Anonymous wrote:9:53, I wish for friends like you. You make the world a better place.
I feel very fortunate when I read some of these threads. But it didn't happen overnight. I was new to the area, and another mom from the daycare invited a few of us over for a playdate. 2 of us came. And that's honestly how it started. Over the years, the playdate has grown from that first one of 3 moms and 5 kids to 8 moms and many many kids, we've gotten to know one another, and offer to help each other or ask each other for help. And its not that we *can't* do it on our own, but we truly enjoy helping each other and being helped, because we all have those days when nothing goes right. Honestly, adding another 4 yr old to my day doesn't change a whole lot. In some ways, it makes it easier since its a 'treat' for my son to have a friend over for the day and they play with each other. It's not that my time isn't "precious" but that adding a child doesn't take anything away, it usually enriches the day because its something different than the norm.