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Parenthood thread got me thinking...
1. How old were you? 2. What was the relationship? 3. Where did it happen? 4. Was it any good? How long did it take before it was? 5. Where is this person today? Are you still in touch? 6. Did your parents know? |
Anonymous
1. 16 2. My boyfriend, sort of. Not a bad guy but I loved him way more than he loved me. 3. His bedroom after school one day 4. It hurt like hell. I don't think I enjoyed it at all for the first 20 times. Definitely enjoyed it with my college boyfriend though. 5. He's my FB friend and we occasionally FB chat. He's doing well career wise but personally is kind of a mess. He's almost 40 and wants a wife and kids but can't seem to find the one. 6. I didn't think so at the time but now I feel like my mom must have suspected. I was 16 and head over heels, and he was 18, and we'd been on and off for over a year at that point. |
Anonymous
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1. How old were you? 25, yea I was a late bloomer
2. What was the relationship? a guy I thought I was dating long distance, but wasn't really. It was complicated and I loved him even though he was a total mess and not relationship material. 3. Where did it happen? His house when I was visiting one weekend 4. Was it any good? How long did it take before it was? It was good, but I had so many emotions that i couldn't enjoy it 5. Where is this person today? Are you still in touch? FB friends, but don't really keep in touch. DH is a bit threatened by him. 6. Did your parents know? No, I was long out of the house. |
Anonymous
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1. How old were you? 18
2. What was the relationship? My first love, first serious relationship 3. Where did it happen? His bed at college 4. Was it any good? How long did it take before it was? No it was lousy. It tooks many years before it was good. 5. Where is this person today? Are you still in touch? I have no idea where he was and we are not in touch. 6. Did your parents know? I think they suspected. |
Anonymous
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16
Incredibly cute guy I knew through his friend At his house. It was SO good No clue where he is. Didn't talk to him after. I don't think my parents knew, but no way to tell. |
Anonymous
1. 16. 2. First serious boyfriend. 3. His bedroom after school. 4. Not great, not terrible. Hurt a little at first but not for long. 5. Last I heard, he was still in a relationship with the girl he left me for. I am turning 30 this year. We are not still in touch but have some mutual friends. 6. I told my mom. She was sweet, understanding, listened to the story, and then proceeded to inundate me with reading material about good relationship communication and responsible sexual behavior. |
Anonymous
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1. 20
2. College boyfriend 3. On Safari in Tanzania 4. No. Probably several months. 5. He is my husband. 6. No. |
Anonymous
18 He was my first serious boyfriend, we had only been officially dating for three months but had been best friends and together all the time for all of senior year in high school and I had known him since middle school (but didn't really become friends until senior year) His bedroom It didn't take long, it was his first time to. We had plenty of experience fooling around by then and I was very comfortable having a physical relationship with him by then, but it was not remarkable and it did hurt. We used condoms and I made sure it was a safer time of the month. A few weeks later I started college and went on the pill. He's not far from this area. We are intermittently in touch as he is part of a close group of high school friends, but we've only emailed a few times and not in the past two years. We ended as friends, left for college and broke up during sophomore year because of distance. No, at the time they didn't. My mom knows now as she was at my bachelorette party and we played this game with all the questions and I answered truthfully, she was surprised but at that point I was 28 and getting married so what are you going to do. |
Anonymous
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Ha-these sound like lovely experiences. Mine not so much. 21-summer before senior year in college. Determined to lose my virginity. Stand up comic in a podunk town that I met at a bar. His shitty hotel room with the television on. About 5 minutes. It was so cheesy that it was actually pretty funny. Next time, I waited until I was dating someone that I was pretty serious with. Much better experience!
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Anonymous
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1. How old were you? 16
2. What was the relationship? Boyfriend 3. Where did it happen? My house 4. Was it any good? How long did it take before it was? No. Hmm, not until about 3 years later with a different person 5. Where is this person today? Are you still in touch? Still around, yes. 6. Did your parents know? No. |
Anonymous
1. 19 2. Date rape 3. His apartment 4. Horrible experience that resulted in years of therapy 5. No idea. I wish I could say jail but I never had the courage to report him 6. Mom knew I lost my virginity but not that it was through a date rape. Really conservative, religious mother who called me a slut after she found out. I wish I was a troll right now. Please educate your daughters about date rape. It happens more often than people realize bc oftentimes the victim blames herself and never tells people. |
Anonymous
| Weird how people are up in arms when someone is taking a poll about weight/DH salary, but when it comes to sex- everyone's willing to participate.....says a lot. |
Anonymous
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1. 21 my senior year of college in a small town in upstate NY, he was an alum who was 23 and still lived in the area and was visiting
2. We had hooked up once before when I was a sophomore and he was a senior. we were friendly but not friends. 3. my bedroom while I was extremely drunk. 4. he had no idea I was a virgin, it was not that painful though but i did not enjoy it. He said I had the best body he had ever seen... that I remember clearly 5. Occasionally see him tagged on FB albums from friends of friends. We are not that far out of college so people are still in touch. I have not spoken to him in probably 5 years and we are not FB friends. I think he is engaged. 6. Nope. |
Anonymous
I'm glad I' m no the only one whose first time ended up being with their DH! I always feel weird about this, for some reason. 1. 21 2. College boyfriend 3. In Paris, where I was doing my junior year abroad. Sounds fabulous but I had a crappy, dirty dorm room so it really wasn't all that romantic. 4. Not good but not terrible the first time. Took a while before it was good. 5. Yep, married him. 6. Did not tell my mother specifically bc we did not talk about such things but I think I made an oblique reference to being on birth control, so she got the point. Her primary message to me about sex was always don't do it but I think if she had to admit it, she was probably relieved I waited until I was out of HS. |
Anonymous
PP here - yeah me too!! I certainly didn't plan it that way. I didn't intend to wait until I was married or anything, but I did want to wait until I was with a special guy and it would actually mean something to me. Just a coincidence that my special guy turned out to be The One! It can be wierd to talk about with friends, because if they knew I'd only been with my husband, they'd assume I waited until we were married, and we didn't. But clarifying is wierd too, because I don't think there is anything wrong with waiting until you are married, either. |