Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP - you come across as needy, co-dependent, and suffocating.

Am I really that bad? He's my first boyfriend.

Yes. You are clingy and passive aggressive. He is allowed to have a life. Who wants to engineer an exuberant greeting after getting home from work on Monday and then deal with pouting afterward? Are you the one who was mad your boyfriend didn't book you a groupon getaway for Memorial Day?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP - you come across as needy, co-dependent, and suffocating.

Am I really that bad? He's my first boyfriend.

Yes. You are clingy and passive aggressive. He is allowed to have a life. Who wants to engineer an exuberant greeting after getting home from work on Monday and then deal with pouting afterward? Are you the one who was mad your boyfriend didn't book you a groupon getaway for Memorial Day?

Yes I am.

Anonymous wrote:So last night, I feel bad about what happened.

My bf was away on a trip this weekend with his parents to visit his ailing grandmother.While there, he also had the chance to catch up with his childhood friends and had an emotional but fun weekend. He got back late Sunday night and we got in a tiff about how I felt left out of his weekend activities. After going back and forth, at 1 am we made up and said goodnight on the phone.

Yesterday I went over to his place after the gym. I hadn't seen him in 2 days and I was excited to hug him and kiss him! He walks in in a foul mood and doesn't even acknowledge me beyond a short, "hey" and goes to the kitchen to check where there's a bad smell coming from. Then he goes into his room and changes out of his suit and comes out. We then go out to get groceries for dinner. I'm then pouty all night because he didn't greet me warmly. After dinner he comments about my being pouty and I tell him why. He then says I'm being nitpicking and he is exhausted.

We had such an off night because I was pouty at not being acknowledged warmly and he is upset because he just got home from a long trip and he wanted to relax.

Not at all the romantic reunion I was expecting.

Does this ever happen to you?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP - you come across as needy, co-dependent, and suffocating.

Am I really that bad? He's my first boyfriend.

Yes. You are clingy and passive aggressive. He is allowed to have a life. Who wants to engineer an exuberant greeting after getting home from work on Monday and then deal with pouting afterward? Are you the one who was mad your boyfriend didn't book you a groupon getaway for Memorial Day?

Yes I am.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP - you come across as needy, co-dependent, and suffocating.

Am I really that bad? He's my first boyfriend.

Yes. You are clingy and passive aggressive. He is allowed to have a life. Who wants to engineer an exuberant greeting after getting home from work on Monday and then deal with pouting afterward? Are you the one who was mad your boyfriend didn't book you a groupon getaway for Memorial Day?

Yes I am.

OMG! Dude you need individual counseling STAT. WTF!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP - you come across as needy, co-dependent, and suffocating.

Am I really that bad? He's my first boyfriend.

Yes. You are clingy and passive aggressive. He is allowed to have a life. Who wants to engineer an exuberant greeting after getting home from work on Monday and then deal with pouting afterward? Are you the one who was mad your boyfriend didn't book you a groupon getaway for Memorial Day?

Yes I am.

OMG! Dude you need individual counseling STAT. WTF!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP - you come across as needy, co-dependent, and suffocating.

Am I really that bad? He's my first boyfriend.

Yes. You are clingy and passive aggressive. He is allowed to have a life. Who wants to engineer an exuberant greeting after getting home from work on Monday and then deal with pouting afterward? Are you the one who was mad your boyfriend didn't book you a groupon getaway for Memorial Day?

Yes I am.

OMG! Dude you need individual counseling STAT. WTF!

Link?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP - you come across as needy, co-dependent, and suffocating.

Am I really that bad? He's my first boyfriend.

Yes. You are clingy and passive aggressive. He is allowed to have a life. Who wants to engineer an exuberant greeting after getting home from work on Monday and then deal with pouting afterward? Are you the one who was mad your boyfriend didn't book you a groupon getaway for Memorial Day?

Yes I am.

OMG! Dude you need individual counseling STAT. WTF!

Link?

Anonymous wrote:PP again - or are you the poster who didn't change the toilet paper in your BF's house? Regardless, it sounds like he's frustrated by these fights.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:PP again - or are you the poster who didn't change the toilet paper in your BF's house? Regardless, it sounds like he's frustrated by these fights.

I think it is. hahaha she considered replacing an TP roll to be housekeeping and didnt want to overstep her bounds. What the hell is wrong with the bf for staying with this girl

Anonymous wrote:For your own sake, you need to cool the relationship to casual dating. You aren't mature enough to handle a grown up relationship if this is how you act.