Stay in a blah marriage for the kid?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

I am typing on my phone!

Attorneys usually can’t write articles or book [sic]. Bring [sic] an attorney does not give you any leg up in writing.

You should get off your phone until you learn to proofread your work.

How do you know what attorneys usually write? You cannot even get the basic grammar of a post right.

You are absurdly sanctimonious and smug. No one elected you board monitor. Who the hell do you think you are?

Your insecurity drips from every response you post. DP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:From your kid's perspective, this is what she's seeing as an example of marriage. Is this the kind of marriage you want for her? When she goes to college will you divorce? How do you think she'll feel knowing you wanted to divorce for 10 or so years but didn't because of her? She won't just say "Gee, thanks guys!" She'll feel guilty.

Bullsh*t. Kids are pretty self-centered. If the parents don't fight and provide food, shelter and comfort, they thrive. They will be better off with no divorce. They don't need to see dad grab-*ssing mom all the time.

This stands out:

[/b]We do have fun as a family when we travel, go to friends' houses, etc.[b], but for our day to day, we're roommates and co-parents only.

Lady, get into counseling with your husband. Marriages go through stages. You are in the valley of the U curve right now.

+100 the kids aren’t going to feel guilty you weren’t “living your best self” unless you actively try to make them feel so. This is just a line people use to justify their own selfish choices.

[Anonymous]

You are absurdly sanctimonious and smug. No one elected you board monitor. Who the hell do you think you are?

Your insecurity drips from every response you post. DP

I own you. Every time you post. Even when you try to post as a different poster.

Signed,

Your Board Monitor

[Anonymous]

And by the way, where it matters, a lot of attorneys make a lot of errors, such as my divorce paperwork: my attorney made so many mistakes, it was out of control. She couldn’t get the facts right or spell things properly in a document that actually matters! An online post doesn’t matter! Get over yourself.

Your attorney made mistakes such as misspelling words, etc.?

Are you sure? Sounds more like your work.

If an online post does not matter, why did you spend so much time writing a page-long response?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

You are absurdly sanctimonious and smug. No one elected you board monitor. Who the hell do you think you are?

Your insecurity drips from every response you post. DP

I own you. Every time you post. Even when you try to post as a different poster.

Signed,

Your Board Monitor

I did not post that. Another poster did. You are an idiot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

And by the way, where it matters, a lot of attorneys make a lot of errors, such as my divorce paperwork: my attorney made so many mistakes, it was out of control. She couldn’t get the facts right or spell things properly in a document that actually matters! An online post doesn’t matter! Get over yourself.

Your attorney made mistakes such as misspelling words, etc.?

Are you sure? Sounds more like your work.

If an online post does not matter, why did you spend so much time writing a page-long response?

Yes, they misspelled MY NAME and made several other errors (many were factual errors!) There were several typos. Also, they forgot two years LATER to file a specific federal form for my case. That was error I found—and I am not a lawyer. My ex-husband is an attorney; he agrees most attorneys an awful with details and terrible writers. The attorneys who are good at it are not the braggarts like you.

Stop complaining about writing on a message board—you are not the judge; no one cares.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your vows say for better or worse. This is the worse you're going to divorce over??? Be for real!

Well he ignores her and they don't have sex. She has a roommate. Life is too short for this BS.

+1, and people write their own vows nowadays.

[Anonymous]

“Are” awful