, giggling and compliments everyone (men and women). She often says that guys hit on her like it is such a chore. It is quite annoying because I have watched her smile, talk to men and be the one acting interested asking lots of questions and then seems all surprised when the guy asks her for her number. Then she will huff and puff she has a husband and two kids and how she is just a mom.

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I’m a divorced 40yo who is reasonably attractive and in great shape for my age but also clearly 40. Ever since my divorce I have been in a constant nonstop state of shock at how many and which men come on to me. It is truly so confusing to me because again, I’m reasonably attractive for my age but nothing out of the ordinary, no one would ever stop on the street to look at me. I’m not at all interested in ever getting involved with another man unless he’s Nobel peace prize winner level awesome, but men’s standards are clearly so much lower!!!! I could get remarried tomorrow if I wanted and it wouldn’t be a challenge at all. Which is such a change from my 20s when every man was doing their best to avoid committing!! The whole situation is truly just so strange to me

[Anonymous]

I think that guy was looking for his wife. He doesn’t want you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am in my late 40s and look about 32. Still pretty hot. Literally have not had the sense that men were after me in years. Def used to get hit on in public fairly frequently in my 20s. If OP is in her mid 40s and thinks men are all after her, she is insane.

No you don’t.

PP. Yes, I do and it is not due to procedures. My parents looked young for their age, too. When people ask me if I have kids and I say I have two teenagers they look shocked and say oh I assumed they would be little. I had my kids in my early 30s, so not particularly young. I usually end up telling them my age so they don't think I had them when I was super young (internalized snobbery, probably, and sometimes I just let it go and say, yes, they are 17 and 15. This happens every time someone I don't know well asks me about my kids. I work with people who are in their 30s and they assume we are all the same age until I tell them we aren't. My husband is 7 years older and when we first got together we were often mistaken for father and daughter (embarrassing, I know).

That being said, I am not getting flirted with non-stop. I probably don't give off a young vibe even if I look young, but it's not like it was when I was younger and strange men ALWAYS took the seat next to me on a train, e.g., and chatted me up. It may also be smartphones. No one seems to interact that much anyway, so OP feeling like men are constantly after her in 2025 feels highly delusional.

Jesus Christ lady. I have no doubt that you look younger than your years, but if you’re almost 50, you don’t look 32. Unless you’re exclusively having your age guessed by folks at the retirement home, I guess.

Not that pp. I’m 47 and also have two teenagers and also a 7 year old. The parents of 7 year olds are in their thirties and early forties and always surprised I have two teens. They always assume we are the same age so a 35yo assumes I am similar in age as does the 40yo. I also have a friend who is 32 who hangs out with us mid forties and she felt bad someone guessed she was 35. She doesn’t look older. People our age (mid forties) just guessed she was a little younger than us.

Sometimes I meet people who are in their late 20s assume I am in my thirties. I don’t think I look ridiculously young foe my age. I am fit and dress youthful.

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Pp again. I have two friends who are 45 and 46 with oldest in college or going to college who also have 7 year olds. They are petite, long dark hair and youthful attire. From afar, they can almost pass as teens themselves. You would not be surprised if they said they were late twenties. They are Asian.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Mid 40s woman here and I need to say this out loud. No one wants you. I’m not sure if it’s all the views you get of yourself on Zoom all day or that your marriage is strained so everyone seems like a fresh piece of meat, but why does every 40-50 something think we want them?

I’ve been in the grocery store walking down the aisles searching for cereal and then the dad with a kid in tow needs to loudly announce “let’s go find mommy”. I’m not following you, I don’t want you. I’m finding stuff on my list. And yes, sometimes I hug a male friend who is part of a couple we have known for 15 years. It’s doesn’t mean I want him.

I can joke and be friendly, doesn’t mean I want you. I can talk to a dad at a school event without my husband, I don’t want you.

Anyone else feel relationships at this age are so hyper sexualized? I seriously don’t get it. Everyone feels so insecure. End of rant.

Women are insane. Film at 11.

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Anonymous wrote:I’m a divorced 40yo who is reasonably attractive and in great shape for my age but also clearly 40. Ever since my divorce I have been in a constant nonstop state of shock at how many and which men come on to me. It is truly so confusing to me because again, I’m reasonably attractive for my age but nothing out of the ordinary, no one would ever stop on the street to look at me. I’m not at all interested in ever getting involved with another man unless he’s Nobel peace prize winner level awesome, but men’s standards are clearly so much lower!!!! I could get remarried tomorrow if I wanted and it wouldn’t be a challenge at all. Which is such a change from my 20s when every man was doing their best to avoid committing!! The whole situation is truly just so strange to me

Even a broken clock is right twice a day.

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Anonymous wrote:I am in my late 40s and look about 32. Still pretty hot. Literally have not had the sense that men were after me in years. Def used to get hit on in public fairly frequently in my 20s. If OP is in her mid 40s and thinks men are all after her, she is insane.

No you don’t.

PP. Yes, I do and it is not due to procedures. My parents looked young for their age, too. When people ask me if I have kids and I say I have two teenagers they look shocked and say oh I assumed they would be little. I had my kids in my early 30s, so not particularly young. I usually end up telling them my age so they don't think I had them when I was super young (internalized snobbery, probably, and sometimes I just let it go and say, yes, they are 17 and 15. This happens every time someone I don't know well asks me about my kids. I work with people who are in their 30s and they assume we are all the same age until I tell them we aren't. My husband is 7 years older and when we first got together we were often mistaken for father and daughter (embarrassing, I know).

That being said, I am not getting flirted with non-stop. I probably don't give off a young vibe even if I look young, but it's not like it was when I was younger and strange men ALWAYS took the seat next to me on a train, e.g., and chatted me up. It may also be smartphones. No one seems to interact that much anyway, so OP feeling like men are constantly after her in 2025 feels highly delusional.

Jesus Christ lady. I have no doubt that you look younger than your years, but if you’re almost 50, you don’t look 32. Unless you’re exclusively having your age guessed by folks at the retirement home, I guess.

Not that pp. I’m 47 and also have two teenagers and also a 7 year old. The parents of 7 year olds are in their thirties and early forties and always surprised I have two teens. They always assume we are the same age so a 35yo assumes I am similar in age as does the 40yo. I also have a friend who is 32 who hangs out with us mid forties and she felt bad someone guessed she was 35. She doesn’t look older. People our age (mid forties) just guessed she was a little younger than us.

Sometimes I meet people who are in their late 20s assume I am in my thirties. I don’t think I look ridiculously young foe my age. I am fit and dress youthful.

People are using context clues to guess people’s age. It’s unsurprising that parents of friends of your 7 year old think you are their age. When you are on the same wavelength with someone, they assume you are close in age.