Bless your heart. There are some great suggestions here. Get help with anything else that you can if your budget allows so you can focus on what's most important. Also, as hard as it can be, remember to take time for yourself and for you and your hubby. Staying strong together through the busyness of life is going to help out alot. Hang in there!

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Hi there - This sounds like normal behavior for a kiddo that age. The key is knowing how to respond to the behavior when it happens. Kids need guidance and training even at this age and that can help! Here's an article with info on unruly toddlers, might help. Hang in there momma!

http://bit.ly/1BPepWd

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If you are truly concerned, have you considered getting a second opinion from your pediatrician?

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Hi there- I completely understand where you are coming from. I agree with the post that recommended just letting the idea of one child sit in your mind for a bit (I know time isn't on your side, but better to really know!) A friend of mine with 5 kiddos once told me that you would never regret having more children. It's true, it's just not an easy job. I always think about our kids being grown and having grandkids around the table. I want my children to have the support of one another growing up. It is a lot to consider, but once you feel at peace with your decision, you'll just know! I don't know if you are a praying person or not, but that's how I make these type of decisions. Kind of takes the burden off of me and lets someone else decide. Bless you girl!

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Bless your heart. I haven't been in your shoes but I know you're not alone. Have you thought about therapy to talk this out with a professional? Might be helpful. Praying for you all.

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I have struggled with the sahm balance for years! My kids are elementary aged and so now I work part time and have a small at home business as well. I am torn about working full time because I enjoy it and being home with them. I recently applied for a job I really wanted and when I didn't get it, I realized that it was better than I can be at home with them in the afternoons while they are still impressionable. I know I won't regret being a positive role model in their life and just having a better handle on their life, school, friends etc. Bless your heart!

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Sorry to hear that is happening with your sister and her family. It was good that you were able to see it and I agree with the others - stay in contact with her and ask her lots of questions. Hopefully it's not emotional or physical abuse, but if it is, it is usually really hard for the victim to seek help or even tell anyone about it. Here's an article that you might want to share with her as long as her husband doesn't check her email...gosh praying for her.

http://bit.ly/1JKgi7m

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Have you thought about talking to him about it once everyone cools down? I always recommend talking about what happened after the fact and how it doesn't have to happen that way again. If he knows your expectations, then hopefully he can understand that. Vice versa. Sometimes people just have bad days though and they need someone there to lift them up when they are down. If my husband came in the house not acting like himself, I would immediately know something was on his mind. I'd ask if he wanted to talk about it or wait. Then I'd give him his space. It hasn't ever been about me but if you take it there, it will cause a lot of heat. Men are simple creatures. Praying for your relationship!

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Hi there, I'm not sure what the legal implications are in your situation, wish I could help. Is there any chance you guys would get back together or is this already decided to split? Just wondering because I would recommend couples counseling if there is a chance to stay together. Blessings,

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Sometimes it's best to trust your gut...sounds like you have already decided what to do in this situation. There are plenty of nice, respectful gentlemen out there. You deserve someone who will open your car door for you on your first date. Seriously, it still happens. Been married 12 years and he still does it!! Set your standards high. Wait until you find one when you can trust your gut for the right reasons. Praying for ya girlie!

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Bless your heart. Sorry to hear that you are having a hard time figuring out what to do. I haven't been in your shoes, but I did find an article the other day when I was looking into my daughter's issues staying focused in school. Not sure if it pertains to your son's issues but might be helpful. http://bit.ly/1Lqw72p

There's a counseling reference at the bottom if you're interested in asking a professional for guidance. Hang in there!

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Hey there - sorry to hear you are going through this with your daughter. As a mom, that has to be scary even if she doesn't get very far. I recently came across some great articles about strong-willed children when researching discipline for my kiddos (ages 5 and 8), maybe this one will help your situation? http://bit.ly/1cQJPzo

I know it mentions counseling in the article. Might be something to consider since it helped her previously. Blessings mama!

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Sorry to hear that your daughter is going through that with the other girls. Have you thought about calling the camp, explaining the situation, and letting them determine what options might work best? Praying for the best outcome for your DD.

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Hi there,
It sounds like talking to your doc might be a good idea to clear the air about the symptoms in question. Will you have the chance to do that soon? Sorry to hear that you are exhausted! It's great that you are able to be positive in the midst of a trial. Bless you!

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Hey there,
That is a tough spot to be in but I echo the other responses that encouraged you to just talk to him about it. Open communication is key in a marriage! I know what it's like to have to LO's at home and not much time for each other. Maybe after you clear the air, plan a few date nights just to have time together. That always resets my hubby and I, when we can chat without the kiddos around. Praying for you mama!

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