I'm caught on this one. You obviously allow the clothing so why not together if that's how she chooses to wear them?
Don't buy the clothes if you don't want her to wear them. I think it looks better with either short shorts or a more revealing top, but I'm not wearing it. |
DP. “Freaking teenager” is a broad category, just like “freaking adult”. “Cool moms” are exhausting. |
I don't care. Some teens will be sex traded anyways. If they take away the negative male attention and thus make other kids safer, then society wins. Besides, someone has to take on the job of the stripper too. Better someone else's kid. |
LOL |
I find it interesting that many of the responders on this thread are like "yes you should control how your teenage daughter dresses; her autonomy in this regard means nothing." Whereas on the thread about a teen choosing her safety over her reach school, the consensus was "you should trust her judgment." But the latter is a much more momentous decision than what shirt she picks out. A disturbing number of you seem to view the female body as inherently sexual and entirely through the prism of the male view. I hope you're not raising sons. |
You are very confused. Those are two much different events and age levels. But good job conflating issues. You get an A. I hope you're not raising a child. |
You can alert her to this possibility but do you really think she has not observed the effect that wearing certain styles has on some people? Teens are anything but clueless about fashion. I refuse to turn style into a battleground as my parents did. I went to college and wore exactly what I wanted and decided on my own to shift to a more conservative look. Let your DD grow. |
And so what? This thread is ridiculous OP's daughter will be pregnant at 15 or abused, either way, it's because she's a judgemental idiot instead of being a good parent. Duggars perfect example of disgusting horrible ultra-conservative religious parents. |
+1 and don't forget that some of us received unwanted attention no matter WHAT we were wearing. Don't you moms remember that? I sure do. Prepare them for that! |
+1 Unwanted attention can come when they're wearing a hoodie and sweat pants |
For real. Creep’s gonna creep. |
If you talked to my daughter she would tell you that I am not at all cool! Lol I guess treating your child as a person now is being a “cool mom” |
Soooo... if you don’t allow your daughter to be a Kardashian, you’re hyperbolically “a Duggar”. Ok. P.s.: I’m a non-religious liberal. |
I am a bit lost too. On the one hand, no amount of nakedness would ever excuse unwanted touch or behavior. On the other hand, there is no denying that we are animals and nakedness produces a sexual response in both men and women. Wearing ultra-revealing clothes give kids (and women) different form of attention than wearing other form of clothing. For a teenage girl who just developed, it is tempting to play and expererience with that power/attention. Not sure that where I will draw the line if/when my daughters (now in oversized outfits) will ask, but I would have a full conversation with them about all this. |
This is my 1st post in this thread, but wow PP, you are rude, a troll, and outrageously hypocritical in your harsh judgements of everyone else but complaining that others who express their opinions about what is going on with girls who dress in revealing clothing are looking for or communicating. It's possible for reasonable people to disagree on all of this. But your posts in particular seem to be solely intended to piss off, shame, frustrate, or anger others. It's BS, it's not helpful to the discussion, and you must be really bored to enjoy trying to stir the pot the way you are. |