Girlfriend Meeting Judgmental Friends

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can she handle* herself with these judgies I meant.

OP here. She can handle herself. She grew up as one of the only with kids in a predominantly Hispanic/Black area for half of her life. She is trained in various self defense methods. She is tough and knows how to hold her wok. Very sweet but it’s advised they don’t get on her bad side.

This typo is giving me life! I can just imagine OP’s GF defending herself against a group of snooty b*tches with her wok.

I didn't realize it was a typo. I thought it meant she is a really good cook.

[Anonymous]

You should try to remember that you won't be friends with these people forever. Marry who you like and move on with your own lives.

[Anonymous]

Here's my take on the situation. OP and his so-called 'friends' are immigrants and not the walking-across-the-border type but rather the H-1B type.
These people are the worst brown nosing strivers one can imagine. Ugh.
OP, you're not from arouns here originally, are you? You sound pretty pathetic and insecure yourself and are projecting your insecurity on your poor date.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here's my take on the situation. OP and his so-called 'friends' are immigrants and not the walking-across-the-border type but rather the H-1B type.
These people are the worst brown nosing strivers one can imagine. Ugh.
OP, you're not from arouns here originally, are you? You sound pretty pathetic and insecure yourself and are projecting your insecurity on your poor date.

OP here. We are all white and born here. I grew up in the Midwest. Most of my friends are from the area. I’m not insecure but thanks for your observation.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here's my take on the situation. OP and his so-called 'friends' are immigrants and not the walking-across-the-border type but rather the H-1B type.
These people are the worst brown nosing strivers one can imagine. Ugh.
OP, you're not from arouns here originally, are you? You sound pretty pathetic and insecure yourself and are projecting your insecurity on your poor date.

I’m so curious why you thought they were Indian? I am and I didn’t think that at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can she handle* herself with these judgies I meant.

OP here. She can handle herself. She grew up as one of the only with kids in a predominantly Hispanic/Black area for half of her life. She is trained in various self defense methods. She is tough and knows how to hold her wok. Very sweet but it’s advised they don’t get on her bad side.

WTF is this supposed to mean? You sound more and more like an a-hole with each post!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is about education, not income.

OP you sound misogynistic if you think your friends are so great but ALL the wives suck?

This! OP is intimidated by their wives because he knows he probably can’t get the same caliber. So he insults them and says they are ALL meanies. I expect the op’s response is he would never be interested in them. The high earning wives are probably also very attractive and into fitness. Though I am sure the response will be they are not and are fat. Seeing the pattern here.

Very perceptive and a valid theory. It is interesting that the OP did not respond to the question of how his girlfriend compares to the wives in looks. If the girlfriend is less hot, then this is probably about the OP's own insecurity. If the GF is hotter, then who cares what the wives think of her career? It is hard to analyze this much further until we know how the GF compares.

OP here. I haven’t been on here for the last couple of days to respond. I’ve been very busy with work.

As for your question, they are all technically considered attractive. There are 5 wives - one of which I don’t find attractive. She’s nice, but not my type at all. Very knew with a runners body and no T&A. I like my women with curves. The rest are all attractive. Everyone is fit except the one who has two kids, but I assume that is pretty normal.

I’m not intimated by them. They are nice people but feel like it’s their place to make sure I find someone “ good enough”. That’s exactly what happened with one of my friends former girlfriends ( he’s now engaged). She was a receptionist and very lovely. They told him how he can do better and needed someone on par with his career and lifestyle.

My girlfriend is just as attractive. She’s a little younger than them, but only by a couple of years. She’s fit with big boobs, like I like em. She has a bachelors degree and is very smart. She’s just so cute, sexy, and funny.

I talked to my friends and told them to tell their wives to tone things down. I like her and I do not want them to say anything. That’s a whole other story if they actually tell them. They are not terrible people. They just think they know what’s best for us. Each of them did it when they found their wives. My friends are fine. One can be a bit like them, but none are. The funniest thing is we all grew up in very middle class homes without money. Most of the wives grew up a little more affluent.

You literally created this post less thant 24 hrs before this reply, what are you talking about being away for a couple of days?

[Anonymous]

If these women are genuine friends, they will not be judging your new girlfriend based on her education + income.

Why would you want to socialize w/such judgmental people anyway??

[Anonymous]

Honestly, if I was your gf and you introduced me to these friends of yours, I'd second guess you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can she handle* herself with these judgies I meant.

OP here. She can handle herself. She grew up as one of the only with kids in a predominantly Hispanic/Black area for half of her life. She is trained in various self defense methods. She is tough and knows how to hold her wok. Very sweet but it’s advised they don’t get on her bad side.

WTF is this supposed to mean? You sound more and more like an a-hole with each post!

Let me guess - are you a Democrat?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can she handle* herself with these judgies I meant.

OP here. She can handle herself. She grew up as one of the only with kids in a predominantly Hispanic/Black area for half of her life. She is trained in various self defense methods. She is tough and knows how to hold her wok. Very sweet but it’s advised they don’t get on her bad side.

WTF is this supposed to mean? You sound more and more like an a-hole with each post!

Let me guess - are you a Democrat?

Let me guess you're a racist, oh wait, I don't actually have to guess that's obvious.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Honestly, if I was your gf and you introduced me to these friends of yours, I'd second guess you.

OP is a racist with shallow and snobby friends, if if doesn't run she's an idiot.

[Anonymous]

This is so odd to me, I truly don’t understand it. I would never be snobby or rude towards someone entering my social circle. Especially if they were a kind and friendly person.

Ultimately it is up to your girlfriend to decide if she wants to put up with this nonsense if she does end up encountering it.

I am questioning how all of your friends ended up marrying such judgmental people...birds of a feather, perhaps?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Can she handle* herself with these judgies I meant.

OP here. She can handle herself. She grew up as one of the only with kids in a predominantly Hispanic/Black area for half of her life. She is trained in various self defense methods. She is tough and knows how to hold her wok. Very sweet but it’s advised they don’t get on her bad side.

WTF is this supposed to mean? You sound more and more like an a-hole with each post!

OP here. It was a typo. I meant to say she grew up as one of the only white people in a predominantly Hispanic/black area for half of her life. She was bullied by many people for being white, mostly by one guy in particular who used to make fun of her everyday and said many times he was going to sexually assault her. She said she had a rough childhood because she grew up poor and was constantly bullied at school because of her clothes.
She didn’t have many friends when she was a kid because most of them refused to hang out with her because she was white. She started talking self defense classes as a teen because of it. She wanted to be able to defend herself. I’m saying she has been through some rough stuff and didn’t grow up in a sugar coated world. She knows how to protect herself and stand up for herself. She can hold her own.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is about education, not income.

OP you sound misogynistic if you think your friends are so great but ALL the wives suck?

This! OP is intimidated by their wives because he knows he probably can’t get the same caliber. So he insults them and says they are ALL meanies. I expect the op’s response is he would never be interested in them. The high earning wives are probably also very attractive and into fitness. Though I am sure the response will be they are not and are fat. Seeing the pattern here.

Very perceptive and a valid theory. It is interesting that the OP did not respond to the question of how his girlfriend compares to the wives in looks. If the girlfriend is less hot, then this is probably about the OP's own insecurity. If the GF is hotter, then who cares what the wives think of her career? It is hard to analyze this much further until we know how the GF compares.

OP here. I haven’t been on here for the last couple of days to respond. I’ve been very busy with work.

As for your question, they are all technically considered attractive. There are 5 wives - one of which I don’t find attractive. She’s nice, but not my type at all. Very knew with a runners body and no T&A. I like my women with curves. The rest are all attractive. Everyone is fit except the one who has two kids, but I assume that is pretty normal.

I’m not intimated by them. They are nice people but feel like it’s their place to make sure I find someone “ good enough”. That’s exactly what happened with one of my friends former girlfriends ( he’s now engaged). She was a receptionist and very lovely. They told him how he can do better and needed someone on par with his career and lifestyle.

My girlfriend is just as attractive. She’s a little younger than them, but only by a couple of years. She’s fit with big boobs, like I like em. She has a bachelors degree and is very smart. She’s just so cute, sexy, and funny.

I talked to my friends and told them to tell their wives to tone things down. I like her and I do not want them to say anything. That’s a whole other story if they actually tell them. They are not terrible people. They just think they know what’s best for us. Each of them did it when they found their wives. My friends are fine. One can be a bit like them, but none are. The funniest thing is we all grew up in very middle class homes without money. Most of the wives grew up a little more affluent.

You literally created this post less thant 24 hrs before this reply, what are you talking about being away for a couple of days?

OP here. I meant a couple of hours, but I couldn’t really remember when I posted it. I’ve been busy.