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Top Topics of 2010

by Jeff Steele last modified Oct 25, 2021 07:51 AM

The DCUM Forum topics of 2010 with the most views and responses.

If there is one thing I hate it is end of the year top 10 lists. I can't explain why, but I hate them with a passion. With that in mind, I don't blame anyone who refuses to read this post. I don't even want to read it and I'm the one writing it. Call it a lack of imagination, but I decided to identify the 10 most popular topics posted in the DCUM forums in 2010. The list will be familiar to DCUM regulars, though there may be a few surprises. This list probably says something profound about DCUM, but I'm not sure what that might be. On the other hand, what it says about us might not be particularly flattering.

First, this is a list of the topics started in 2010 with the most views:

  1. "African-American Name for White Child?" — 10,780 views. While race is generally a hot button topic that can generate a lot of discussion, name-related topics were one of the surprises of 2010.

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The End of an Era

by Jeff Steele last modified Jul 26, 2011 06:51 AM

I say "good bye" to both analog music and the stereo system I've had since high school.

Today my sons -- aged 6 and 10 -- listened to an album. By "album" I mean one of those 12-inch vinyl platters that goes on a phonograph and by "listen" I mean that they were in the vicinity when I blasted AC/DC's "High Voltage". After playing "It's a Long Way to the Top (If You Wanna Rock 'n' Roll)" a couple of times at unhealthy volumes, I shut off the stereo and moved the turntable to a pile of electronics destined for the recycling center.

I attended high school from 1978 to 1982. I say that because it was sometime within those years that I bought this stereo system. While I don't remember exactly when it was, I precisely remember the store. I remember the salesman taking me from system to system giving detailed descriptions of the strengths of each. In every case, I would ask a single question, "Is it loud?". That was important because of two facts: 1) I had a drumset in my bedroom; and 2) I got home from school most days a few hours before my parents or brothers arrived. With no one around to tell me to keep things down, I could play the drums as loud as I wished and I needed a stereo that I wouldn't drown out. While the salesman repeatedly reacted to my question with a pained expression, he eventually succumbed to reality and pointed to a system saying, "this one is loud."

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Nation of Stereotypes

by Jeff Steele last modified Jul 12, 2011 10:28 PM

Recent discussions of the proposed federal employee pay freeze highlight an unfortunate development: Americans have begun taking far too much pleasure in other's misfortunes.

When President Obama proposed last week that the pay of federal employees be frozen for two years, the DC Urban Moms and Dads discussion forums were inundated with posts on the topic. A common theme among posters who supported the proposal was that government employees were lazy recipients of overly-generous benefits packages who were impossible to fire. "Welcome to the real world" was the frequent refrain.

I was immediately reminded of the debates surrounding former DC Public Schools Chancellor Michelle Rhee and DCPS teachers. Rhee was praised for her willingness to challenge the Washington Teachers Union. Teachers were criticized as lazy whiners who were more interested in protecting their cushy jobs than teaching children. Rhee received nearly universal praise for firing them in great numbers.

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Public Housing and Crime: An Insider's View

by Jeff Steele last modified Feb 21, 2012 09:07 AM

Recently, Pennsylvania Ave, SE has been the location of a series of brutal, unprovoked attacks against women. The perpetrators have been linked to the Potomac Gardens public housing project. A discussion in the DCUM forums about the attacks and Potomac Gardens devolved into a series of accusations of racism. But, one comment stood out as particularly nuanced and insightful. That post is reproduced here.

This comment by an anonymous poster originally appeared in the thread, "Pennsylvania Ave SE Crime and Potomac Gardens in the DCUM Forums.

I grew up in public housing / section 8 housing. I'm white. I have seen it all. Our housing project was most certainly "slummy." About 20 percent of the residents cared about one another and the rest were either too desperate, angry, exhausted, or entrenched to give a damn. Even fewer cared about things like upkeep and cleanliness. I'm not sure I could accurately predict how many of the parents cared about their kids, but the reality is that the way the children were raised in the projects is not at all like the way children are raised by most middle-class or even working class non-project residents. In some cases the parents were just checked out, but in many other cases the parents were subject to the same pressures stated above -- too exhausted, angry, desperate, etc, to spend as much time with their children as they'd like. The time they did spend was not usually quality time. And children and young parents were indoctrinated into the same culture they saw. It was very much self-perpetuating. When I was growing up, welfare was still aid to families with dependent children and not the current temporary assistance to needy families. Parents weren't booted off public assistance with no child-care subsidies in a short two years the way they are now.

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For Geeks Only: DCUM Usage Statistics

by Jeff Steele last modified Jul 26, 2011 06:53 AM

For the tech geeks in the audience, here is some information about DCUM users and their computers.

Inspired by Josh Marshall at Talkingpointsmemo.com who just reported on browser usage on his website, I thought I'd do the same for DCUM. Marshall describes his audience as "more tech-savvy, Mac-using and affluent than the web at large". I think much the same can be said about DCUM users.

Over the past 30 days, Internet Explorer has accounted for 43% of visits. Safari comes second with 26%, and Firefox third with 23%. Chrome is a distant 4th with 7%. In comparison, Talkingpointsmemo.com's stats are "Firefox 34.50%, Explorer 26.63%, Safari 23.66% and Chrome 12.52%."

In terms of operating systems, Windows leads on DCUM with 66% of the visits. Macintosh takes second with 21%, iPhone third with 6% and iPad fourth with 2%. Somewhat surprising are the poor showing by Android and BlackBerry devices. Both lag the iPad with Android at 1.6% and Blackberry at .85%. Apple's iPod, coming it at .94%, actually beats the Blackberry. Macintosh and iOS devices combined make up just over 30% of the visits, about 5% less than Marshall sees.

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The Washington Post Contributes to Fenty Loss

by Jeff Steele last modified Jul 26, 2011 06:55 AM

The Washington Post has been the Overly-Indulgent Parent to Adrian Fenty as the Spoiled Child.

Responsibility for losing the September 14, 2010 Democratic primary election for Mayor of the District of Columbia falls squarely on the shoulders of Mayor Adrian M. Fenty. Fenty managed to squander the goodwill that led to his winning every single one of DC's precincts four years ago. But, I think there is another culprit as well. One that can easily be described in terms to which parents can relate. While Fenty may have been the perpetrator of his own demise, The Washington Post, especially its editorial board, contributed by playing the role of over-indulgent parents to a spoiled child.

Throughout Fenty's term, the Post has behaved as a parent who, despite a need to make constant amends for a child's transgressions, believes the child can do no wrong. Soon after Fenty took office, the Post was alerted to the fact that Fenty's Academic Plan for the schools had been largely plagiarized. The Post ignored the story until it was publicized elsewhere. When the Post's editorial page finally weighed in, it was mostly for the purpose of damage control. The idea that anyone should be punished for the plagiarism was dismissed.

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How Can I Support My Friends With Special Needs Kids? Do's and Dont's

by Paprikash last modified May 25, 2023 09:22 PM

A mom to a child with special needs discusses her experiences and provides some practical tips for supporting kids with special needs and their parents and families.

As the mom of a four-year old girl who is physically disabled, I get asked a lot of questions about special needs kids.  People want to do the right thing, and most people are well-meaning.  So over time I’ve put together a kind of mental list of Do’s and Dont's.  The usual caveats apply --  I’m just one mom, and everyone has their own feelings and own style.

The question I get asked the most is usually something like “How can I support my friend who has a special needs child?”  Sometimes that friend has a newborn and has received a stunning and unexpected diagnosis.  Other times there is an older child for whom there are worries and fears in some physical or behavioral realm.  There can be a profound disability or a sense that something’s just not quite right.

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Popular Wilson High Teacher Forced Out

by Jeff Steele last modified Jun 05, 2016 08:15 AM

A DCUM Poster calls Reiner one of Wilson's "all-time brightest lights" who "inspired the hearts and illuminated the minds of Washington, D.C.'s children".

This morning Harry Jaffe reported in the Washington Examiner that Joe Riener has been forced out as a teacher at Washington, DC's Wilson Senior High. Jaffe attributes this to flaws in DCPS Chancellor Michelle Rhee's IMPACT evaluation system. An anonymous DCUM Forums participant lamented the move in a very eloquent post. With permission of the author, that post is being republished here.

Oh no, this can't be!?!?

Mr. Riener is an outstanding teacher and his commitment to Wilson High School is unsurpassed.

During these past fifteen years, Mr. Riener has taught hundreds, perhaps thousands of students college level/quality writing skills. The vast majority of students who have graduated from Wilson during these years with the skills required to be successful in college have been taught by Mr. Riener. On an academic level the loss of Mr. Riener is a great tragedy for Wilson.

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Diaper Need Revealed in New Study

by Jessica last modified Dec 13, 2011 07:51 PM

Can you imagine having to choose between feeding your child and changing her diaper? In the United States, one in three mothers have had to make that choice.

In the United States, 1 in 3 mothers have had to cut back on food in order to provide diapers for their children, according to a new study.

The study was conducted among a nationally representative sample of mothers with babies 0-4 years old in diapers in the United States and Canada (1,513 mothers in the U.S. and 1,008 mothers in Canada).  The Every Little Bottom  study was conducted by Abt SRBI Inc. and commissioned by Kimberly-Clark and Huggies diapers. Study findings included:

  • 1 in 3 mothers in the U.S and 1 in 5 mothers in Canada have had to cut back on household necessities such as groceries, heat and electricity, or miss bill payments, in order to to provide diapers for their babies.

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Evaluating the Mercedes-Benz C300 Sports Sedan

by Jeff Steele last modified Mar 21, 2011 07:04 AM

It's an above average car, but a first-rate phone booth.

When I get the chance, I like to review cars with an eye toward their suitability for families. Rather than go for the obvious SUV and minivan contenders, I tend toward sportier, city-friendly vehicles. I may be one of the few people to seriously argue that a MINI Cooper is a fine family car for those in urban environments. With that potentially grain-of-salt-inducing caveat, I'm taking a look at a somewhat larger vehicle. I recently spent some time with a 2010 Mercedes-Benz C300 Sport Sedan. It's a good, but not exactly great car.

From the outside, the C300 has many of the classic M-B lines that one would expect. The design works for me. The interior is much the same. The quality of the materials seems good, layout is fine. But, nothing leaps out to set the car apart from from the herd.

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