Please know I do not reside her. I searched as searched until I found this site. I hope it's appropriate to ask this question here. Now let's get down to business..
I met a guy at a bar three weeks ago. It was a very quick and drunken meet - literally five minutes. We started texting, talking, and skyping. We set up a date for Saturday but I am hesitant on going. Reasons being: He has already called me baby, tells me he " likes me sooo much", I'm his dream girl, texts all day, everyday, and he asked for a naked picture. He saw a picture of my mom and I on FB and told me " I would like to see what you look like older". He always tells me he knows we will date bag be perfect for each other. I'm starting to get a little weirded out. I don't even know this guy so he sure as hell can't know any of this about me. I do want to get to know him but I'm hesitant due to his weird behavior. I'm not that experienced in relationships but I know most don't act like this. I need an outsiders opinion, please. |
No. Too much too soon. If it doesn't feel comfortable, respect your gut feeling. |
Nothing wrong with a second date in a public place. A quick drink, right? No dinner/movie or anything. Or you can cancel. The lesson here is that you don't meet the right man, drunk, at a bar. |
Guy here.
Psycho. Stay away. |
I think if you have to ask yourself "is he psycho?" this soon after meeting him, the answer is "Yes, he's psycho" and even if he isn't, he's not the man for you. |
Too much too soon, sounds controlling. |
Doesn't matter whether he's psycho. He makes you feel very uncomfortable. Listen to that. |
I think you have your answer. |
I think an old love just came back into your life. As in, give him a reason you can't seem him again. |
+1. Trust your gut! |
Ditto everyone. It's really ok to trust your gut. Guys that go overboard right away are freaky. You don't owe him anything. |
Another Guy here
I agree with first Guy (12:34) -- Stay away, he sounds nuts. |
This. Woman here. I'm sad to say I've dated this type. They truly are crazy and controlling then will never take no for an answer. That's when they turn psycho. Please run. So many other men out there. |
stay away you are a one and done |
So, you've had zero dates and only met for a few minutes while drunk. And he asks you for a naked picture? Yeah, creepy psycho. |