Has anyone in here had an affair with a mutual friend or a neighbor of theirs ?

[Anonymous]

A friend of mine told me she slept with her neighbor! She said it was amazing, and thrilling and maybe it was the sneaking around part, but she said she is head over heels for this man! They met because she’s a SAHM and she usually walks around the neighborhood with her kid. He just happened to be out doing yard work and her kid wanted to pet his dog. He is also married with a family of his own. She started to notice him more, and before she knew it, she found herself going near his street more and she noticed him near hers. Her husband travels for work, and the guy seems really handy, so he went over to fix something and before long things happened between them. I don’t know how to feel for her. She has a great husband. That much I know. I also know that at times she has felt trapped. I’m sure when this is all over, she will feel like sh*^. For now I just listen and try not to judge. This got me wondering if anyone has ever slept with a neighbor of theirs or a mutual friend and what happened? ..

[Anonymous]

MYOB

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend's husband's former wife did this.

She destroyed two marriages (with kids)

Her underwear was thrown on the street by the husband.

The ho married the affair partner and they all still live in the same neighborhood. Per the kids they are not matched well. New husband is an astrophysicist. The ho is stay at home (was a legal sect with high school degree). They have nothing in common. Kids say they fight a lot (tell their Dad this.)

[Anonymous]

I would tell friend to not involve me in her drama, and make it clear I would not cover for her.

[Anonymous]

Troll.

[Anonymous]

Don't you think people who have lived through this kind of thing IRL have suffered enough, without people like you posting BS stories like this one for them to read for now reason at all?

[Anonymous]

A woman in our friend group (I'm not particularly close to her) had an affair with a single dad also in the friend group. Her husband filed for divorce and she and the single dad got serious and later married. However they lost most of their friends as there were children involved and the friend group stemmed from a self defense gym that both the adults and kids belonged to. It was very awkward for awhile

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My girlfriend's husband's former wife did this.

She destroyed two marriages (with kids)

Her underwear was thrown on the street by the husband.

The ho married the affair partner and they all still live in the same neighborhood. Per the kids they are not matched well. New husband is an astrophysicist. The ho is stay at home (was a legal sect with high school degree). They have nothing in common. Kids say they fight a lot (tell their Dad this.)

Ha! I love this

[Anonymous]

My mom did this starting when I was 12. I found out on my own when I was 16. Total shitshow, two divorces, his kids are a wreck. He is a loser but he caters to my mom's every wish. It blew up friendships, carpools, the governing board of the town, everything. They are still together and it sucks.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My mom did this starting when I was 12. I found out on my own when I was 16. Total shitshow, two divorces, his kids are a wreck. He is a loser but he caters to my mom's every wish. It blew up friendships, carpools, the governing board of the town, everything. They are still together and it sucks.

Sorry. People like this suck. The epitome of selfishness and dysfunction.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My mom did this starting when I was 12. I found out on my own when I was 16. Total shitshow, two divorces, his kids are a wreck. He is a loser but he caters to my mom's every wish. It blew up friendships, carpools, the governing board of the town, everything. They are still together and it sucks.

Sorry. People like this suck. The epitome of selfishness and dysfunction.

I always wonder if people who are selfish enough to do this find it’s worth when lives are ruined. I wonder how long the two jerks stay together before admitting failure and regretting their decision. I’m so surprised your mom and this loser are still together.

[Anonymous]

Before you flame me please know that I feel awful about this and have truly changed. When I was an au pair I slept with my boss (it’s weird for me to say host dad)He was really sweet and his wife was awful. She would pick fights all the time and was disrespectful to people at work, in her family even to the kids and I. She used to go on business trips and girl trips all the time. A lot of times when she was away the kids would go to visit their grandparents. I stayed in the basement and one night went upstairs and we started talking and one thing led to another. We had an affair for months. He got really brave and would come down to my room when she went to bed. I thought I was in love with him and he told me he loved me. It become really awkward after a while. The closer we became, the more I annoyed I got when she was around. It become so unhealthy that I rematch and went across the country. After my year was up (back then you couldn’t extend) I came back to DC and I occasionally see them. They are still married. Anyway I see how horrible that was and I’m so sorry I ever got involved in that situation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My girlfriend's husband's former wife did this.

She destroyed two marriages (with kids)

Her underwear was thrown on the street by the husband.

The ho married the affair partner and they all still live in the same neighborhood. Per the kids they are not matched well. New husband is an astrophysicist. The ho is stay at home (was a legal sect with high school degree). They have nothing in common. Kids say they fight a lot (tell their Dad this.)

She is the ho. Other player gets to be called ex-husband. DCUM sexism on display once more!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Before you flame me please know that I feel awful about this and have truly changed. When I was an au pair I slept with my boss (it’s weird for me to say host dad)He was really sweet and his wife was awful. She would pick fights all the time and was disrespectful to people at work, in her family even to the kids and I. She used to go on business trips and girl trips all the time. A lot of times when she was away the kids would go to visit their grandparents. I stayed in the basement and one night went upstairs and we started talking and one thing led to another. We had an affair for months. He got really brave and would come down to my room when she went to bed. I thought I was in love with him and he told me he loved me. It become really awkward after a while. The closer we became, the more I annoyed I got when she was around. It become so unhealthy that I rematch and went across the country. After my year was up (back then you couldn’t extend) I came back to DC and I occasionally see them. They are still married. Anyway I see how horrible that was and I’m so sorry I ever got involved in that situation.

You were annoyed by her. The gall of you. You are a horrible person.

[Anonymous]

My stepmom and her family used to live across the street from us. I don't know the details, but clearly something was going on before she divorced her husband and my dad divorced my mom at about the same time.