Sorry, sweetheart. I am neither a cheater nor someone who’s been cheated on. If you want to damage a stranger just so you can feel good about yourself, go right ahead. But don’t pretend you had to do it or it’s to help that stranger. You show just as much self-restraint as the cheaters did. Just as much disregard for another person. More than one thing can be wrong at the same time. And two wrongs don’t make you right. |
I get what you are saying. More often than not it doesn't work out when cheating is involved, so one can prolong it. Maybe see if it ever gets better, or plan to leave when the kids are older. Some women stay for an amount of time to sock money away. Every situation is different, but regardless OP needs to put herself first. She's with someone she can't trust. I've also seen where the husband is good for awhile, but does it again except he tries harder not to get caught. Pretty impossible considering all the gps devices, and phone location etc. |
Myself, if I decided to be with a married person I would knowingly expect their spouse could damage me in many ways. Tell my family, friends, even an employer. Or worse. If I were the other married spouse being cheated on I would want someone to tell me. OP did the right thing, but surely it's also revenge. And that's ok. However, now OP needs to move on and get out of this situation. |
Like you, insulting the OP? GMAFB. You have no high horse here. |
OP, is the dude ok looking? Maybe some revenge sex is in your future! |
You sound like you are not over this. Please get mental help. |
Cheating is much bigger than sex, you idiot. |
This is so pathetic I don't even know what to say. |
Hmm, who does that sound like...? And who cares what OP's motivation was? If you say her motivation matters that's ridiculous if the end result is the same - telling the other spouse. |
Not PP but I also don't think you have any self respect. Dealing with life's messes means dealing with them, not willfully ignoring them. |
You are delusional. |
Syphillis must be attacking her brain. lol |
Important detail needed.
1) Is AP younger and/or more attractive than OP. 2) is AP more graceful and pleasant in the eyes of the general public than OP. 3) does the AP love the cheater more than OP does prior to exposure? Need the facts. |
What does that have to do with informing APs husband that she's a cheating whore? |
Oh lord! 🤡 |