Girlfriend Meeting Judgmental Friends

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if I was your gf and you introduced me to these friends of yours, I'd second guess you.

OP is a racist with shallow and snobby friends, if if doesn't run she's an idiot.

OP here. Why is race and politics being brought up? It has nothing to do with any of this. I’m not a racist and neither are my friends. You need to stop saying people are racist because you sound like a moron. Saying everyone is racist devalues the true sense of it. This is the problem with the world today and throwing around words so much that it has lost its true meaning. Someone isn’t a racist just because they don’t have the same viewpoints or opinions. Be a little more open minded and less of a bigot.

[Anonymous]

Introduce her to your friends and their wives. It should tell her some important information about you.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if I was your gf and you introduced me to these friends of yours, I'd second guess you.

OP is a racist with shallow and snobby friends, if if doesn't run she's an idiot.

OP here. Why is race and politics being brought up? It has nothing to do with any of this. I’m not a racist and neither are my friends. You need to stop saying people are racist because you sound like a moron. Saying everyone is racist devalues the true sense of it. This is the problem with the world today and throwing around words so much that it has lost its true meaning. Someone isn’t a racist just because they don’t have the same viewpoints or opinions. Be a little more open minded and less of a bigot.

What you wrote was racist. Period. Full stop. Don;t want someone calling your viewpoints racist, stop sharing racist viewpoints.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Can she handle* herself with these judgies I meant.

OP here. She can handle herself. She grew up as one of the only with kids in a predominantly Hispanic/Black area for half of her life. She is trained in various self defense methods. She is tough and knows how to hold her wok. Very sweet but it’s advised they don’t get on her bad side.

WTF is this supposed to mean? You sound more and more like an a-hole with each post!

OP here. It was a typo. I meant to say she grew up as one of the only white people in a predominantly Hispanic/black area for half of her life. She was bullied by many people for being white, mostly by one guy in particular who used to make fun of her everyday and said many times he was going to sexually assault her. She said she had a rough childhood because she grew up poor and was constantly bullied at school because of her clothes.
She didn’t have many friends when she was a kid because most of them refused to hang out with her because she was white. She started talking self defense classes as a teen because of it. She wanted to be able to defend herself. I’m saying she has been through some rough stuff and didn’t grow up in a sugar coated world. She knows how to protect herself and stand up for herself. She can hold her own.

OP you are a tired troll. Come up with some new schtick already.

[Anonymous]

I also suspect OP is the author of the Opposing viewpoints thread

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/60/969422.page#19912280

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if I was your gf and you introduced me to these friends of yours, I'd second guess you.

OP is a racist with shallow and snobby friends, if if doesn't run she's an idiot.

OP here. Why is race and politics being brought up? It has nothing to do with any of this. I’m not a racist and neither are my friends. You need to stop saying people are racist because you sound like a moron. Saying everyone is racist devalues the true sense of it. This is the problem with the world today and throwing around words so much that it has lost its true meaning. Someone isn’t a racist just because they don’t have the same viewpoints or opinions. Be a little more open minded and less of a bigot.

What you wrote was racist. Period. Full stop. Don;t want someone calling your viewpoints racist, stop sharing racist viewpoints.

How was it racist? Specifically.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if I was your gf and you introduced me to these friends of yours, I'd second guess you.

OP is a racist with shallow and snobby friends, if if doesn't run she's an idiot.

OP here. Why is race and politics being brought up? It has nothing to do with any of this. I’m not a racist and neither are my friends. You need to stop saying people are racist because you sound like a moron. Saying everyone is racist devalues the true sense of it. This is the problem with the world today and throwing around words so much that it has lost its true meaning. Someone isn’t a racist just because they don’t have the same viewpoints or opinions. Be a little more open minded and less of a bigot.

What you wrote was racist. Period. Full stop. Don;t want someone calling your viewpoints racist, stop sharing racist viewpoints.

How was it racist? Specifically.

+1. I’m not on OPs side but what specifically makes his statement racist? Him stating that she grew up in a community where she was one of the only people is not racist. Talking about her experience is not racist. Do you even understand the meaning of racist or do you just throw that word around when you get upset?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if I was your gf and you introduced me to these friends of yours, I'd second guess you.

OP is a racist with shallow and snobby friends, if if doesn't run she's an idiot.

OP here. Why is race and politics being brought up? It has nothing to do with any of this. I’m not a racist and neither are my friends. You need to stop saying people are racist because you sound like a moron. Saying everyone is racist devalues the true sense of it. This is the problem with the world today and throwing around words so much that it has lost its true meaning. Someone isn’t a racist just because they don’t have the same viewpoints or opinions. Be a little more open minded and less of a bigot.

What you wrote was racist. Period. Full stop. Don;t want someone calling your viewpoints racist, stop sharing racist viewpoints.

So, now stating where how you grew up is racist? The level of stupidity and outrage from people like you is comical. Stop trying to be so woke. I hate white liberals with their white savior nonsense. Pathetic.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if I was your gf and you introduced me to these friends of yours, I'd second guess you.

OP is a racist with shallow and snobby friends, if if doesn't run she's an idiot.

OP here. Why is race and politics being brought up? It has nothing to do with any of this. I’m not a racist and neither are my friends. You need to stop saying people are racist because you sound like a moron. Saying everyone is racist devalues the true sense of it. This is the problem with the world today and throwing around words so much that it has lost its true meaning. Someone isn’t a racist just because they don’t have the same viewpoints or opinions. Be a little more open minded and less of a bigot.

What you wrote was racist. Period. Full stop. Don;t want someone calling your viewpoints racist, stop sharing racist viewpoints.

How was it racist? Specifically.

+1. I’m not on OPs side but what specifically makes his statement racist? Him stating that she grew up in a community where she was one of the only people is not racist. Talking about her experience is not racist. Do you even understand the meaning of racist or do you just throw that word around when you get upset?

+1

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if I was your gf and you introduced me to these friends of yours, I'd second guess you.

OP is a racist with shallow and snobby friends, if if doesn't run she's an idiot.

OP here. Why is race and politics being brought up? It has nothing to do with any of this. I’m not a racist and neither are my friends. You need to stop saying people are racist because you sound like a moron. Saying everyone is racist devalues the true sense of it. This is the problem with the world today and throwing around words so much that it has lost its true meaning. Someone isn’t a racist just because they don’t have the same viewpoints or opinions. Be a little more open minded and less of a bigot.

What you wrote was racist. Period. Full stop. Don;t want someone calling your viewpoints racist, stop sharing racist viewpoints.

How was it racist? Specifically.

+1. I’m not on OPs side but what specifically makes his statement racist? Him stating that she grew up in a community where she was one of the only people is not racist. Talking about her experience is not racist. Do you even understand the meaning of racist or do you just throw that word around when you get upset?

+1

Stop sockpuppeting OP and stop playing stuid. You are the same person who posts the same racist post almost verbatim, you SO grew up with Hispanic and black kids and was bullied. It's old.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if I was your gf and you introduced me to these friends of yours, I'd second guess you.

OP is a racist with shallow and snobby friends, if if doesn't run she's an idiot.

OP here. Why is race and politics being brought up? It has nothing to do with any of this. I’m not a racist and neither are my friends. You need to stop saying people are racist because you sound like a moron. Saying everyone is racist devalues the true sense of it. This is the problem with the world today and throwing around words so much that it has lost its true meaning. Someone isn’t a racist just because they don’t have the same viewpoints or opinions. Be a little more open minded and less of a bigot.

What you wrote was racist. Period. Full stop. Don;t want someone calling your viewpoints racist, stop sharing racist viewpoints.

How was it racist? Specifically.

+1. I’m not on OPs side but what specifically makes his statement racist? Him stating that she grew up in a community where she was one of the only people is not racist. Talking about her experience is not racist. Do you even understand the meaning of racist or do you just throw that word around when you get upset?

+1

Stop sockpuppeting OP and stop playing stuid. You are the same person who posts the same racist post almost verbatim, you SO grew up with Hispanic and black kids and was bullied. It's old.

I am not the OP, but I AM the +1 poster above. Calm down.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if I was your gf and you introduced me to these friends of yours, I'd second guess you.

OP is a racist with shallow and snobby friends, if if doesn't run she's an idiot.

OP here. Why is race and politics being brought up? It has nothing to do with any of this. I’m not a racist and neither are my friends. You need to stop saying people are racist because you sound like a moron. Saying everyone is racist devalues the true sense of it. This is the problem with the world today and throwing around words so much that it has lost its true meaning. Someone isn’t a racist just because they don’t have the same viewpoints or opinions. Be a little more open minded and less of a bigot.

What you wrote was racist. Period. Full stop. Don;t want someone calling your viewpoints racist, stop sharing racist viewpoints.

How was it racist? Specifically.

+1. I’m not on OPs side but what specifically makes his statement racist? Him stating that she grew up in a community where she was one of the only people is not racist. Talking about her experience is not racist. Do you even understand the meaning of racist or do you just throw that word around when you get upset?

+1

Stop sockpuppeting OP and stop playing stuid. You are the same person who posts the same racist post almost verbatim, you SO grew up with Hispanic and black kids and was bullied. It's old.

I am not the OP, but I AM the +1 poster above. Calm down.

Troll 101 claiming not be a troll and not to be the OP.
Telling people to calm down when racism is called out straight from the racist playbook. Tucker Carlson would be proud.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:This is about education, not income.

OP you sound misogynistic if you think your friends are so great but ALL the wives suck?

This! OP is intimidated by their wives because he knows he probably can’t get the same caliber. So he insults them and says they are ALL meanies. I expect the op’s response is he would never be interested in them. The high earning wives are probably also very attractive and into fitness. Though I am sure the response will be they are not and are fat. Seeing the pattern here.

Very perceptive and a valid theory. It is interesting that the OP did not respond to the question of how his girlfriend compares to the wives in looks. If the girlfriend is less hot, then this is probably about the OP's own insecurity. If the GF is hotter, then who cares what the wives think of her career? It is hard to analyze this much further until we know how the GF compares.

OP here. I haven’t been on here for the last couple of days to respond. I’ve been very busy with work.

As for your question, they are all technically considered attractive. There are 5 wives - one of which I don’t find attractive. She’s nice, but not my type at all. Very knew with a runners body and no T&A. I like my women with curves. The rest are all attractive. Everyone is fit except the one who has two kids, but I assume that is pretty normal.

I’m not intimated by them. They are nice people but feel like it’s their place to make sure I find someone “ good enough”. That’s exactly what happened with one of my friends former girlfriends ( he’s now engaged). She was a receptionist and very lovely. They told him how he can do better and needed someone on par with his career and lifestyle.

My girlfriend is just as attractive. She’s a little younger than them, but only by a couple of years. She’s fit with big boobs, like I like em. She has a bachelors degree and is very smart. She’s just so cute, sexy, and funny.

I talked to my friends and told them to tell their wives to tone things down. I like her and I do not want them to say anything. That’s a whole other story if they actually tell them. They are not terrible people. They just think they know what’s best for us. Each of them did it when they found their wives. My friends are fine. One can be a bit like them, but none are. The funniest thing is we all grew up in very middle class homes without money. Most of the wives grew up a little more affluent.

OP I was with you until this post. You sound superficial and misogynistic. You met her through work but she is apparently lower on the totem pole than you - I bet that’s what your friends are judging you for. It’s like a lawyer/secretary or doctor/nurse situation. I cringe when I see guys in a higher power position prey on who they see as the “help.” You could do better but you prefer someone who will just be pretty, take care from you, and put you on a pedestal. Yuck.

[Anonymous]

I always say single women friends keep women single. But I suppose this applies to some men, too.

OP, your friends are terrible people. Full stop. Your girlfriend is more than her income to you, I hope. The best people I know don't earn much money at all, actually.

If you truly like/love her, then you will avoid introducing her to these vipers. That's what they are: vipers. Don't feed her to them. She will feel very uncomfortable.

Find new friends. These wives will keep you a single man for a very, very long time.

[Anonymous]

OP, you writing style is a little bit stiff, as if you are indeed from India.

I am foreign born, have 3 masters' degrees (legal and finance). I was making well over 100K in my 30s at a US bank, couple years after moving to DC. Then I switched to real estate development (own business). 10 years later, my "corporate" career is just a lifestyle job for benefits and to meet people (I make $60K salary, like your girlfriend). But I now have a net worth of $4mm and make $250K more in rental income and own a commercial muti-tuni property in DC.

I wonder would you be shy of my "corporate" $60K salary, too?