Is this guy psycho or normal behavior?
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PSYCHO
no good can come of this. A nice guy wouldn't do any of the things you said he did/said. |
Anonymous
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He's telling you that your perfect because in his mind you are. He is projecting all his desires onto you. Once the real you starts to bleed through his fantasy, he is going to be pissed and controlling trying to get you back into the pristine condition he has currently created.
RUN, RUN, RUN!!! |
Anonymous
So you know my life? Don't comment unless you want to help me. I don't have any reason to post anything made up! |
dancingsunflowers06
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Sometimes it's best to trust your gut...sounds like you have already decided what to do in this situation. There are plenty of nice, respectful gentlemen out there. You deserve someone who will open your car door for you on your first date. Seriously, it still happens. Been married 12 years and he still does it!! Set your standards high. Wait until you find one when you can trust your gut for the right reasons. Praying for ya girlie!
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Anonymous
| Asking for a naked pic is creeeeepy. |
Anonymous
| Run. |
Anonymous
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Coming on very strongly in the beginning in an unnatural way not connected to reality...yes bad sign. |
Anonymous
Very plausible, even if it is. It happened to me twice. The crazy barreling train-like attention. And yes, they are nuts. |
Anonymous
| Some act this way right away bc they want to get laid and a woman with low self-esteem will fall for this and then get her heart broken after he dumps her after sex. Or he is honestly THAT into you already which shows he has poor judgment and little grip on reality and is needy - since he does not know you. Asking for naked pic w/o knowing you is reason alone to DTMF. |
Anonymous
| Classic APD operator. Be very wary. |
Anonymous
| Does this guy need a green card? |
Anonymous
My friend started dating and sleeping with a guy like this. He did not dump here. He became more possessive and psycho. Sleeping with him didn't make him go away. |
Anonymous
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Your lack of dating experience shows quite clear OP. (Not to meant as an offensive remark by the way.)
That being said, let us on here advise you on what to do about this guy. Just the fact that he asked you for NAKED pictures waay out of line. Forget the other stuff. This guy is a creep and in no way should you meet up with him in person. Cease all communication stat. No more texts, phone calls or face time. If you continue talking to him, we may be reading about this on the five o'clock news. He sounds dangerous to me. |
Anonymous
| I would let this one go. Not good signs. |
Anonymous
| Only go out with this guy if your goal is to become a lampshade |