6 dates in and we're still just talking. Huh??

[Anonymous]

ED is possible, but unless it just started, he probably could easily deal with it via a pill.

[Anonymous]

I had a similar situation with my husband. In the beginning we went on almost 2 months of weekly dates with not much more than making out. I was mad! Apparently he thought he was being a nice guy and moving slow. Anyways, we’ve been married 16 yrs.

[Anonymous]

HIV is more common than you think.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:HIV is more common than you think.

Does he have a house in Virginia?

[Anonymous]

What were the circumstances of his divorce ?

[Anonymous]

Are you sure he isn't married?

[Anonymous]

Have you been to his home?

[Anonymous]

He has ED and has not dealt with the problem.

[Anonymous]

As the poster said back at 19:49...be aggressive with him, if nothing then walk...on the other hand if he has ED or an STD you’re a doctor, handle that the way your training tells you...he may be relieved and you both may end up with some “relief” lol.

[Anonymous]

ED for sure. So embarrassing when they don't give you a heads up. Lol!

I had the same thing happen to me. Like really? Own your own shit.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:ED for sure. So embarrassing when they don't give you a heads up. Lol!

I had the same thing happen to me. Like really? Own your own shit.

Wow, sorry it "happened to you." How traumatic it must have been for you. Rest assured that it was 1000x worse for the guy who has to live with the humiliation and embarrassment, and your no doubt clueless reaction. Why on Earth do some women insist on making ED about themselves and somehow being the victims? Do you ever think about how other people are affected by situations or it all about you?

Also, ED is not like losing a limb, where you either have it or you don't. It's a gradual thing that can periodically appear and is often impacted by medication and anxiety. I doubt very much that any man would knowingly put himself into this situation.

Actually, OP's boyfriend DID experience ED with a woman, and she reacted the PP did. Now, he's super nervous about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:ED for sure. So embarrassing when they don't give you a heads up. Lol!

I had the same thing happen to me. Like really? Own your own shit.

Wow, sorry it "happened to you." How traumatic it must have been for you. Rest assured that it was 1000x worse for the guy who has to live with the humiliation and embarrassment, and your no doubt clueless reaction. Why on Earth do some women insist on making ED about themselves and somehow being the victims? Do you ever think about how other people are affected by situations or it all about you?

Also, ED is not like losing a limb, where you either have it or you don't. It's a gradual thing that can periodically appear and is often impacted by medication and anxiety. I doubt very much that any man would knowingly put himself into this situation.

Actually, OP's boyfriend DID experience ED with a woman, and she reacted the PP did. Now, he's super nervous about it.

It sounds like OP would be willing to deal with ED; she said she could work with that, as there’s treatment available. She’s just understandably frustrated with not knowing why this guy is taking things at a snail’s pace.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Men don't want to make out. They might make out when it might lead to sex (and this guy doesn't want sex right now .. for whatever reason)

Newsflash: women get a say (or are supposed to) about whether making out will lead to sex. And for most of us we'd prefer the former before the latter. If this guy won't even go for a real kiss without the expectation of getting his wick dipped, then it sounds like OP is good to let this one go.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men don't want to make out. They might make out when it might lead to sex (and this guy doesn't want sex right now .. for whatever reason)

Newsflash: women get a say (or are supposed to) about whether making out will lead to sex. And for most of us we'd prefer the former before the latter. If this guy won't even go for a real kiss without the expectation of getting his wick dipped, then it sounds like OP is good to let this one go.

Wick dipped! I'll have to use that line on my DH sometime. "Honey, would you like to get your wick dipped?"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men don't want to make out. They might make out when it might lead to sex (and this guy doesn't want sex right now .. for whatever reason)

Newsflash: women get a say (or are supposed to) about whether making out will lead to sex. And for most of us we'd prefer the former before the latter. If this guy won't even go for a real kiss without the expectation of getting his wick dipped, then it sounds like OP is good to let this one go.

Wick dipped! I'll have to use that line on my DH sometime. "Honey, would you like to get your wick dipped?"

You're welcome! It's one of my favorites.