
Um, no it wasn't - note that age of consent was 16. Inappropriate? Sure. |
I was 2 weeks shy of 16.
It happened in his bedroom. I can't really remember if it was good or not. I think more than anything it was surreal. We'd been fooling around before the big deed, though, so I we knew what we were doing with other things. Still can't really remember the specific moment, though. I kept in touch with him through college (he went to a different one) but his next girlfriend hated me and he ended up marrying her. Now we are FB friends, talk only occasionally. Yeah both our parents figured it out. My mom kind of tricked me into telling her and then she turned on me. It sucked. He's a nice enough guy but I think he's an alcoholic. We were SO IN LOVE at the time! Funny to think about myself like that. It's been a long time. |
1. 19
2. My first very serious boyfriend 3. In his bottom bunk in the dormitory 4. It was awkward but exciting. He was slow and gentle. 5. Been married nearly 15 years 6. Hell no my parents didn't know! |
1. 19
2. We were the best of friends that denied *liking* each other, and always got teased about the two of us being an item. We did go everywhere and do everything together. 3. In his bottom bunk in the dormitory 4. It was awkward. We were both virgins. Took 1 yr + before sex got "good". 5. Ran into him a few years later, he was married, me, not yet. No thought of being friends again. 6. No, my parents didn't know. I was an adult and it was none of their business. |
1. How old were you? 18
2. What was the relationship? both young women who had recently broken up with guys. 3. Where did it happen? my bedroom 4. Was it any good? How long did it take before it was? great from the start. maybe that's a plus of lesbian love-making? 5. Where is this person today? Are you still in touch? We were together for 5 years before she death parted us. 6. Did your parents know? I was living with my grandmother at the time. She went through my things to confirm her suspicion and kicked me out of the house that night! She was the only woman for me. I'm happily married to a man now. So first time with a man: 26. Didn't hurt either. He was WAY older, 49. Lost touch with him but he was a great transition to the straight world as he was very understanding and loved me a lot. |
1. How old were you?
19, freshman in college 2. What was the relationship? 1st college boyfriend, think he was a junior at the time 3. Where did it happen? His (friend or family) beach house, weekend trip planned for the purpose. 4. Was it any good? How long did it take before it was? I don't remember it hurting a lot but it wasn't comfortable and didn't feel good either. Never felt great with him. I do remember feeling afterward that I should have felt different, but I didn't, and that was a little disappointing. I did go into it intentionally knowing he could never break my heart (because he didn't have it; I cared for him but didn't love him) but in retrospect wish it had been with someone more meaningful. We split a few months later, though he tried to talk me out of it. 5. Where is this person today? Are you still in touch? We kept in touch for a few years after but he got married and we fell out of contact. Haven't heard from him in years since. 6. Did your parents know? I have no idea. But probably--my mom always knew more than I gave her credit for. |
1. 18, senior year of high school 2. Guy from another HS who I had a HUGE crush on. He was home from college on Xmas break. 3. First time, his car. Second time, his bedroom at his parent's house while his grandmother was in the living room. 4. It was great even though it stung a bit that first time; he was really gentle. I was so totally infatuated with him. We started seeing each other when he came home on breaks (couldn't see him at college...I was in TX, he was in New Haven) and it was really fun. I think the distance made it more exciting, sex never felt anything but good. 5. Nah, we never kept in touch. I went to college. It just petered out. We awkwardly ran into each other when I came home my sophomore year of college and that was it. I just looked him up on LinkedIn. He's in software sales in Chicago. One of his recommendations states that he's "a great family man," which is awsome for a 40 yo guy, but to me, he'll always be the totally hot college guy who I had sex with in all kinds of crazy places and had a great time with. 6. I don't think so. My older sister asked me point blank but she would never have ratted me out. Wow, what a great question. Thanks for the walk down memory lane! |