Seeing Married Men in Your Circle

[Anonymous]

I can see why you are divorced.

[Anonymous]

Listen, OP, be the woman these men lust over, the woman their wives wish they could be and the mother your children can look up to. Be the better person, these married men are not your problem, let their wives realize and deal with the fact that these men aren’t in love with them anymore, if they ever even were, they only stay married because it’s easier and cheaper, rise up and be the better person. It will be worth it in the end. Get a pet.

[Anonymous]

Your social circle is also your kids’ social circle. Imagine the shame they would have to deal with.

[Anonymous]

Are people really buying this? Are people really that dumb to post identifiers and then say they want to bang their friends' husbands?
Nah this is a work of fantasy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Ignore the haters. I say go for it. This actually happened in our neighborhood. Everyone found out, the bus stop became hilariously awkward. Still is when all four of the relevant parents are there at once.

You're cute, encouraging OP to provide street corner entertainment for the neighborhood.

OP, if you're for real, and especially if you have children -- you seriously need to put the brakes on ALL dating and sex and get yourself together mentally and emotionally before you destroy yourself, your kids' respect for you (oh, they'll know someday), and any shot at being seen as a decent person. The people on this thread telling you to go for it, or telling you they know someone who got away with it -- you do realize they're messing with you, right? They won't be there when you have no friends.

The fact you don't see it as morally wrong to have sex with someone else's husband, well, I won't even go there because if you don't see that, I can only appeal to any desire you have not to be shunned.

Exactly. Not to mention it's dangerous OP. The wrath of a married persons family can destroy your life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Listen, OP, be the woman these men lust over, the woman their wives wish they could be and the mother your children can look up to. Be the better person, these married men are not your problem, let their wives realize and deal with the fact that these men aren’t in love with them anymore, if they ever even were, they only stay married because it’s easier and cheaper, rise up and be the better person. It will be worth it in the end. Get a pet.

I don't know, if I were one of these women, based on what the OP has said, it would take her changing a lot for me to wish I could be her. I don't even wish to be the friends I admire a lot. To wish to be somebody who wanted to sleep with my husband, or another one in my circle, whoever she could get? I can't imagine that happening, even if my husband wasn't in love with me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are people really buying this? Are people really that dumb to post identifiers and then say they want to bang their friends' husbands?
Nah this is a work of fantasy.

I don't really believe OP is serious, she's either a troll or just word vomiting on the internet, but the comments have been worth reading.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Listen, OP, be the woman these men lust over, the woman their wives wish they could be and the mother your children can look up to. Be the better person, these married men are not your problem, let their wives realize and deal with the fact that these men aren’t in love with them anymore, if they ever even were, they only stay married because it’s easier and cheaper, rise up and be the better person. It will be worth it in the end. Get a pet.

I don't know, if I were one of these women, based on what the OP has said, it would take her changing a lot for me to wish I could be her. I don't even wish to be the friends I admire a lot. To wish to be somebody who wanted to sleep with my husband, or another one in my circle, whoever she could get? I can't imagine that happening, even if my husband wasn't in love with me.

Ah, but you’ll never know she wishes to sleep with your husband because she won’t. OP needs to be the best role model to her kids that she can be, these couples may appear perfect and happy on the outside, that’s what she is after, the illusion, not the man per se. If these married men are flirting with you, they will flirt with anything. If you actually knew these men, OP you probably wouldn’t want anything to do with them.

[Anonymous]

I am the divorced woman in a circle of friends with ids who are friends. The husbands all seem great. Guess what though, the one who seems to have “chemistry” with me is tall, handsome, smart, wealthy, they have a fabulous life; and he flirts with me, travels a ton and drinks all the time. I will not touch him with a ten foot pole. Their life seems so nice but I’m betting she tolerates a lot to keep it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are people really buying this? Are people really that dumb to post identifiers and then say they want to bang their friends' husbands?
Nah this is a work of fantasy.

I don't really believe OP is serious, she's either a troll or just word vomiting on the internet, but the comments have been worth reading.

Even if she is trolling, there are desperate, pathetic, needy women like OP that exist.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are people really buying this? Are people really that dumb to post identifiers and then say they want to bang their friends' husbands?
Nah this is a work of fantasy.

I don't really believe OP is serious, she's either a troll or just word vomiting on the internet, but the comments have been worth reading.

Even if she is trolling, there are desperate, pathetic, needy women like OP that exist.

That’s a bit harsh, she is in love with the illusion of your perfect blissful married life. She needs a wake up call, these men are not worth it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You want to sleep with your friends' husbands. Gross. This is why separated/divorced people get shunned socially

Because you assume everyone single wants your wack-a@@ man? Girl, stop embarrassing yourself

Huh? No I'm divorced and have been shunned. So I know what it feels like and the shunning is real. I hate my old friends and have new, nicer and more interesting ones now. For the record, I did NOT want my ex- friends' wack-a@@ husbands! Hahaha

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You want to sleep with your friends' husbands. Gross. This is why separated/divorced people get shunned socially

Because you assume everyone single wants your wack-a@@ man? Girl, stop embarrassing yourself

Huh? No I'm divorced and have been shunned. So I know what it feels like and the shunning is real. I hate my old friends and have new, nicer and more interesting ones now. For the record, I did NOT want my ex- friends' wack-a@@ husbands! Hahaha

I’m divorced and haven’t been shunned by anyone. You need better friends!

[Anonymous]

Haven’t read the responses.

Why in heavens name would you want to do this? So messy and morally wrong. Are you trying to blow up your friend group?

[Anonymous]

as a rule, don't shit where you eat.