| If you cruised through four years of high school to get into Tufts, then cruise through another four years at Tufts, then what? I am not sure merely getting into Tufts means anything. Why do you think this is a good option? PP? |
Chicago ED options happened. Lots of HM kids go that route. |
look, i think you are the Harvard alum. Tufts isn't that, and not saying it is anywhere near that. why is it a good option - 1) good location, close to boston 2) small school feeling but has some research oppportunities if that's your thing 3) Fletcher 4) not known for cut throat. 5) good internship opportunities and grads get jobs for the most part. not sure why that's a bad thing. it's a pretty good school. |
People underestimate the tip top kids at good publics in nyc. The schools that use SHSAT or take tier 1 kids (hate to use tier again, but this is the term publics use). I have a kid at a top private and I hear a LOT of parents say, "he'd be in the top of the class at our public school". as a person who went to public school, I say, bullshit! He'd be top 10%, maybe. But from most publics, that aint getting you into an ivy. Unless you have a kid who is in the top 10% of the class at a private, I have no reason to think you'd be the top kid at beacon or Elro or Millennium or Brooklyn tech. None. And the top 10% in private can get into HYP anyway so who cares. |
I'm not missing anyone's point. I was responding to whether those colleges are better than the others. |
The top 20 percent of the stuy/bs are extremely smart. Like very smart. |
This is completely, completely true, and I apologize for suggesting otherwise. |
The suburb kid will come to learn grit and resilience through their HS experience, while you might have your child pick up rich kid habits (relying on parent's money) at the private HS. I don't think you will be able to magically turnoff the spending once you go down that path. They will want the same as their peer group. As an adult it takes a level of maturity to be able to handle the wealth disparity that is in your face while living in NYC, I don't know if I would want to subject my child (less mature) to it. |
I am pp. grew up in the burbs. Loved it. And so agree on the kids. On the one hand I feel like they are spoiled entitled kids but I don’t want them to go thru the suburban hs experience. (The college game part). I don’t think the wealth thing in nyc as big of a deal. We are comfortable. But not nyc wealthy. Not even close. But it doesn’t impact us day to day. |
It is fairly direct when people ask what you do for a living and where you live. Ask where you summer and if you are in the Hamptons on the weekend. The schools are also very direct with how they fundraise and seating arrangement at the gala. |
| The kids get fixated on wealth and talk about it non-stop. The only other place I remember kids this age talking about money this much was Great Neck. |
Ah great neck singled out of all the suburbs. Tell me you’re an anti semite without saying you’re an anti semite |
This happens in short hills Manhasset and Bedford too. |
Not the PP but if you tier her table by 10% increments on Ivy+WASP, you get these. 50+% Brearley (61): 60%; 19%; 53% | 2021-2025 Spence (64): 54%; 17%; 50% | 2021-2025 Collegiate (52): 52%; 12%; 48% | 2020-2024 Dalton (87): 52%; 16%; 48% | 2019-2024 40-50% Horace Mann (180): 42%; 6%; 42% | 2023-2025 *** lower bound; missing Stanford, MIT, Caltech, Amherst, Williams; <5 students Riverdale (116): 46%; 11%; 43% | 2020-2025 Saint Ann's (86): 45%; 13%; 35% | 2024-2025 Chapin (60): 43%; 11%; 38% | 2021-2025 30-40% Nightingale (57): 33%; 6%; 28% | 2021-2025 20-30% Fieldston (120): 28%; 3%; 24% | 2020-2025 Browning (25): 25%; 3%; 23% | 2021-2025 Regis (130): 25%; 6%; 22% | 2022-2025 Friends Seminary (74): 24%; 5%; 21% | 2021-2025 10-20% Packer (96): 19%; 5%; 16% | 2021-2025 Avenues (91): 19%; 3%; 17% | 2023 Dwight-Englewood (124): 17%; 3%; 16% | 2023-2025 Sacred Heart (56): 16%; 3%; 15% | 2021-2025 Poly Prep (128): 15%; 2%; 12% | 2021-2025 Marymount (50): 14%; 3%; 13% | 2020-2024 I wish I saw this 3 years ago when DD did K admissions. Fit was obviously important (who best to judge fit though than her interviewer who knows the school better than an open house and tour), but this is much more objective than the relative advice we got once we narrowed down (or were narrowed down) on fit. |
A lot of these numbers are off quite a bit. HM only lists colleges where "five or more HM graduates" matriculated during 2023 to 2025. It doesn't list colleges wherein 1-4 HM graduates matriculated. So the percentage is inaccurate. Nightingale ivy+wasp percentage should be 23% not 33% (68 kids in five years to ivy+wasp, class size 60). many others are off too. |